CursedSoul
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it does give confidence to anyone
Are you a Virgin?
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it does give confidence to anyone
knowledgeofself
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in which case that would have to include masturbation as well then. because the way I see it abstaining from the act of sexual intercourse wouldn't alter your state if you were masturbating, you would still be indulging in sexual thoughts and engaging that part of your brain.
OceanMist
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Yep. A lot of people don't mean to be jerks on here, it's just we come across that way when we disagree with someone and/or speak our mind.
Don't worry, I'm definitely the most hated person on here. People think I'm the ultimate jerk.
I really honestly don't know why.
Just because I challenge fallacies people see me as evil.
I'm an unorthodox dude who has different ideas and is willing to challenge the idea that the world is fair, and I guess being different can be hated everywhere, even in a support forum.
xDreamseller
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My first (and so far, only girlfriend) and I were at my house. (Also the first and only time) Got to my bedroom and then I made up some lame excuse about my dad coming home soon and she had to leave. (He wouldn't be home for hours) So I guess that places me as a virgin due to my own "choice"?
This happened a year ago and I still blame my SA for it. (Day after that, I broke up with her and that was that. Dunno why I broke up with her or what I did what I did. I just don't think about it anymore)
This happened a year ago and I still blame my SA for it. (Day after that, I broke up with her and that was that. Dunno why I broke up with her or what I did what I did. I just don't think about it anymore)
CursedSoul
Banned
up u go bro
Rembrandt Broam
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Oh definitely. I find that a good fit is essential.
CursedSoul
Banned
I do understand that
PopulationZero
Active member
i am a virgin and i think i will be for eternity. by choice, believe it or not.
luna_pingleton
New member
I've had two boyfriends in my life, when I was 18 and 19. They both displayed physical interest in me and were both very nice to me, but we did almost nothing together. My first boyfriend I was never attracted to. My second boyfriend I liked, but my own insecurities and supposed asexuality prevented me from appreciating. I am now 22-years-old, finally experiencing physical desires for the first time in my life (like I'm coming of age ten years too late), but have no friends or romantic prospects to speak of, and still way too insecure about my own body and personality to feel comfortable. I'm not even sure I know how to kiss. I have, but never felt I was doing it right.
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MikeyC
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You will have romantic prospects. All it takes is patience.
Welcome to the forum.
No, I'm not, lost it to my current girlfiend no more than 6 months ago, I'm 23.
To be honest at this point I'm not huge into it, I am hardly ever in the mood, but my girlfiend is always in the mood and this kinda rattles me. I enjoy spending time with her, but I feel like everytime we are alone cuddleing that we are obligated to do it, so therefore I'm starting to not like the idea of cuddling. Especially since last time I had trouble staying in the mood/focusing, kinda ruined the moment ::
To be honest at this point I'm not huge into it, I am hardly ever in the mood, but my girlfiend is always in the mood and this kinda rattles me. I enjoy spending time with her, but I feel like everytime we are alone cuddleing that we are obligated to do it, so therefore I'm starting to not like the idea of cuddling. Especially since last time I had trouble staying in the mood/focusing, kinda ruined the moment :
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MotherWolff
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If only I could see it that way.
Supernova
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29 and still one, no experience at all. Sort of might have had a chance, had an online girlfriend - on off relationship, she visted me twice but we were too nervous to look at each other much less do anything else. She told me after towards the end of the second visit how she thought about kissing me, I was suprised. We broke up not long after the second vist after having known each other online for about 8 years, quite volitile relationship/friendship, I was immature and not knowing what I wanted/scared. She was bossy and a pain sometimes!
But I won't get that sort of chance again, someone who liked me, she was a virgin too. We don't speak now but have a few times over the years, she lost her virginity to some old guy (early mid 40's) and got on with her life. She felt she didn't fit in at university and afterwards. I knew I was holding her back, because as I suspected most of the problems were in her head, she did have friends etc, she just needed a push.
Anyway I never really wanted sex, I think I'd just be too scared, I'm just lonely.
But I won't get that sort of chance again, someone who liked me, she was a virgin too. We don't speak now but have a few times over the years, she lost her virginity to some old guy (early mid 40's) and got on with her life. She felt she didn't fit in at university and afterwards. I knew I was holding her back, because as I suspected most of the problems were in her head, she did have friends etc, she just needed a push.
Anyway I never really wanted sex, I think I'd just be too scared, I'm just lonely.
coyote
Well-known member
Yes!
... & I have a bridge to sell you.
I've lost it once, why not again?
just like my car keys
GarbageOfTruth
Member
I'm very much not a virgin. In fact, sex is one of the few social situations in which I feel confidant and competent; therefore, I seek it out often.
mezzoforte
Member
I'm not a virgin. I am 18 and have had two sexual partners, both of which I met online. (SAS)