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Hey, guys!! I was wondering how much I would like to be a proffessional músician. Thing I neither can dream bc of my avoidance. The single idea of perform something in front of people sounds like impossible for me. With time and experience, I learnt to sing and dance and make any kind of role plays in front of my learners and some coworkers but... by April72
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Yesterday, I was talking with a friend (an avoidant) about childhood. Her childhood, on the contrary to mine, was horrible. She knew soon what being an outsider meant. It's sad. Children shouldn't suffer for anything. I, on the contrary, was a normie. Yes, I can say that there was a part of my life when I was a normal person. The only... by April72
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I hate making plans. I hate when people ask me to do something with them days in advance, even the day before, because it makes me feel trapped. What if the day comes and I don't feel like going? I hate bringing people along on trips because it means if I'm driving east and in the middle of it I decide I want to go north, I might not be... by Pacific_Loner
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I read an article some time ago about the difference (so the main idea of the article was that there is a difference) between being shy and being an introvert. More than shy, I'd rather consider myself an introvert :I never get bored by myself, I enjoy my own company more than the company of others.Of course there are moments when i actually... by simona
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It's only a kidding thread, but it could be good to rant a bit. If there would be an Armagedonn, who would you save? Bruce Willes doesn't count for obvious reasons, he is the one who has to make the sacrified and I have heard that he is a Psychopath. Discuss! :) by April72
by Kiwong Go to last post
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Avoidants use to avoid looking for help and seek any kind of therapy or going to the psychiatrists bc they find very hard to trust someone enough to open them up to another person and tell about the most prívate stuff. I went to a therapist for the first time when I was in a desperate situation. I couldn't cope with my issues on my own. It... by April72
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im too chicken to jump off a building, and I dont have a gun, so if you could just give me some suggestions on leaving this fake world quickly and painlessly that would be much appreciated. by Forever_Alone
by Forever_Alone Go to last post
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Hi everyone. I've just joined after finding out my diagnosis. I had to get a form from my therapist to help get money from my insurance and I found out from that. I could have asked my therapist if he had a diagnosis but never wanted to ask. It was interesting reading about this personality disorder and finding this forum and reading the comments,... by Izzie
by williamreinsch Go to last post
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I know the logical answer. Step out of my comfort zone, make a collected effort to keep in contact and hang out. But these actions feel like things I will have to relearn and force myself to do. How hard is it to text someone right? People ask me that alot. My answer is, incredibly hard for me most of the time. I don't want to intentionally... by Lamb
by jayfan Go to last post
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I feel like a crappy friend. Which makes me want to avoid people even more. I don'thave a lot of close friends, there are very few people that I feel comfortable with and those are usually people I feel like I'm neglecting. Thankfully though, those few I can go weeks without talking to them and we're still just as close. However, I have... by wrongdirection
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I am trying to understand this "issue" a bit more...I think the person I tried to befriend who got "upset" with me for calling him a friend may have this. However, he has two close friends. So every site I see basically says people with APD have 0 close friends.... so is that true or can you have 1 or 2? how do you react to new people wanting to... by MNM322
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What makes you forget that you're an avie There are few moments when I don't feel an avie. So, I try to live them with intensity. I really don't feel an avie when I'm singing a song that touches my heart, when a kid of mine gives me a hug or jokes with me and when people are sensitive enough to treat me as one of them and when I'm in nature... by April72
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Well, maybe not right this instant but within a week or two weeks ;) I really want to go ice skating again. I did that quite a lot last winter and I was looking forward to the season starting again. But now it's here, the ice rinks have been opened for over a month and I still haven't been. I feel so stupid because I could do it last year, but... by Aylaa
by kay08 Go to last post
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I'm embarrassed to begin a new thread. Some days ago, I was called an attention seeker. But, I know the user who said this was a bit angry with me and doesn't know me at all. I had lost my best friend due to abandonment issues. He is also an avoidant but has this problem as well that has to be with an intense fear of rejection, so he left... by April72
by Darryl Go to last post
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This is, without any doubt, the topic I'm moré concern in now. I want to talk with you about friendship. It's not that I have many knowledge in the topic, on the contrary, I'm looking for your thoughts. The thing is that in a few months I have lost three friends for several reasons. I had to cut off one of the friendship for a 3rd person,... by April72
by Aylaa Go to last post
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I'd like to honour these little hairy balls with this thread and mainly, I'd like to encourage you to put a dog in your life. My heart breaks each time I have a new about a dog that is abandomed or mistreated. For example, some days ago, in my own city, a doggie was put into a rubbish container. Luckily, someone heard and rescued him. The... by April72
by April72 Go to last post
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I always found very difficult to have relations with members of the oppossite sex. I had a father who never helped me in the understanding of males. Now, with age, I had the opportunity to have male friends but they all cross the line. When I need a friendship, they had another agenda. I'm talking about sex. I'm very dissaponted because I... by April72
by NathanielWingatePeaslee Go to last post
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Let's see: • stop smoking • loose weight • being moré sociable • being moré constant in my French lessons • remember all these points in 2016 list. Lol! I'm remember when I use to write this kind of lists, i put the list in an apple and then, I buried the apple. No, it was a moré serious list than the above. I really needed some things... by April72
by NamiraWilhelm Go to last post
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Escapism (Multi-page thread 1 2)
To be honest, life sucks. I still don't know if I am moré avoidant because of my social inadecuency or because I never liked the reality in the way it is. I don't know what was first. Since I was a child, then in adolescence moré often, I used to do day dreaming a lot. Now, it's rare I do it. Now, what I usually do is using the internet or... by April72
by LazyHermitCrab Go to last post
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I don't care about Christmas but any way, I wish you all be happier from now. This is one of my favourite tópics. I like to smile, even of the Avoidance, so I wanted to encourage you to tell a sticking, uncomfortable, embarrassing situation you lived but that you can see now with a bit of humor. Any embarrassing situation may be a bother, a... by April72
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