Are you a Virgin?
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Rembrandt Broam
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Roman Legion
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Yes I am, don't really care too much about sex when one can very easily masturbate. I don't date or even try. The vast majority of women annoy me, the few intellectual or individualist women I find are dating a moron or simply have no desire to date. I seldom leave the house anyway, but if the right one was interested, I have no issues with pre-marital sex as I'm not held down by religious restraints. I'm tired, so I may inadvertently digressed into some stange tanget.
jonas89
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I'm actually and it doesn't really bother me that much, but there are times that it does tho,, what I think of more tho is that I just want to have someone to take care of and spending time with... I have had the opportunity to lose this ridiculous threshold that seems to be on many minds in today's society but the reason for not doing so is because Im not that careless and I just don't feel really comfortable around that person, and maybe Im scared being judge of being one also,,,
It just sounds like of being a virgin is almost as bad as being a rapist.
It just sounds like of being a virgin is almost as bad as being a rapist.
CursedSoul
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If you hardly get out of house then how do you earn your living or manage work/school?
InvisaLady
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This is a bad thing?
If your as insensitive as I am below the waist, it's really not that fun to be on the receiving end. I assume I would most likely just fall asleep, unless the guy has a Hitachi on high attached to his tongue.
Rembrandt Broam
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Ah. I wasn't sure if I'd misunderstood your original statement, but I see what you mean now.
LOL!
CursedSoul
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what??? did ya say masturbate? do you compare it with real sex?? what about all the feelings of intimacy that tickle around the skin of our bodies when we mingle the jingle with our partner?
MikeyC
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Haha, well, good luck! :
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coyote
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Or you end up with really badly grazed knees. :
that actually happened my first time
it was the rough paneling on the wall next to the bed
fortunately, my technique has improved since then
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Because heart surgery is the same as putting a stick into a hole
Looks about the same to me!
Roman Legion
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I am sadly an Army Reservist until January 2014, I don't make much. I can't get into school because I can't afford it and can no longer get the Pell grant to pay as the military transferred me mid-semester and I had to miss it—My professors were told (By me) that I would be coming back to make up work and they ok'ed it. When I returned, they, like altheimers patients asked where I was; I reminded them and they would not allow me to make up my work, causing me to fail and lose my eligibility for the grant. So when I am not at drill for the 1 or 2 days a month earning that $200 check, I sit around and read, play guitar, surf the internet and generally contemplate my very existence. I have given up looking for work as apparently I cannot get even the simplest of the wage slave jobs, to include McDonalds employee, Food City Petrol clerk and so on. I'm not even sure why I still exist without a purpose and hope to figure that out. Until then, I will just keep learning things from books and getting my own education that way.
Yes, masturbation—noun
The stimulation or manipulation of one's own genitals, especially to orgasm; sexual self-gratification.
I don't feel things for other people, especially this feeling of intimacy you speak of, likely because I can't stand the majority of women for various reasons and from experience, they all seem to shun me when I try to ask them out. In conclusion, rather than taking things into my own hands and raping, I just do the stimulation act upon myself as it is a natural thing to do. It has nothing to do with sexual needs, it just gives me one thing in life that actually feels good.
Xervello
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I agree. And never really understood the urgency some have for losing the title of virgin at the expense of the emotional connection patience can bring. I get people's urgency for wanting to experience it. But sticking two pieces of flesh together for the sake of having stuck two pieces of flesh together seems sort of silly. I'm not the first to compare sex to cooking, but that's how I see it. Does one want to rush and make something subpar, or take the time and effort needed until it's perfect for them. I prefer the latter. Then again, it depends on how "hungry" one is, lol.
I'm 35. I'm still a virgin. Each person's feelings toward sex (or the lack thereof) is different, but the older I've gotten, the more relaxed I feel towards it. The youthful longing and curiosity for it isn't a top priority anymore. Besides, one doesn't miss what one never had in the first place.
For those of you younger people who may be discontented virgins, my advice is to not deify sex into this daunting, divine experience you may think it to be. Focus on being who you truly are, put yourself out there and see who is attracted to that. Every person, no matter how unique or strange, has another who finds them appealing. Finding someone special can be a lifechanger. Meaningless sex, to me, is no different than masturbation. The former may feel nicer than the latter, but each hold about the same significance.
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Personally I think the oversexualisation of culture is pretty obnoxious. Everywhere is literally saturated with sex. There's so much of this 'aspirational programming' rubbish absolutely everywhere. Films, television, music videos, the internet.. there's this portrayal of life as we should all be having sex, and if we aren't, we're somehow abnormal. Personally I find the topic of sex extremely boring, I wish it didn't come up so much in general conversation. Part of the reason I started to detach from society was because of the sex obsession I had no interest in, and that in turn apparently made me a figure of ridicule. Apparently not being interested in the pervasive discussion of sex makes me a fem-nazi/lesbian/frigid.. take your pick. I also think sexual preferences are highly personal, and I don't think they need be shared.
With that little rant out of the way, I'd just like to say I don't believe virginity is anything to be ashamed of, no matter how old you are. I can understand the desire for intimacy, but I just feel genuinely sad that it's almost customary for people to feel inadequate if they aren't having sex.
This post has absolutely no direction, but I go where the Amaretto takes me.
With that little rant out of the way, I'd just like to say I don't believe virginity is anything to be ashamed of, no matter how old you are. I can understand the desire for intimacy, but I just feel genuinely sad that it's almost customary for people to feel inadequate if they aren't having sex.
This post has absolutely no direction, but I go where the Amaretto takes me.
Opaline
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I agree. While sex is obviously important, the excess of it in Western culture is obnoxious. And yeah, I don't get why it has to be the go-to topic of so many conversations. Nothing else to talk about... let's talk about sex.
Sex creates life, but sex isn't life itself.
The pick-up artists that spend all their time chasing and bedding women disgust me. Why would you want to make that your life's purpose - to hunt down and bang as many hot pieces of ass as you can? I'm saying that from a woman's perspective of course, maybe it is every man's fantasy
But it just seems so empty to me.Razzlecherry
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The pick-up artists that spend all their time chasing and bedding women disgust me. Why would you want to make that your life's purpose - to hunt down and bang as many hot pieces of ass as you can? I'm saying that from a woman's perspective of course, maybe it is every man's fantasy
That's because it is.