Dronee
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Now I recall why you look so familiar
... We helpful monks are always mistaken for pimps. Haha... just kidding. There's no way that could happen. We're much better looking!
The best way to approach Girls
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Now I recall why you look so familiar
... We helpful monks are always mistaken for pimps. Haha... just kidding. There's no way that could happen. We're much better looking!
Dronee
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LOL So you're the sex trafficker. Helpful monks?
Nope I'm the helpful monk! We are very helpful. If we see a pimp lost in our territory, we fly him back to his home via a friendly nudge and feed him knuckle sandwiches. Ancient lore has it that two monks help a pretty woman, much like yourself, across a river. One of the monks carried the pretty woman and later set her down on other side. The other monk asked him, "Are we not forbidden to touch women?" The first monk replied, "Brother, I have set her down. Why is it that you have not?"...
Or something like that. My ancient monkish memory is failing. But if you come over and need a monk to carry you across a river or road... I can tell you the rest of the story while carrying you... (haha, kidding, don't be mad yar?)
On topic: I think there's no one specific way to approach someone. Personally, I feel that it's better to let things happen naturally at the workplace or social gatherings of friends... A few of my friends have done well with formal gatherings of singles. Some through chance encounter... and so on...
Edit: The story is something I heard somewhere... so can't claim credit lol!
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Pookah
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Eam
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That's embarrassing, how did the guy react?
I found your final piece of advice funny. :
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Bama_Heath
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The best way to approach a girl is by simply being confident in yourself. I know it's easier said than done. Girls are generally not attracted to needy, shy guys with low self esteem. You have to kind of be 'Han Solo'. Be witty...girls like guys that make them laugh. Walk the fine line between being confident and cocky...but more confident. Don't be a jerk. Girls like 'badboys'....not 'choirboys'.
Pookah
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Meh, Han Solo sucks. Spock all the way!
Bama_Heath
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LOL....Yeah Spock is quite the ladies man....we can't all be as sexy as Mr. Nemoy though
BlackKids
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Very true. Today I was talking to a girl and I felt so at ease and confident. Conversation was fun, I told her she could take me out to which she giggled and replied she would.
I talked to a girl on friday and it felt like a complete balls. Didn't talk very much and when I did I didn't engage. BLAH! I guess some days your just in the zone.
I always find it strange girls say they want a nice guy but naaaaaaaa they dont. Twats seem to get much more loving
Uber Schnitzel
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userremoved
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I always find these kind of threads incredibly depressing. Why? Because there is so much conflicting advice on them. Some like confident men, some like shy men. x_x Which leads me to believe that there really isn't any sure fire way to success with the opposite sex. It's all come down to the individual you approach and sheer luck. Why must something so simple be so complicated? Are we really that different from each other?
Redskinsfan
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You should have given him the chance.
Redskinsfan
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You're right. The truest statement i've ever heard about approaching women is that it's not an exact science.
What I find is that if you talk to them very calmly (like you have all the time in the world) they respond well. This includes talking very slowly and include some honesty.
Women like all types of confident men. Period. You can be on the quiet side and still be confident. I know of tons of people like that. Women hate WEAK men. Men with Social Anxiety are weak. If a girl picks up nervousness of any kind from a man, it's over.
Tiercel
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Forget about darts and chloroform, I'm ready to try approaching from behind with a stout wooden club. There's even a nice maple branch in the yard that will probably suffice with a little work.
It's straightforward. It's traditional. And I'm sure that after a few whacks I'll have worked out where to strike and where to avoid.
It's straightforward. It's traditional. And I'm sure that after a few whacks I'll have worked out where to strike and where to avoid.
LazyHermitCrab
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just say hey and hand over a piece of paper with your number
agoraphobickatie
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the best way to approach girls is.. CAUTIOUSLY! hahaha...
but seriously.. you have to get really good at figuring out what you think her feelings towards you may be first! before you say anything! see... if i'm into a guy and would prefer if he would say something to me rather than try to steal glances, i'll smile at him, smirk at him, do whatever to seem interested when he catches my eye! he could probably say almost anything goofy, silly, innocent or sweet and get away with it... however! if a guy is 'checking me out' and i'm not interested, i'll either avoid him like the plague, or straight up give him a sh!t look when he looks at me... it would not be good of him to say anything to me, because it'd just end up in rejection...
see what i'm sayin? i guess the best thing to do is try to catch her eye, see how she looks at you, and decide if you'd like to say something... if you do end up speaking, keep it cute, not too forward or 'romantic', try not to try too hard.. even if you come off as kinda shy, that's okay! if you seem a little shy, it might even make her feel more comfortable, ya know?
okay.. i'm done confusing people!
but seriously.. you have to get really good at figuring out what you think her feelings towards you may be first! before you say anything! see... if i'm into a guy and would prefer if he would say something to me rather than try to steal glances, i'll smile at him, smirk at him, do whatever to seem interested when he catches my eye! he could probably say almost anything goofy, silly, innocent or sweet and get away with it... however! if a guy is 'checking me out' and i'm not interested, i'll either avoid him like the plague, or straight up give him a sh!t look when he looks at me... it would not be good of him to say anything to me, because it'd just end up in rejection...
see what i'm sayin? i guess the best thing to do is try to catch her eye, see how she looks at you, and decide if you'd like to say something... if you do end up speaking, keep it cute, not too forward or 'romantic', try not to try too hard.. even if you come off as kinda shy, that's okay! if you seem a little shy, it might even make her feel more comfortable, ya know?
okay.. i'm done confusing people!