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WeirdyMcGee

WeirdyMcGee

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...not that it's really my business but if your own life is a mess, maybe dating a confessed crack addict isn't a good idea?
But really... what do I know? -__-'
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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twiggle said:
I really hate it when my friends date immature control-freaks who make derogatory comments all the time and try and make my friends as subservient to them as possible whilst trying to govern their dreams and aspirations, e.g "you're not going to do that are you."

And I hate the fact that I have to hear about how its upsetting my friends all the time, but when I'm asked to give my honest advice I just know that it's falling on deaf ears and they'll stay with these people anyway just because it makes life that little bit easier. And then, obviously, this is just a minor blip of course because as soon as everything is 'rosey' in the relationship again, friend goes off-radar a little bit.

And worst of all, is that if I were to express all this.... I'd just look like 'the jealous single friend' when, honest to God, I'm pretty much choosing not to look for a relationship nor pursue things with a couple of people who have recently expressed interest in dating me, mainly because I want to wait until I'm a bit further along my chosen path of life so that nobody can try and woo me into choices that aren't my own.

Ramble ramble.
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What can you say, though? You can give them your brutally honest opinions but it's up to them to take it. I have known a few couples where one side is completely dominant, but I have just kept it quiet.

I know what you mean about friends going off the radar...I had a good friend who started dating my neighbour and I barely saw him during that 3 years. It was crazy. Sorry to hear this is all happening to you.

WeirdyMcGee said:
...not that it's really my business but if your own life is a mess, maybe dating a confessed crack addict isn't a good idea?
But really... what do I know? -__-'
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More than other people, apparently.

My neighbour two doors up was on her front lawn, yelling into her phone about how she was going to be dobbed in to the cops and telling her she was not going to bash her and all sorts of garbage. Why couldn't she take it inside and not let the whole neighbourhood know of her stupid problems? :mad:
 
MsBuzzkillington

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Other primates? Like lots of humans? :p Just kidding.

My random thought... yesterday I wasn't that hungry. I was able to eat a normal amount and I didn't overly snack. But today, I am HUNGRY. I can't seem to fill the empty void of my stomach. Trying hard not to keep snacking, but it's like... uncontrollable. I hate these days. Why are some days like this? I wish today could be like yesterday. Yesterday was such a successful today. Today, I can't seem to stop.
 
BlueDays

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MsBuzzkillington said:
My random thought... yesterday I wasn't that hungry. I was able to eat a normal amount and I didn't overly snack. But today, I am HUNGRY. I can't seem to fill the empty void of my stomach. Trying hard not to keep snacking, but it's like... uncontrollable. I hate these days. Why are some days like this? I wish today could be like yesterday. Yesterday was such a successful today. Today, I can't seem to stop.
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Are you sleeping well before you get these urges to constantly snack?
Lack of sleep can make your body crave food (particularly high calorie food) to gain an energy boost when sleep deprived.
 
MsBuzzkillington

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BlueDays said:
Are you sleeping well before you get these urges to constantly snack?
Lack of sleep can make your body crave food (particularly high calorie food) to gain an energy boost when sleep deprived.
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Yeah, I slept plenty, 8 hours. I am not so much craving food as I am stomach grumbling ACTUALLY hungry. Well, maybe it is. I think maybe I have to drink some more liquids or something. Trying that. I really hate days like these.
 
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DeadmanWalking

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I went out to a reading tonight and I really enjoyed the stories there. But, seeing everyone there, talking to one another, really put into perspective how I really don't have any friends on campus. It gets lonely sometimes (alot). Of course, this is mostly (all of) my fault.
 
Shyangel

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I've had way more social interaction then I wanted today....Not very much, honestly, but still too much for me. I was at Wal-Mart and for some reason people just feel like saying hi to me today, I think they enjoy watching me squirm...I was just walking by the electronic isle and some girl thought she would give me a enthusiastic " Hi!" and say she loved my hair...She was so loud and over baring I was nearly knocked off my feet from shock. I barley got out a scared to death, " Doing well, thanks, I like your hair to. " Then I took off. Haha! After that I took my niece to play in Wal-mart's game area. There was 2 crazy out going kids there running around and they wouldn't stop talking to me, not to mention, one of them tried to get in a fight with my niece... Oh my god I was so over whelmed...I'm trying to be the adult authority figure and tell them to cool down or I'm gonna get there mom, but of course, that came out as a little squeak...-.-.....I was so happy when my sister came over and said it was time to go....:D
 
BlueDays

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Absolutely_Sweet_Marie said:
Feeling fine tonight. Secretly came by just to say hi to everybody. *waves*
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*waves back to Marie*
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Glad to read you are feeling fine.:)
 
MikeyC

MikeyC

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DeadmanWalking said:
I went out to a reading tonight and I really enjoyed the stories there. But, seeing everyone there, talking to one another, really put into perspective how I really don't have any friends on campus. It gets lonely sometimes (alot). Of course, this is mostly (all of) my fault.
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I'd be your friend. :)

Shyangel said:
I've had way more social interaction then I wanted today....Not very much, honestly, but still too much for me. I was at Wal-Mart and for some reason people just feel like saying hi to me today, I think they enjoy watching me squirm...I was just walking by the electronic isle and some girl thought she would give me a enthusiastic " Hi!" and say she loved my hair...She was so loud and over baring I was nearly knocked off my feet from shock. I barley got out a scared to death, " Doing well, thanks, I like your hair to. " Then I took off. Haha! After that I took my niece to play in Wal-mart's game area. There was 2 crazy out going kids there running around and they wouldn't stop talking to me, not to mention, one of them tried to get in a fight with my niece... Oh my god I was so over whelmed...I'm trying to be the adult authority figure and tell them to cool down or I'm gonna get there mom, but of course, that came out as a little squeak...-.-.....I was so happy when my sister came over and said it was time to go....:D
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Ah, sometimes this can happen. I think you did okay under the circumstances, to be honest. Unwanted, surprise socialising can make us feel unprepared. I don't know what I would've done with the other kid starting a fight!

phocas said:
Its ok to make misteaks
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Yes, you're allowed to cook my steaks. ;)

Absolutely_Sweet_Marie said:
Feeling fine tonight. Secretly came by just to say hi to everybody. *waves*
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Hi, Marie! Long time no see on this site. Glad to hear you're feeling fine. :)
 
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