A couple hours ago, I was forced to meet the folks in the next room over after our collective microwave usage tripped a circuit breaker.
That's my adventure for the day.
That's my adventure for the day.
Post your random thoughts/feelings etc
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WeirdyMcGee
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My advice, portrait-- keep yourself busy; do constructive things with your time and cry if you feel like it.
Don't hold it in.
When I used to be around people- and I'd have people troubles; I'd paint.
Paint and clean, mostly.
And bake... there was pretty much always a fresh cake on the counter for my family every sunday morning from my week of stress.
Constructive is better than free time- free time means time to sit around and think and the more you let your mind wander, the worse you tend to feel.
That's how it always was for me, anyways.
You'll be okay. Just do your best!
Don't hold it in.
When I used to be around people- and I'd have people troubles; I'd paint.
Paint and clean, mostly.
And bake... there was pretty much always a fresh cake on the counter for my family every sunday morning from my week of stress.
Constructive is better than free time- free time means time to sit around and think and the more you let your mind wander, the worse you tend to feel.
That's how it always was for me, anyways.
You'll be okay. Just do your best!
MikeyC
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Were they nice?
Weirdy knows what she's talking about! Excellent advice.
this_portrait
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I actually have some photos I need to edit for tomorrow, but I hardly feel motivated at the moment. Luckily the crying is only off and on (and right now it's off).
They kept me from my pizza rolls for 8 extra minutes, so no.
Seriously, they seemed like nice people, but they're loud and obnoxious at all hours of the day. That's why I haven't otherwise talked to them before.
MikeyC
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8 minutes? INFIDELS!
Ugh, they sound annoying, but they can be at least friendly, so that's something.
MsBuzzkillington
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I seemed to have missed the majority of the going ons about what happened, portrait. I am sorry to hear that things are not going well.
Whenever I go on a date and I don't hear back from the guy I always wonder what I did wrong, but sometimes (most of the time) it's not anything you did wrong. Sometimes things just don't click. For whatever reason the other person just wasn't feeling it. The way I see it is, he just freed you up for someone a lot more worth your time and freed you up for someone who you are going to connect with a lot better. Someone better is going to come along and you'll be thankful that you're available.
In a way it kind of sucks that he just blew you off instead of letting you know how he felt either way. But it seems a lot easier for people to just avoid things instead of being up front. It's not the best choice of actions, but we are all guilty of it at times.
Try and hang in there.
Whenever I go on a date and I don't hear back from the guy I always wonder what I did wrong, but sometimes (most of the time) it's not anything you did wrong. Sometimes things just don't click. For whatever reason the other person just wasn't feeling it. The way I see it is, he just freed you up for someone a lot more worth your time and freed you up for someone who you are going to connect with a lot better. Someone better is going to come along and you'll be thankful that you're available.
In a way it kind of sucks that he just blew you off instead of letting you know how he felt either way. But it seems a lot easier for people to just avoid things instead of being up front. It's not the best choice of actions, but we are all guilty of it at times.
Try and hang in there.
MollyBeGood
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the wind is blowing so hard the roof sounds like it might blow off!
this_portrait
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Thank you.
It probably wouldn't upset me so much if he wouldn't have asked if I'd be interested in hanging out again and then said that he'd call or text me. Makes me feel like I was lead on.
Then again, who knows, I might be overreacting and I'll get a text or call from him out of the blue one day.
MikeyC
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Yeah, this was on the news here, too. One year already...how crazy is that? Solemn day for New Zealanders. Were you affected?I am remembering those victims of the February 22 2011 earthquake, One year today. 185 people lost their lives. Its sad to see pictures and videos on them.
MikeyC
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Maybe you need to do some exercise? It might help release some pent-up energy you may have.
Shyangel
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Hmmm, that's probably a good idea. I'm not sure what to do, though. Alot of the time getting out and moving still isn't enough...It's unusual.
MikeyC
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Then maybe strenuous exercise? :
: I'm not too sure. Hope you're feeling okay, though.
Shyangel
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Then maybe strenuous exercise? :
Haha. I don't know either, so it's alright. Thanks for trying to help anyway.
I feel fine, Mikey, just a little juiced up and wanting to run 10 miles. lol
MikeyC
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I suck at helping sometimes. :Haha. I don't know either, so it's alright. Thanks for trying to help anyway.
I feel fine, Mikey, just a little juiced up and wanting to run 10 miles. lol
:Yeah, get rid of that energy! Lots of running, hitting a punching bag, push-ups, and sex! Woo!
EDIT: Ooookay, I think it's time for bed for me now. :/