I like to ramble with issues like the one that is brought up in this thread.
My question to society is why do you want children?
I'm one of the minorities (minority as in one of the people that actually doesn't want children ever) in this world and whenver I've told people I don't want children the responses have been ridiculous. they act like I just said I want to kill someone.
You guys should have seen me go at it with this divorced lady once when I was in high school. She was one of my friend's moms and I was a guest at their house for basketball. Anyway, there was a kid in the room so the normal crap happened, the woman brings up how I don't talk enough (her opinion) and I say, so what? I don't like to talk much.
Then she says, "Women don't like guys that don't talk. You won't be able to get a g/f or get married like that." And I say, "Great! I don't want to get married." Which by the way, I still don't want to get married and have become more convinced that I'm better off without marriage.
Then she says, "Well don't you ever want any kids?" I say, "No. Why would I want kids?"
Then she starts taking the victim approach saying stuff like "You don't like my son?" It was rather pathetic if you ask me. To degrade me for not wanting kids that is.
Anyway, my point is that people like the woman that said that stuff, they are very common and are everywhere. There is something wrong with society, and it needs to be fixed.
People who don't want kids are not bad people. When are all these "things have to be our way" society people going to stop being so freaking narrow-minded? Not all children turn out to be saints.....some turn out to be murderers, criminals or just plain a-holes. There are some people that just shouldn't be having kids. I am one of them.