Why do things always seem to fall into place for me? I mean I don't deserve, yet whenever a problem arises it works itself out without my help.
I think it may just seem like that at times. But chances are that you're actually doing something about the problem unconsciously, however unconscious and well hidden. Playing your cards right in places that may seem unrelated to the problem, yet helpful in a way. ''
Be nice and polite to the grocery man, and he'll forgive you for not having every peny you owe him.''
It may also seem like things work out on their own because you trust that they will, we tend to notice good things more if we focus on them, and express that on the outside, often aiding in resolving the problem. Same thing with negatives. That's why a person that feels very sorry for itself will think that only bad things happen to him/her, because he/she is looking for them, finds them, and expresses so on the outside.
Also, you shouldn't say that you don't deserve it. ;3 Crap happens to everyone and we all want as much slack as we need. Problem management isn't a competition where slack is given as a reward. And even if it was, you
would totally deserve it. :3