Social Anxiety - the question list

Foxface

Well-known member
1.How old are you?
23.

2.Are you male/female?
Male. :(

3.Do you have SA?
Yes.


4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100?

79.


5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety?

No.

6.Are you shy?
Yes, very.

7.What makes you anxious?
A lot of things, mostly girls and new situations.

8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?)
Yes: Welbrutin (Depression), Ciperlax (sp?) (Anxiety).

9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?)
No. I used to, but have gotten away from it.

10.Since when did your SA start?
Since I was a toddler, at the very latest.

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?
I don't have much support from anyone at all.

12.Do you actually like doing social stuff?
Not really. I have no one to do social stuff with.

13.Do you have friends?
None in real life, but I do have at least one on-line friend from the UK.

14.Do you have online friends?
Yes, luckily. :)

15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all?
At home, in my room, alone. Especially late at night.

16.Do you work, go to school?
I graduated from High School in 2007. I'm unable to get a job, due to
fruquent extrememly painful cnaker sores.

17.Do you have a relationship?
No.

18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?)
I hope so, but I've had it my whole life & it doesn't seem to get any better, so it most likely never will :( If I had someone, I can probably overome it a great deal.

19.What are your hobbies?
Driving, Exploring, Anything Adventurous, Movies, Music.

20.Do you drink? smoke?
No, No :)

21.Are you introvert of extrovert?
Extrovert?

22.Do you have any more disorders?
I have Asperger's Syndrome, I have depression, but it's not as bad as it used to be, I think.

23.Are you afraid of the supermarket?
A little, but I go their anyway. I always feel like I'm under the miscroscope, especially when alone.

24.Are you afraid of making phone calls?
Sometimes, when making phone calls other then family, but I mange to do so anyway. I'm strong and I fight it.

25.Where you bullied in your youth?
No.

26.Are you a quiet person?
Sometimes.

27.Do you avoid eye contact?
I try not too, but sometimes it hard starring right into someone eyes as it sets me off.

28.Do you blush alot?
Rarely.

29.What makes you really happy?
I rarely can feel happiness becuase I lost my emotions to depression.

30.Do you hardly make friends?
I try to on-line a lot, but 99% of the time it ends in failure. I'm still trying to figure it out.

31.Does your family know about your SA?
I don't know.

32.Did you ever visited a doctor?
Yes, a few times, not frequently thought.

33.What makes you feel confident?
I'm confident in my driving abilities, and my strongness to move on, despite I have a lot of social anxiety.

34.Are you depressed?
Very much so.

35.Do you believe in god?
Yes.

36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile?
I'm open about my problems, a lot of times, too open. I talk too much. I guess I'm good at faking emotions, but I hate doing it.

37.Do you have a good sense of humour?
Yes, a lot of times. It dpeneds on my mood. A lot of times, I am random and act silly and when I try to humourous at that time, people don't get it.

38.Are you happy with your looks?
Not really.

39.What kind of music do you like?
Oldies, 70's, 80's, 90's, Countrym, Rock/Pop.

40.Do you do sport??
I'm not really into sports.

41.Do you like art?
Yes, sometimes.

42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??)
No. I try to be.

43.Do you like animals?
Yes. My favorite is the Red Fox.

44.Are you friendly?
Yes, people who really know me, know me as friendly, but it takes time for people to see it usually.

45.How would you describe yourself?
A desperate, loner who justs wants to find someone.

46.Did you have suicidal thoughts?
Yes, a lot.

47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's?
Yes, in front of strangers.

48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement?
No?

49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff?
Yes. I'm very outgoing. I would try to do more things if I didn't have to do everything alone.

50.Are you optimistic?
Occassionally. I used to be more than I am now.

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''?
Showing emotions, yes. Sometimes people send me mixed signals, so I don't always see people true emotions.

52.What makes you feel relaxed?
Being home, being free (clothesfree). Whenever I am without clothes and calm.

53.Do you got panic attacks aswell?
Yes.

54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect?
A lot of times.

55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??)
Sometimes, because I'm so awkward.

56.Do you know how to act like a confident person??
No. I try to do certain things, though. Like hold my head up when I'm walking. But it's hard because I'm usually to scared to do that.

57.Do you ever gave a speech?
A couple of times in school, when I was very younger. It was better then, becuase I didn't have any speech problems then.

58.Do you like walking in the park?
Yes and no. It would be a lot better if someone was with me.

59.Do you think you are interesting to other people?
Yes, but not the good kind.

60.What is the negative judge you guess from people?
Girls don't like me becuase I'm not good looking. I think they judge me as a monster or parasite. They thing I'm a slob, becuase I'm not skinny and good looking.
 

MNM322

Well-known member
Social Anxiety - Question list.. Fill in!


1.How old are you? 30
2.Are you male/female? F
3.Do you have SA? Pretty sure
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 60 or 70
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? Nope
6.Are you shy? Can be
7.What makes you anxious? Anything can... just depends on the day
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) Nope
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) Nope
10.Since when did your SA start? No idea

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? No
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? I don't mind it sometimes
13.Do you have friends? Nope
14.Do you have online friends? A few I guess
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? My room, with my dogs
16.Do you work, go to school? Yes and no
17.Do you have a relationship? Nope
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) Hope so
19.What are your hobbies? Anything with dogs, sitting online, movies
20.Do you drink? smoke? No and No

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? Introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders? dsylexia
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? no
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? no
25.Where you bullied in your youth? yes
26.Are you a quiet person? can be
27.Do you avoid eye contact? not usually
28.Do you blush alot? sometimes
29.What makes you really happy? my dogs
30.Do you hardly make friends? yes

31.Does your family know about your SA? no
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? of course
33.What makes you feel confident? not much really
34.Are you depressed? can be at times
35.Do you believe in god? not anymore
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? i am a open book
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? i think so?
38.Are you happy with your looks? no, i am ugly
39.What kind of music do you like? varies
40.Do you do sport?? no

41.Do you like art? not really
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) yes
43.Do you like animals? love them
44.Are you friendly? yes
45.How would you describe yourself? lame and boring, animal lover, "too nice"
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? in my teen years yep
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? yes
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? no
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? not at the moment
50.Are you optimistic? no i try to be and it backfires

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? no
52.What makes you feel relaxed? my dogs
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? i used to
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? yes
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) no
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? i think i can
57.Do you ever gave a speech? in school
58.Do you like walking in the park? if my dogs are there sure
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? nope
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? not sure what this means??
 

Pacific_Loner

Pirate from the North Pole
1.How old are you?
29

2.Are you male/female?
F

3.Do you have SA?
Yeah but not as serious as before

4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100?
I can’t answer that

5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety?
Never seen a specialist

6.Are you shy?
A lot

7.What makes you anxious?
Anything that brings attention on me

8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?)
No

9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?)
No

10.Since when did your SA start?
Since as far as I can remember

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?
I don’t talk about that with anyone

12.Do you actually like doing social stuff?
Only when it involves alcohol and wasted people

13.Do you have friends?
Yes, 2-3 good ones

14.Do you have online friends?
Yes, 2-3 good ones

15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all?
Alone at my place

16.Do you work, go to school?
Work

17.Do you have a relationship?
No

18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?)
Not in the sense to become extrovert, but in the sense of living a normal life and being happy, yes

19.What are your hobbies?
Climbing, Kayaking, snowboarding, hiking, accordion, painting, drawing, writing, reading, and that’s about it.

20.Do you drink? smoke?
I drink occasionally – used to drink a lot but it’s making depression worst

21.Are you introvert of extrovert?
Introvert

22.Do you have any more disorders?
I used to have depersonalisation but I fixed that for the most part. Depression as well.

23.Are you afraid of the supermarket?
Not anymore but I still have a problem with the smaller ones where you get noticed when you come in

24.Are you afraid of making phone calls?
I overcame that problem except at work

25.Where you bullied in your youth?
Not really, I was more unoticed

26.Are you a quiet person?
Yes

27.Do you avoid eye contact?
I’m working on that

28.Do you blush alot?
Working on that too

29.What makes you really happy?
Having a good time with some friends without being anxious, that makes me really happy, or spending a night alone at home watching a movie, eating cookies and drinking hot chocolate, that makes me very happy as well.

30.Do you hardly make friends?
I’m not good at it at all.

31.Does your family know about your SA?
I never talked about social phobia but I often say that I’m socially inept, as a joke, yet everyone knows it’s kind of true.

32.Did you ever visited a doctor?
Not for SA, once for depression

33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us )
Being good at something.

34.Are you depressed?
Not right now

35.Do you believe in god?
No

36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile?
Hiding

37.Do you have a good sense of humour?
I think so

38.Are you happy with your looks?
Rarely

39.What kind of music do you like?
Metal, punk, folks, reggae, ska, d&b, and a lot of other stuff.

40.Do you do sport??
A lot

41.Do you like art?
A lot

42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??)
Not at all

43.Do you like animals?
Sure

44.Are you friendly?
It really depends …

45.How would you describe yourself?
….

46.Did you have suicidal thoughts?
Sure

47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's?
A lot

48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement?
I’m not sure I know what inforement means

49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff?
I’m doing a great job

50.Are you optimistic?
I’m told I’m not but I think I am. People often mistake “being prepared for the worst” and pessimistic

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''?
Yes

52.What makes you feel relaxed?
Being alone

53.Do you got panic attacks aswell?
No

54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect?
Yes

55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??)
Yes and I always think it’s because I look weird

56.Do you know how to act like a confident person??
No…

57.Do you ever gave a speech?
Of course I had to to get through school. I almost died everytime

58.Do you like walking in the park?
Not really… too much people

59.Do you think you are interesting to other people?
I think some people think I look interesting and then I speak and they realize I’m not

60.What is the negative judge you guess from people?
I can’t seem to get rid of the thought that when people look at me they think I’m ugly. And I just stand there thinking I’m sorry to be in their view
 

wanderingstar

Active member
1.How old are you? I turned 18 recently.
2.Are you male/female? I am female.
3.Do you have SA? Yes.
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 70-80
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? Yes, alongwith generalized anxiety disorder and panic attacks
6.Are you shy? Yes, though more than that I am self-conscious.
7.What makes you anxious? Being seen physically (I'm fat), not knowing what to do, conversation...
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) I take Zoloft and Abilify.
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) No, I've thought about it, but I think I might end up on a psychward if I did not lie frequently and well.
10.Since when did your SA start? I was never quite like the other kids -- I was asocial and in my own little world, but it got progressively worse as I put on weight to the point of not leaving my house.

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? My what?
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? No, I may like the activities (like going to a concert), but I find the social aspect daunting.
13.Do you have friends? I have not had a single friend in over a decade.
14.Do you have online friends? More or less.
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? When I am alone; sometimes with my Mom.
16.Do you work, go to school? No & no.
17.Do you have a relationship? No.
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) I don't know; I'll see once I lose weight.
19.What are your hobbies? Being online, reading, psychology, select spirituality, day dreaming...
20.Do you drink? smoke? Very rarely; no.

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? Introvert, definitely.
22.Do you have any more disorders? I think I'm depressed and probably crazy as well...
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? I avoid it, so I don't know.
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? Yes, I hate talking on the phone.
25.Where you bullied in your youth? Nope.
26.Are you a quiet person? When with people.
27.Do you avoid eye contact? I don't know?
28.Do you blush alot? Nope.
29.What makes you really happy? Daydreaming that I am skinny, rich, and have a wonderful boyfriend -- ranting -- connecting with my essence -- binging and/or losing weight -- music!
30.Do you hardly make friends? Not at all.

31.Does your family know about your SA? Yes.
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? Yes.
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) Pretending I'm anyone else.
34.Are you depressed? More or less.
35.Do you believe in god? Yes, but more a creative source than underlies everything and totality of all that is.
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? I prefer to hide my problems by appearing aloof and/or brooding and/or bitchy.
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? No.
38.Are you happy with your looks? God, no!
39.What kind of music do you like? Everything...
40.Do you do sport?? No, I'm not athletic.

41.Do you like art? Yes.
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) Not particularly.
43.Do you like animals? Meh.
44.Are you friendly? No.
45.How would you describe yourself? Mercurial, capricious, eccentric, loner, experiences blood-lust, primal, intuitive, emotional, analytical, off-putting, too honest, habitual liar, sadomasochist, extravagant, narcissist, fantastical, rebellious, immature, wise, controlling, passionate, loves freedom, strong-willed, here but not here, selfish, self-absorbed, polar, loves herself too much, hates herself too much, aesthetic, extraordinary, special, lazy, undisciplined, strong, fragile, morbid, cheerful, lustful, envious, brooding, antisocial, imaginative, romantic, closed-off, loves learning, hot/cold, savory, a king, a god, a beast...
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? Frequently.
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? Yes.
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? ...
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Yes; no.
50.Are you optimistic? Frequently.

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? Yes and no, the former because it is embarrassing.
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Music.
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell?Yes, rarely.
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? No.
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) Not generally.
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? No, but I can do snobby.
57.Do you ever gave a speech? No.
58.Do you like walking in the park? If it's not too hot.
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? Yes, extremely.
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? That I'm fat.
 

Azunyan

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 24
2.Are you male/female? Male
3.Do you have SA? Yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 60
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? No
6.Are you shy? Yes
7.What makes you anxious? Anything social
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) No
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) No
10.Since when did your SA start? Since i was 10 or even earlier

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? What?
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? No
13.Do you have friends? 1-2
14.Do you have online friends? 2
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? At home
16.Do you work, go to school? Work
17.Do you have a relationship? No
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) No
19.What are your hobbies? Anime, games
20.Do you drink? smoke? No

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? Introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders? Depression
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? Yes
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? Yes
25.Where you bullied in your youth? Yes
26.Are you a quiet person? Yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact? No, ive gotten better with that
28.Do you blush alot? No
29.What makes you really happy? Buying stuff
30.Do you hardly make friends? Pretty much never

31.Does your family know about your SA? No
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? No
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) Doing well at work
34.Are you depressed? Yes
35.Do you believe in god? No
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? Fake smile :D
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? No
38.Are you happy with your looks? No
39.What kind of music do you like? Most types
40.Do you do sport?? No

41.Do you like art? Yes
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) Dont get the question
43.Do you like animals? I guess
44.Are you friendly? Not really
45.How would you describe yourself? Lazy nerd
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? Yes
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? Depends on the situation
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? What?
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? No
50.Are you optimistic? No

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? Probably
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Being at home
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? No
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? Yes
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) Yes, dont know why
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? No
57.Do you ever gave a speech? What?
58.Do you like walking in the park? No
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? No
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? That they hate me
 

TheTemp

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 21

2.Are you male/female? Female

3.Do you have SA? I think so, very minimal.

4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 20

5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? Yes

6.Are you shy? Depends on the circumstances

7.What makes you anxious? Intensity.

8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) Yes, Risperdal.

9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) Yes, CBT.

10.Since when did your SA start? 2 years ago.

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? Yes, wonderful.

12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? Yes, a lot.

13.Do you have friends? Yes.

14.Do you have online friends? Yes.

15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? Sitting in class, at a party, therapist's office, at home, buying groceries, at the beach.

16.Do you work, go to school? University

17.Do you have a relationship? Sort of.

18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) Yes, definitely.

19.What are your hobbies? Singing

20.Do you drink? smoke? Both.

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? Extrovert.

22.Do you have any more disorders? Nope.

23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? No, I love supermarkets.

24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? No, I love phone calls.

25.Where you bullied in your youth? Never

26.Are you a quiet person? Sometimes.

27.Do you avoid eye contact? Not anymore.

28.Do you blush alot? No

29.What makes you really happy? People :) Cuteness.

30.Do you hardly make friends? No.


31.Does your family know about your SA? They think it's over.

32.Did you ever visited a doctor? Yes.

33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us)
Looking beautiful, making people laugh.

34.Are you depressed? No

35.Do you believe in god? Yes

36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile?

I'm open to a certain extent.

37.Do you have a good sense of humour? Yes

38.Are you happy with your looks? Yes but my weight is now a problem cuz of my meds.

39.What kind of music do you like? All.

40.Do you do sport?? Gym, need to start going again.

41.Do you like art? Yes

42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) Very.

43.Do you like animals? I adore animals.

44.Are you friendly? Very.

45.How would you describe yourself? Positive, optimistic. :)

46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? Not anymore.

47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? Of course not.

48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? Yes.

49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff?
Yes.

50.Are you optimistic? Very.

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? Not at all.

52.What makes you feel relaxed? My best friend.

53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? No

54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? I'm overcoming that notion.

55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??)

Yes, I don't know why.

56.Do you know how to act like a confident person??

Yes, I used to be one.

57.Do you ever gave a speech? Yes. A lot.

58.Do you like walking in the park? Yes, sure.

59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? I hope so!

60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? Overcoming that. :)
 

giantyx

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 28
2.Are you male/female? Male
3.Do you have SA? Yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 20?not sure really.
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? Yes
6.Are you shy? Yes
7.What makes you anxious? People
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) fluoxetine, fluvoxamine
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) used to, cbt
10.Since when did your SA start? Since i was born?

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? No
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? No
13.Do you have friends? No
14.Do you have online friends? No
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? Nowhere
16.Do you work, go to school? No
17.Do you have a relationship? No
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) hope so
19.What are your hobbies? Soccer, gaming, pets
20.Do you drink? smoke?no.no.

21.Are you introvert of extrovert?intro
22.Do you have any more disorders?depression
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? Sometimes when i go and its crowded
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? Yes
25.Where you bullied in your youth? No
26.Are you a quiet person? Yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact? Yes
28.Do you blush alot? Yes
29.What makes you really happy?nothing
30.Do you hardly make friends?yes

31.Does your family know about your SA? Yes
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? Yes
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) nothing
34.Are you depressed?yes
35.Do you believe in god? No idea
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? Open to family, hide from others, dun like to fake smile coz my face would tremor
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? No, pple find me boring
38.Are you happy with your looks? Yes, only recently i begin to realise that looks are superficial
39.What kind of music do you like? Pop
40.Do you do sport?? Soccer, used to play with friends, but now no more

41.Do you like art? No
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) no
43.Do you like animals? Guinea pigs, have 2
44.Are you friendly? Not really, i dun approach new pple
45.How would you describe yourself? No idea, i feel like a blank paper
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? Yes
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? Yes, esp alone in foodmalls
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? No
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? No
50.Are you optimistic? No

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? Yes, i often try to hide it to avoid embarrassment
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Nth
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? Yes
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? No
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) yes, i actually looked back at them a few times and they are indeed staring at me zzz
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? No, i nvr wanted to act i tink itmakes everything worse at the end
57.Do you ever gave a speech? Ni
58.Do you like walking in the park? Kinda, but not when there are people ard
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? No, pple always says im boring
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? Weirdo
 

kristina303

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 20
2.Are you male/female? Female
3.Do you have SA? Yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 50
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? Yes
6.Are you shy? Yes
7.What makes you anxious? People
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) Yes, Celexa
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) No
10.Since when did your SA start? 10th grade

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? Kinda
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? Yes
13.Do you have friends? Yes
14.Do you have online friends? A few
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? Home
16.Do you work, go to school? I will start working in a couple of weeks
17.Do you have a relationship? I'm starting one
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) I don't really know
19.What are your hobbies? Reading, tv, movies
20.Do you drink? smoke? Rarely and no

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? Extrovert
22.Do you have any more disorders? No
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? No
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? Sometimes
25.Where you bullied in your youth? A little
26.Are you a quiet person? Nope
27.Do you avoid eye contact? Sometimes
28.Do you blush alot? Not anymore
29.What makes you really happy? My friends
30.Do you hardly make friends? No

31.Does your family know about your SA? Some of my family
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? Yes
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) Clothes
34.Are you depressed? No
35.Do you believe in god? Yes
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? Hiding them
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? Yes
38.Are you happy with your looks? Sometimes
39.What kind of music do you like? Pop
40.Do you do sport?? Nope

41.Do you like art? Nope
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) Yes
43.Do you like animals? Depends
44.Are you friendly? Yes
45.How would you describe yourself? Funny nice friendly
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? Nope
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? Guys
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? Idk
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Yes
50.Are you optimistic? Yes

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? No
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Being alone
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? No
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? Sometimes
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) yes and idk.
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? I can fake confidence
57.Do you ever gave a speech? At school
58.Do you like walking in the park? Yes
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? Yes
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? That I'm ugly.
 

mikebird

Banned
7.What makes you anxious? People

12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? Yes
13.Do you have friends? Yes
14.Do you have online friends? Only real people I know, reading their news
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? Home
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? Yep

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? both
Every day's different
22.Do you have any more disorders? eczema on face
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? No
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? No
Are you wound up when each phone keeps ringing all day long; some try each phone after each other until picked up?
Pick up one that rings when on another call, speaking to both simultaneously? Yes.
No person who knows me rings my telephone. Not ever. They wait for me to contact them when I have a spare moment. Only anonymous people phone me.
25.Were you bullied in your youth? No
26.Are you a quiet person? Nope
27.Do you avoid eye contact? No
28.Do you blush alot? No

31.Does your family know about your SA? No. If I showed any of my family an apple, held in my fingers and asked 'what's the name of this object?' They'd say 'uhh... dunno'
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? More running to Accident & Emergency or to a ward I know
33.What makes you feel confident? Doing things
34.Are you depressed? No
35.Do you believe in god? No

37.Do you have a good sense of humour? Yes
38.Are you happy with your looks? Yep
39.What kind of music do you like? Electronic non-vocal
40.Do you do sport?? individual

41.Do you like art? Yep
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) Yes
43.Do you like animals? Yep. Big Cats
44.Are you friendly? Yes
45.How would you describe yourself? Determined
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? Only imagination. I'd rather hurt people who've prevented me from succeeding
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? I rather make the food for them. I've become a selfish eater who enjoys their own recipes.

49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Yes
50.Are you optimistic? Realistic

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? No
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Being alone

54.Do you do things perfect? Yep
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? YEP!!
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? I can fake confidence

58.Do you like walking in the park? in woods. Fields
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? NO
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? That I'm not normal.

Do you want to be an assassin?

Did you ever have a physical fight?

In a crowd in a mini-mart, or more, in a packed super/hypermarket, do you see them as slow, pondering, just standing, queuing up? Eslacators, standing still?
I have something to achieve. I rush through the gaps, running, not touching anyone. I take the static stairs up or down, going 6 times faster than the people standing still. They all stare.

Do you find physical activity fulfilling?

Do you find reading a good fictional book useful to get your head straight, and iron out your communication skills?

Dou you find making ad-hoc humorous comments natural to build rapport, or they get a bad response if people don't appreciate satire or sarcasm which are a dark form of laugh, but some aren't accepted or understood?

;)
 
1.How old are you?
19
2.Are you male/female?
male
3.Do you have SA?
yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100?
I'd say around 80. I'm not afraid to go outside but I'm afraid of so many situations, have almost no friends, have never had a girlfriend, never went to a dance, etc, etc
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety?
Yes
6.Are you shy?
Yes
7.What makes you anxious?
People I don't know, places with a lot of people, praise at church, situations where I'm expected to do something, even if its along with everyone, any new situation, etc
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?)
nope
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?)
nope
10.Since when did your SA start?
Not really sure. My earliest memories of SA are from middle school

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?
not sure what this means
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff?
I like the activity, hate the anxiety
13.Do you have friends?
Yes
14.Do you have online friends?
No
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all?
My room
16.Do you work, go to school?
School, no work
17.Do you have a relationship?
no :(
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?)
I wonder... I really wonder if I can. Or will I be like this forever?
19.What are your hobbies?
Nothing. Gave up all my hobbies because of ADD and SAD
20.Do you drink? smoke?
nope

21.Are you introvert of extrovert?
extremely introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders?
ADD
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket?
Not if I go at night
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls?
Yes, even if it's friends
25.Where you bullied in your youth?
In some instances
26.Are you a quiet person?
Yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact?
Yes
28.Do you blush alot?
I wouldn't know. My face is too red from acne
29.What makes you really happy?
My family, friends, dog, and when I make people laugh :)
30.Do you hardly make friends?
I have a really hard time making friends

31.Does your family know about your SA?
yes
32.Did you ever visited a doctor?
yes
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us)
When I can make people laugh
34.Are you depressed?
Yeah
35.Do you believe in god?
Yeah
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile?
I tell everyone about my problems
37.Do you have a good sense of humour?
I wish.
38.Are you happy with your looks?
Fk no. I'm ugly as hell
39.What kind of music do you like?
Christian
40.Do you do sport??
Nope

41.Do you like art?
I don't do it but I appreciate it
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??)
No :( I really wish I was.
43.Do you like animals?
Yes!
44.Are you friendly?
I think so... I hope so
45.How would you describe yourself?
Pathetic, antisocial, dumb, delusional
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts?
Many times when I was young, but I'm emotionally stronger now
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's?
Not if I'm with my friends
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement?
srsly wtf is inforement
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff?
Yeah, but I'm so bad with rejection and disappointments. I get depressed so easily.
50.Are you optimistic?
I try to be.

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''?
Definitely. I wish I could express myself better.
52.What makes you feel relaxed?
Music, Sleeping, God
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell?
Nope
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect?
Not sure what this question is asking
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??)
Yeah. I know they're not, but I'm still scared of it.
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person??
I try to :/
57.Do you ever gave a speech?
Yes
58.Do you like walking in the park?
Yeah
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people?
No. Boring as hell
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people?
Awkward, weird, shy, quiet :( ...
 

Kristin

New member
1.How old are you? 17.
2.Are you male/female? Female.
3.Do you have SA? Not sure... Probably on the border between sa and just shyness.
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 40
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? No.
6.Are you shy? Yes.
7.What makes you anxious? Talking to authorities, being watched while I work, initiating and keeping conversations going, talking to strangers, parties and social events, speaking in class.
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) No.
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) Yes, but I've just started. So I'm not sure of what kind yet.
10.Since when did your SA start? It became a problem for me around the time I started high school, which is one and a half year ago.

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? In small groups or one-to-one situations, yes.
13.Do you have friends? Yes
14.Do you have online friends? No
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? At home, out in the nature, and together with my brother, who I have a very good relationship with.
16.Do you work, go to school? I go to school, but I don't work.
17.Do you have a relationship? No
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) Goes up and down, sometimes I believe, other times, like now, I only hope.
19.What are your hobbies? Playing the piano, reading, listening to music, hiking and generally being out in the nature.
20.Do you drink? smoke? Neither.

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? I'm an introvert.
22.Do you have any more disorders? No
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? No.
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? Yes.
25.Where you bullied in your youth? Thankfully not.
26.Are you a quiet person? Yes.
27.Do you avoid eye contact? Yes.
28.Do you blush a lot? No, fortunately not.
29.What makes you really happy? Being in the nature, when I am together with others and feel equal to them.
30.Do you hardly make friends? I'm afraid of approaching others, so yes, making friends is difficult for me.

31.Does your family know about your SA? Yes
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? Yes
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) The same that makes me happy; when I am able to relax and talk with others, and therefore feel equal to them. And also when I play volleyball, as this is something I'm quite good at.
34.Are you depressed? No
35.Do you believe in god? Yes
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? I would prefer hiding them, except for a few persons I trust 100%. But I'm not good with hiding my feelings, so people tend to notice anyways :)
37.Do you have a good sense of humor? ... Probably not.
38.Are you happy with your looks? Yes.
39.What kind of music do you like? Oh well. I listen to classical music, as well as ABBA and Mumford & Sons. As I'm 17, at least two of them is quite weird...
40.Do you do sport?? I used to play volleyball, and I still like it even though I don't do it regularly. I also like ball games in general.

41.Do you like art? Not really.
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) No.
43.Do you like animals? Yes.
44.Are you friendly? I hope so, and try my best to be.
45.How would you describe yourself? Shy and quiet, patient... Apart from that, this is a hard question for me.
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? No, never.
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? No.
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement?
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Not now, but I'm working with it. :)
50.Are you optimistic? Sometimes.

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? No, I usually show way more than I would like to...
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Being out in the nature, being together with my brother, listening to good music.
53.Do you got panic attacks as well? No
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? Yes
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) Yes, because I act nervous and awkward.
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? Only in a few situations.
57.Do you ever gave a speech? Yes. For some reason I'm not very scared of public speaking.
58.Do you like walking in the park? A bit, but I prefer natural places without other people. :)
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? No
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? Boring, doesn't have anything to say, weak and too sensitive, too quiet and shy.
 

InvisaLady

Well-known member
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1.How old are you? 30

2.Are you male/female? Female

3.Do you have SA? Yes

4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 65?

5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? Only by self.

6.Are you shy? Hell yes.

7.What makes you anxious? people

8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) Somtimes I use Lorazepam. But not very often and it's not that effective.

9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) No! I've had multiple bad experiences with psychologists, I don't trust those quacks as far as I could toss one.

10.Since when did your SA start? I would guess it really kicked in around 6th grade.

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? If it is with only a few others.

13.Do you have friends? Nope. Don't want any female ones either.

14.Do you have online friends? yes.

15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? Home.
16.Do you work, go to school? Self employed but disabled.

17.Do you have a relationship? Kind of.

18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) Not really.

19.What are your hobbies? Model horses.

20.Do you drink? smoke? Drink once in a blue moon.


21.Are you introvert of extrovert? introvert.

22.Do you have any more disorders? Does PDR count?:question: But if you mean mental, no I don't think so.

23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? At times.

24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? No, I don't like doing it but I will if I have to.

25.Where you bullied in your youth? Yes, mentally, a lot.

26.Are you a quiet person? very.

27.Do you avoid eye contact? Oh yeah.

28.Do you blush alot? yes.
29.What makes you really happy? Horses.

30.Do you hardly make friends? Dont have any so I guess that answers your question?


31.Does your family know about your SA? yes.

32.Did you ever visited a doctor? For SA? no. For other things? yes.

33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us;)) Nothing.

34.Are you depressed? no.

35.Do you believe in god? no.

36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? Depends on who I am talking to.

37.Do you have a good sense of humour? Yes, I think so.

38.Are you happy with your looks? Hell no. If I could trade in my body I would.

39.What kind of music do you like? Metal, but not the super harsh screamy stuff.

40.Do you do sport?? no.


41.Do you like art? yes.

42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) no.

43.Do you like animals? yes. But not dogs.
44.Are you friendly? I guess so.

45.How would you describe yourself? fat, plain, boring.

46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? Who has not at one point or another?

47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? Sometimes.

48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? What is an inforement

49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Not really.

50.Are you optimistic? Not really.


51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? I don't think so.

52.What makes you feel relaxed? Hot bath.

53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? Not bad ones.

54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? Sometimes.

55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) Yes, I'm not attractive and I'm fatter than the rest of them.

56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? Nope.

57.Do you ever gave a speech? Nope.

58.Do you like walking in the park? Don't really like walking all that much, bad hips and knees.

59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? Not really.

60.What is the negative judge you guess from people?
I'm a fat slob, so I must also be stupid.
 

cowboyup

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 43
2.Are you male/female? F
3.Do you have SA? yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? depends on the day, generally 50 -75
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? yes
6.Are you shy? some situations, yes
7.What makes you anxious? irrational fears, past, present, future, ME
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?)yes, multivitamin, GABA, celexa, sometimes valium if it's really bad day
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) no
10.Since when did your SA start?late teens, early 20s

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?I'm on my own
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff?yes
13.Do you have friends?2
14.Do you have online friends?yes
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all?sleep, at home
16.Do you work, go to school?nanny & college
17.Do you have a relationship?no
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?)to an extent, yes.
19.What are your hobbies?reading, photography, painting
20.Do you drink? smoke?no to both

21.Are you introvert of extrovert?introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders? mild depression
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket?sometimes -guess I can be moody
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls?yes
25.Where you bullied in your youth?yes
26.Are you a quiet person?yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact?no
28.Do you blush alot?no
29.What makes you really happy?sex
30.Do you hardly make friends?yes

31.Does your family know about your SA?yes
32.Did you ever visited a doctor?yes
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us)hmmm, good question
34.Are you depressed?yes
35.Do you believe in god?I don't feel either way, I just try to get through my life as best I can
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile?mostly faking smile-I don't want to feel like I am burden on anyone
37.Do you have a good sense of humour?Yes, I've been called 'sardonic yet witty'
38.Are you happy with your looks?mostly, yes
39.What kind of music do you like?classical, 70/80s rock,
40.Do you do sport??no

41.Do you like art?yes
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??)yes
43.Do you like animals?yes
44.Are you friendly?yes
45.How would you describe yourself?I'd like to be the fun person everyone likes to hang out with...but reality it is quiet, shy girl
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts?used to, not anymore
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's?YES
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement?yes
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff?contradictory to what I generally say or feel, yes I do.
50.Are you optimistic?most often I try my best to be

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''?showing, not seeing
52.What makes you feel relaxed?sex, yes sex
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell?yes
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect?yes
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??)I tend to block out others in public
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person??yes
57.Do you ever gave a speech?yes
58.Do you like walking in the park?yes
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people?probably not much
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people?..not sure
 

ScaredToBreathe

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 18
2.Are you male/female? Chick
3.Do you have SA? Hell yea
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 80
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? Yup
6.Are you shy? Not at all!
7.What makes you anxious? Trying to have a conversation with a friend but I don't know what to say, eating in front of others, telling jokes or stories in front of others, being talked down to, going out to certain public places especially if I see people I know there, and a lot of other crap!
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) Not anymore, didn't work for me
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) Nope
10.Since when did your SA start? When I was a little kid

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? no?
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? sometimes, depends what it is and who with
13.Do you have friends? Yups, but most I don't get a lot of enjoyment out of seeing...people in general kinda bore me or just wear me down
14.Do you have online friends? Yes
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? Wherever I'm with my best friend, for some reason no matter what I say or do around people when she's with me I coulnd't care less about my actions or looking stupid like I would without her
16.Do you work, go to school? yes, and no.
17.Do you have a relationship? used to :( but it's hard to find the right person..everyone asks me to go out but I'd like to wait for someone that really sparks something in me
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) Trying to! It got a lot better from when I was in high school. Used to be like 100, but now, can you believe it, as low as 80, pretty big difference.
19.What are your hobbies? Writing, reading, going on walks, swimming, caring for my lovely pets, hanging out with friends, and spending countless hours on the internet.
20.Do you drink? smoke? Yes drink. No, at least not cigarettes, yuck!

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? Introvert for sure. People wear me out even if I like spending time with them, I just neeeeed to be alone.
22.Do you have any more disorders? a sack full, would you like some?
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? often yes, when I'm by myself
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? YES
25.Where you bullied in your youth? a bit
26.Are you a quiet person? usually, but I can get very loud around my best friend
27.Do you avoid eye contact? no, I'm actually very good at looking people in the eyes
28.Do you blush alot? no thank god
29.What makes you really happy? my pets, some of my friends, or when I reflect on the good things in my life or accomplish a goal
30.Do you hardly make friends? I meet friends of friends and it kind of goes on and on like that

31.Does your family know about your SA? my mom does, and by best friend (she's like a sister to me)
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? yup
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) When I feel that I look good, when I achieve something, when I can tell someone has given a genuine compliment, and sadly sometimes alcohol
34.Are you depressed? almost all the time
35.Do you believe in god? nope
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? a bit of both. i used to just be angry about everything, but people kept telling me to smile so i try to give them what they want...if i cant feel better at least i can try to make others feel better
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? sometimes, not really. mostly sarcasm and a little dirty humour
38.Are you happy with your looks? most of the time, but sometimes i cant stand myself
39.What kind of music do you like? heavy metal, alternative rock
40.Do you do sport?? not really, only individually like swim, skate, snowboard, etc... i do like being active

41.Do you like art? i appreciate it, yes
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) yes, I would be if not for this damned SA!
43.Do you like animals? loooooooove. need i say more?
44.Are you friendly? usually very
45.How would you describe yourself? depends on the situation. when I'm by myself I usually keep to myself, am quiet, maybe distant or day-dreamy. I am usually nice but can be very clumsy, and seem dull even though I'm not.
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? a lot, but would never act on them
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? all the time, but it helps when everyone else is eating too
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? ? no?
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? yes, I've been trying very hard lately and have pushed a lot of my limits
50.Are you optimistic? yes, I try to be most of the time

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? showing, yes, my emotions aren't very strong and it's soooo hard to express them when I do feel something. i can see others emotions though and feel very empathetic but have trouble with determining sympathetic reactions to comfort them...it just gets awkward
52.What makes you feel relaxed? alcohol, weed, animals, lying in bed, listening to music, getting a good sleep, lying in the sun/being out in sunny weather
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? rarely
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? i don't think i HAVE to, but i do tend to be a perfectionist
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, w hy??) yes, and I don't know! either they are creeps, or think i'm ugly or attractive, or i stand out somehow
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? yes, but I have trouble doing it
57.Do you ever gave a speech? for school yea. ugh.
58.Do you like walking in the park? yea it's fine
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? some, yes. others, i'm probably boring as hell. depends on the person.
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? I try not to judge people, I really judge myself more than others. Only negative thing I think of some people is how dumb or immature they can be, when they do or say something that is the total opposite of common sense, which is apparently not so common anymore. although I feel dumb myself compared to some other people, so I shouldn't be one to judge.
 

Bo592

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 29
2.Are you male/female? male
3.Do you have SA? yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 75
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? yes
6.Are you shy? yes
7.What makes you anxious? talking
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) No
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) No
10.Since when did your SA start? 5 years old

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? don`t know
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? No
13.Do you have friends? No
14.Do you have online friends? not sure what a friend is
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? My room
16.Do you work, go to school? No
17.Do you have a relationship? No
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?)only hope so
19.What are your hobbies? ghost , art
20.Do you drink? smoke? no and no

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? not sure
22.Do you have any more disorders? not sure
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? yes
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? yes
25.Where you bullied in your youth? not alot but sometimes
26.Are you a quiet person? yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact? yes " know it wrong "
28.Do you blush alot? no
29.What makes you really happy? when I did something I was afraid of
30.Do you hardly make friends? yes

31.Does your family know about your SA? no and they don`t won`t to know
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? once but not now " money problems "
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us;)) when I do somthing I was afraid of
34.Are you depressed? sometimes
35.Do you believe in god? yes
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? computer yes real world no
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? yes
38.Are you happy with your looks? yes
39.What kind of music do you like? anything
40.Do you do sport?? No

41.Do you like art? yes
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) no
43.Do you like animals? yes
44.Are you friendly? not sure
45.How would you describe yourself? dum
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? yes
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? yes
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? not sure
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? still trying to find it
50.Are you optimistic? not sure

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? yes
52.What makes you feel relaxed? when someone said somthing nice to me.
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? yes
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? yes
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) yes because I am a man
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? No but still trying too
57.Do you ever gave a speech? no
58.Do you like walking in the park? yes
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? No
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people?
" look at that stupid man
 

chibiXphantom

Well-known member
How old are you? 19
2.Are you male/female? female
3.Do you have SA? I think so
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 80-85
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? no
6.Are you shy? yes
7.What makes you anxious? Talking on phones, asking for stuff, going out of the normal routine, driving, people, walking in public
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) afraid to use any
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) no
10.Since when did your SA start? Not sure, always been shy, just got worse over time

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? What?
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? no
13.Do you have friends? Not really, just my bf
14.Do you have online friends? Sort of
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? In my room, alone. or when im with my bf
16.Do you work, go to school? Work. Dropped out of school (college)
17.Do you have a relationship? yes
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) yes, I think.
19.What are your hobbies? Video games, art, movies
20.Do you drink? smoke? No, and no

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders? Not that I know of
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? Not really, I work at one. Im afraid of checking out though
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? definately
25.Where you bullied in your youth? A little bit
26.Are you a quiet person? yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact? yes
28.Do you blush alot? yeah
29.What makes you really happy? Just stuff I like, music, movies, video games, fluffy kittens.
30.Do you hardly make friends? I don’t really have friends

31.Does your family know about your SA? no
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? no
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us ) looking good (nice clothes, hair done, etc..)
34.Are you depressed? yes
35.Do you believe in god? not really, in the sense of a deity
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? Hide them. Fake a smile every day
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? I think so, but im slow when it comes to jokes and such
38.Are you happy with your looks? For the most part
39.What kind of music do you like? All kinds except country and rap
40.Do you do sport?? noooo

41.Do you like art? yesss
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) not really
43.Do you like animals? Some animals
44.Are you friendly? depends
45.How would you describe yourself? weird
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? usually
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? definately
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? What?
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Not really, cause I don’t like people
50.Are you optimistic? sometimes

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? yeah
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Cozy atmosphere, being alone, not being pressured to do anything or feel any pressure to act a certain way
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? Ive only had like 2 maybe ever
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? No, but I feel im expected to
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) well they do, I see them
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? no
57.Do you ever gave a speech? In high school for classes. I suck at them >_<
58.Do you like walking in the park? not really. Maybe if I were with my boyfriend
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? no, ive been told im boring
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? I think people think im childish, immature, weird, or that im stupid
 

THeCARS1979

Well-known member
1.How old are you? 38
2.Are you male/female? M
3.Do you have SA? Yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 55
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? yes
6.Are you shy? yes
7.What makes you anxious? the whole dating idea
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) no
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) sometimes , I used to go more
10.Since when did your SA start? 1978 or 1979

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? no
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? yes
13.Do you have friends? a few
14.Do you have online friends? some
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? home, some stores, Im fine at most places
16.Do you work, go to school? work at a airline
17.Do you have a relationship? no
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) I hope so
19.What are your hobbies? music , movies, travel , karaoke, Coyote Ugly,
20.Do you drink? smoke? drink alcohol in moderation

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders? OCD , ADD
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? no
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? no
25.Where you bullied in your youth? a little
26.Are you a quiet person? kind of until i drink coffee or alcohol
27.Do you avoid eye contact? yea i can try to keep in contact
28.Do you blush alot? a little
29.What makes you really happy? vacations , listening to Avril Lavigne
30.Do you hardly make friends? i hardly make friends

31.Does your family know about your SA? yes
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? yea
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) being stronger, overcoming obstacles
34.Are you depressed?
35.Do you believe in god? yea
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? Sometimes i rather just fake it
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? sometimes
38.Are you happy with your looks? sometimes
39.What kind of music do you like? Classic Rock, doo wop rock , oldies, 80s metal some todays such as Avril Lavigne
40.Do you do sport?? no

41.Do you like art? yea
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) maybe
43.Do you like animals? kinda
44.Are you friendly? not alot
45.How would you describe yourself? 5 8 170, brownish hair
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? no but getting murdered thoughts
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? no
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? i guess
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? sometimes
50.Are you optimistic? sometimes

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? sometimes
52.What makes you feel relaxed? alcohol
53.Do you got panic attacks as well? no
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? yea
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) i feel that way
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? Im not sure
57.Do you ever gave a speech? no but i do karaoke
58.Do you like walking in the park? yea
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? yea
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? I think they always see me as SA and think they can try to get one over on me and then i have to protect myself but not to get to heated up to get into a fight or altercation
 
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QuietGirl89

New member
1.How old are you? 23
2.Are you male/female? Female
3.Do you have SA? Yes
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 70
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? No
6.Are you shy? Yes
7.What makes you anxious? Talking to people I don't know
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) Yes
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) No
10.Since when did your SA start? Since I was a child

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? Sometimes
13.Do you have friends? No
14.Do you have online friends? No
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? With my family
16.Do you work, go to school? No
17.Do you have a relationship? No
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) Yes
19.What are your hobbies? Reading, Watching TV/Films
20.Do you drink? smoke? Drink

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? Introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders? No
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? No
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? Sometimes
25.Where you bullied in your youth? No
26.Are you a quiet person? Yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact? Yes
28.Do you blush alot? Sometimes
29.What makes you really happy? Being with my family
30.Do you hardly make friends? Yes

31.Does your family know about your SA? Yes
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? Yes
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us)
34.Are you depressed? No
35.Do you believe in god? No
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? With my family i'm open about my problems
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? Yes
38.Are you happy with your looks? Yes
39.What kind of music do you like? Different kinds
40.Do you do sport?? No

41.Do you like art? No
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) No
43.Do you like animals? Some
44.Are you friendly? Yes
45.How would you describe yourself?
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? No
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? No
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement?
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Yes
50.Are you optimistic? Yes

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? Sometimes
52.What makes you feel relaxed? Reading
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? No
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? No
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) Sometimes
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? No
57.Do you ever gave a speech? No
58.Do you like walking in the park? Sometimes
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? Some People
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? That I'm boring them
 

Honk

Well-known member
1.How old are you?
27

2.Are you male/female?
male

3.Do you have SA?
not sure

4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100?
I'm not an anxietymeter, but I'm feeling good lately

5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety?
nope

6.Are you shy?
yup

7.What makes you anxious?
Having to admit failures really messes with my head.
Meeting strangers can be tough too.
Combine the too...

8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?)
I was breefly on antideps, didn't do much for me.

9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?)
I do, but actually don't have a clue what kind it is...
...but my therapist is heavily into meditation

10.Since when did your SA start?
age 12 maybe

11.Do you have good support from your inforement?
infowhat???

12.Do you actually like doing social stuff?
yes

13.Do you have friends?
yup

14.Do you have online friends?
not anymore

15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all?
In my flat, as long as the door bell keeps quiet

16.Do you work, go to school?
university + 20 hour job @ uni

17.Do you have a relationship?
no

18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?)
If I'd put more work into it

19.What are your hobbies?
reading, climbing, strength training, music (stopped playing), movies

20.Do you drink? smoke?
I drink, but I don't smoke

21.Are you introvert of extrovert?
introvert

22.Do you have any more disorders?
don't think so

23.Are you afraid of the supermarket?
no

24.Are you afraid of making phone calls?
depends on the phone call

25.Where you bullied in your youth?
yes, and I was a bully too

26.Are you a quiet person?
generally yes

27.Do you avoid eye contact?
no

28.Do you blush alot?
It happens

29.What makes you really happy?
If I get better at something
spending time with a good friend

30.Do you hardly make friends?
yes

31.Does your family know about your SA?
kinda

32.Did you ever visited a doctor?
sure

33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us)
Improving at something
Getting looks from girls or something like that
being nicely dressed to a lesser degree, I rarely bother though

34.Are you depressed?
Right now I'm feeling not too bad

35.Do you believe in god?
no

36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile?
I used to hide them, but now I'm a bit more open

37.Do you have a good sense of humour?
No, I like my humour bad

38.Are you happy with your looks?
pretty much

39.What kind of music do you like?
metal, rock, clasical

40.Do you do sport??
yup

41.Do you like art?
yup

42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??)
I don't know

43.Do you like animals?
yup

44.Are you friendly?
yes

45.How would you describe yourself?
I wouldn't

46.Did you have suicidal thoughts?
no serious ones

47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's?
no

48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement?
???

49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff?
motivation could deffo be higher, but some nice baby steps lately

50.Are you optimistic?
course not

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''?
Especially women tell me, that I don't show my emotions

52.What makes you feel relaxed?
sauna

53.Do you got panic attacks aswell?
I used to.
favorite: door bell

54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect?
kinda

55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??)
no, I think I don't get noticed at all

56.Do you know how to act like a confident person??
I think I do, but I also think that I'm not convincing at all.

57.Do you ever gave a speech?
does a presentation count?

58.Do you like walking in the park?
depends on the park, mabe if it was a really beautiful park, but generally...
...bores me

59.Do you think you are interesting to other people?
not really

60.What is the negative judge you guess from people?
loner, doesn't show any emotions, no success with women...
 

aNOTfox

Well-known member
Yey! questionnaires!

1.How old are you? 18
2.Are you male/female? male
3.Do you have SA? yep
4.How bad is your SA on a scale from 1 to 100? 70 but getting better!
5.Are you diagnosed with Social Anxiety? yep
6.Are you shy? yep
7.What makes you anxious? basically everything XD
8.Do you use meds? (if yes, what kind?) prozac
9.Do you go to therapy? (if yes, what kind?) nope
10.Since when did your SA start? since i can remember

11.Do you have good support from your inforement? dunno what that means. even after googleing it XD
12.Do you actually like doing social stuff? yes! But social anxiety dosen't let me :(
13.Do you have friends? yep
14.Do you have online friends? nope
15.Where do you feel safe, and not anxious at all? at home, but even then OCD gets in the way
16.Do you work, go to school? nope
17.Do you have a relationship? nope
18.Do you believe you can overcome SA? (or do you only hope so?) yes! confidence is key
19.What are your hobbies? drawing, painting, writing music and stories, piano, guitar, walks
20.Do you drink? smoke? neither!

21.Are you introvert of extrovert? introvert
22.Do you have any more disorders? OCD
23.Are you afraid of the supermarket? Yes. how did you know.
24.Are you afraid of making phone calls? Yes! How did you know!
25.Where you bullied in your youth? YES! HOW DID YOU KNOW!!
26.Are you a quiet person? yes
27.Do you avoid eye contact? i try not to
28.Do you blush alot? Yep
29.What makes you really happy? My friends
30.Do you hardly make friends? Yes XD

31.Does your family know about your SA? yes
32.Did you ever visited a doctor? yes
33.What makes you feel confident? (c'mon.. dont be shy.. tell us) Compliments!
34.Are you depressed? getting better
35.Do you believe in god? used to, then I lost my faith and now I wish I could recover my faith.
36.Are you open about your problems, or do you prefer hiding them? and fake a smile? the latter
37.Do you have a good sense of humour? yup
38.Are you happy with your looks? nah
39.What kind of music do you like? It changes all the time! At the moment I'm into film soundtracks.
40.Do you do sport?? Never

41.Do you like art? always!
42.Are you a social person? ( without the SA part...??) yes I think so
43.Do you like animals? yep
44.Are you friendly? yep
45.How would you describe yourself? non-judgemental. and stubborn XD
46.Did you have suicidal thoughts? used to but I'm getting better
47.Have you trouble eating in front of other's? yes i hate eating in public but recently I've been pushing myself to go out to have jacket potatoes :D
48.Do you feel accepted by your inforement? seriously, what does that mean :S?
49.Do you got the motivation to get out of SA? and to do ''more'' social stuff? Yeah I got the motivation!
50.Are you optimistic? I try to be

51.Do you have problems with showing and seeing ''emotions''? nope
52.What makes you feel relaxed? *see hobbies
53.Do you got panic attacks aswell? nope
54.Do you think you have to act and do things perfect? all the time
55.Do you think people stare at you in social places? (if yes, why??) sometimes, depends how self-conscious I am that day
56.Do you know how to act like a confident person?? yes but its difficult and I don't believe putting on an act is good for future friendships
57.Do you ever gave a speech? I did a presentation at college?
58.Do you like walking in the park? depends on the weather XD
59.Do you think you are interesting to other people? probably not
60.What is the negative judge you guess from people? I try not to think like that, focus on positives!
 
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