How are you feeling?
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Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
:idontknow: Ah don't know what tae say, really... Sorry yer going through a rough time at the moment, mate. It's no easy carin' for ill or disabled loved one... :sad:
Phoenixx
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^ That's really interesting! The dating ads are probably ones that annoy me the most. *is now tempted to change FB gender to male*Years ago, a friend and I did a little experiment with the FB ads. We both changed our genders from female to male. The ads completely changed. As "females," we got ads about online dating and makeup and beauty stuff and weight loss stuff. As "males," we got ads for concerts and hiking and all kinds of things that were of more interest to us. So I've been a man on FB for about four years now. My mom's profile lists me as her son.
^ I'm really sorry to hear about that. :sad: I understand you got nervous though and didn't know what to do. Like you, I also would've thought he'd go away too if his messages kept getting ignored. Obviously this isn't working so I think this is where you just need to get assertive with him. Give it to him straight that you're really not interested, you only gave the number out of nervousness and the fact he wouldn't back off and was freaking you out, and now you really wish he would back off because he's being rude messaging you all the time. If that doesn't work, then I'd most likely contact your cell phone company to see if they can block the number for you. Or even go as far as changing your number if you have to.I feel stupid.
For whatever reason, a lot of guy strangers have started approaching me lately. No idea why, since until like a month and a half ago, in all of my years of existence, I could have counted on one hand the amount of date offers I had. Anyway, one such guy caught me when I was alone. He was being pushy about getting my number and was quite frankly freaking me out a bit. I just wanted him to go away so I gave in with the intentions of ignoring him. Should have given him a fake one obviously, but I'm stupid in social situations and my experience in this department is so very lacking.
Obviously this back fired epically. He won't stop sending me messages. I'm trying to ignore them but goodness he just won't stop.
Ugh. Why am I such a moron? So so stupid
That's an illusion. The equiprobable part.
vj288
not actually Fiona Apple
Maybe, that's not what it feels like though. If I'm leaning one way or the other, I don't know which (not to say that can't be the case). I could be way on one side and not realize it I suppose as well. :idontknow:
anomicdeer
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I know this is a SA site but the fact that there are people who don't have SA and just sit around and do nothing important or useful and has SSI, makes me pissed off all the time. How can you want to be with someone, have a child get mad that they don't want to marry you and don't try to do anything about it? You just blame everyone for whatever bad happens to you and think you are always right.
vj288
not actually Fiona Apple
Precisely!
Haha, well let's hope I'm closer to the "spurge of productive self-motivated activity" feeling and not the "desire to self destruct" feeling then :
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JuiceB
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^Hope ye feel better soon, JuiceB. :thumbup:
Wow. Thanks guys. Yeah I feel better as far as the depression and stuff. Some moments are worse than others I guess. I did wake up this morning sick but went to work anyway.
Thanks for everyone's concern.
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
F**kin' ragin'! On the verge o' snappin'... :veryangry: :kickingmyself:
this_portrait
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I feel tired and wish that tomorrow would arrive here already.
neardeath
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me, too, Dottie. I wish I knew where to even look for help anymore. It's all been done. Nothing helps. I just get worse.
I am in an acute crisis phase, for sure. Barely coping. Hate life. Nowhere to run. I shouldn't even be taking care of my Mom anymore. I hope I die in my sleep.
I am in an acute crisis phase, for sure. Barely coping. Hate life. Nowhere to run. I shouldn't even be taking care of my Mom anymore. I hope I die in my sleep.
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Depressed as per fuc...kin' usual! Ironically, wishin' ah hud somebody tae talk to. :sad: Preferably somebody that's wasnae a total f**kin' bellend towards me aw the time - but there's naebody.
dottie
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sorry to hear... is your mom immobile?
MikeyC
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You've posted very similar things to this a couple of times now. Maybe it's time to go see someone. I'm sorry things are so bad for you.
You were doing so well less than a month ago. What changed?