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I think many people believe that because they just see the person who is using the other person as the person who is the only one benefiting, when in fact the both parties benefit from the sex because in most cases sex feels good for both people.
Right, but we're talking about using people. As you said before. See above post for the distinction.
How exactly are they lonely when they are having sex with someone like every weekend or even more than that for some people?
Do you honestly think casual sex is absolutely emotionally fulfilling for everyone? One of the few good friends I have compulsively sleeps with men, and is probably the loneliest person I know. Being around people doesn't mean you aren't lonely. I'm around people a lot, I still feel lonely. Alone... lonely.. different things.
2 nights of hanging out with a guy isn't very much at all, and it shouldn't be enough to start worshipping the guy enough that they get emotionally involved to a high degree. Therefore, if they get feelings that are enough to not be able to handle rejection, then that's on them.
If you are misleading women into thinking that there's more to it, then that's essentially preying on the vulnerable.
They chose to have sex that early on while dating, they made that choice.
A lot of people have sex early on from social pressure, or lack of self-esteem.
I'd be beyond ecstatic if I just got spend an hour with the girl of my dreams. I wouldn't be surprised if I was to get rejected. I'd be able to handle rejection from her, in fact, better than I would from other women because I'd be expecting the rejection because she'd be the best looking woman I've gone out with.
The way you talk about yourself implies that you don't value yourself. So, what I'm saying is, when people use others, and discard them so easily, it does nothing but perpetuate feelings of worthlessness that already exist.
Right, but we're talking about using people. As you said before. See above post for the distinction.
How exactly are they lonely when they are having sex with someone like every weekend or even more than that for some people?
Do you honestly think casual sex is absolutely emotionally fulfilling for everyone? One of the few good friends I have compulsively sleeps with men, and is probably the loneliest person I know. Being around people doesn't mean you aren't lonely. I'm around people a lot, I still feel lonely. Alone... lonely.. different things.
2 nights of hanging out with a guy isn't very much at all, and it shouldn't be enough to start worshipping the guy enough that they get emotionally involved to a high degree. Therefore, if they get feelings that are enough to not be able to handle rejection, then that's on them.
If you are misleading women into thinking that there's more to it, then that's essentially preying on the vulnerable.
They chose to have sex that early on while dating, they made that choice.
A lot of people have sex early on from social pressure, or lack of self-esteem.
I'd be beyond ecstatic if I just got spend an hour with the girl of my dreams. I wouldn't be surprised if I was to get rejected. I'd be able to handle rejection from her, in fact, better than I would from other women because I'd be expecting the rejection because she'd be the best looking woman I've gone out with.
The way you talk about yourself implies that you don't value yourself. So, what I'm saying is, when people use others, and discard them so easily, it does nothing but perpetuate feelings of worthlessness that already exist.
