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    Having fun/banter at work

    Ok, so out of all the progress I have made over the years, this is the one thing I still really struggle at, often I become tongue tied and that just leads to feeling angry at myself as the shift goes on which leads to being passive, withdrawn and sometimes jealous. Currently I work in a group...
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    Shyness Rules!

    It's true though. Shyness is fine. I remember hanging out with a group of friends 5+ years ago, we'd go to concerts all the time. One girl was very silly/wacky, did alot of talking, the other friend was just really content being quiet which was fine. He was a good listener just nice. The other...
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    This video is very helpful for SA.

    I watched this last week and i just think it is really inspiring from a man that has done alot in the field of self help. Anthony Robbins - New Year New Life 2012 - YouTube
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    Standing up on a train ride.

    Is anyone else ever forced to stand up on a bumpy train ride? i dont know why but for some reason my anxiety on these occasions causes me to lose my balance. if the train is almost empty i am fine and i feel relaxed but there have been a few occasions this week where i am standing up ready to...
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    does anyone else feel really slow at work?

    i'm in a technical field that i have been semi-interested in for a while in an office. i find myself reading task requests without much clue as to how to start. though i do ask questions if needed i feel that i may be sacked soon because i'm not as sharp as some of the others yet and i dont...
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    Can't take a joke, coming off as serious.

    this is my biggest problem at work and well pretty much everywhere in a social realm. someone will be sarcastic and target me jokingly and i take ages to think of a decent response so i end up just laughing instead. what happens is someone will say "hey so it took you a hundred years to finally...
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    courage the cowardly dog (cartoon)

    this cartoon aired around 1999-2001, its sort of like ren 'n' stimpy ..but courage is such a great dog :D YouTube - ‪Coragem/ courage clip - Now you`re gone‬‎
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    Being fun and teasing/funny at work

    i work in a group of 7-8 people and really i am the only person who can't give sarcasm and teasing back to people who like to play around simply because i can't think of anything decent to respond with, in fact there have been times where i try to be playful and i say something in return to be...
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    Im starting to get symptoms ..

    I just feel that there are no places to go to around where i live .. i'd enjoy playing basketball but there is no where to play at all locally that is accessible ..there are only so many times i can go to the cinemas ... i'd like to go bike riding but i feel a little self conscious riding in...
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    I have the answer and cure to all of this...

    its as easy as observing the ones that are living social lives taking notes and following a model of how and why they are doing it ...get inside the minds of these people.. done. good luck!
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    The Latest Buzz (tv show)

    its a kids show really but its actually funny as is the script ... its about a bunch of high school editors and their daily adventures..i mean its a litte silly but so what? they name dropped some bands like the arcade fire and radiohead...they just seem like really happy people.. i look at...
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    If i'm not self conscious after two beers

    corona beers.. how do i pull this off nturally whithout two beers::o:
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    Being too serious around people!

    I can talk to people but the problem i'm having is that because i'm nervous i either ask questions like "have you heard about this" or make statements about things but its not usually funny because its too straight forward... also i seem to be having a problem with carrying a conversation, i'll...
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    Dangerously, controlling arrogant people...

    alright so i seem to be coming across alot of arrogant people lately, it feels as if alot of them are from the baby boomers generation of the 40s/50s/60s era...back from the conservative days, this is a bit of a generalisation as any generation can harvest these sorts of people ...i am talking...
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    Things to do if you have no friends

    All i can think of is going to the movies or going for a run, or going to the shops..i mean i dont live close to the city so everything feels really limiting. maybe its just me...i hate being stuck in the house with family...after a while it drives me a little round the bend...any advice or tips?
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