Richey
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I can talk to people but the problem i'm having is that because i'm nervous i either ask questions like "have you heard about this" or make statements about things but its not usually funny because its too straight forward...
also i seem to be having a problem with carrying a conversation, i'll say something then respond so that's two interactions and then ..that's it..i'm out of ideas so back to silence..
when i try to be funny at work i'm not funny, it usually comes across as lame while others can naturally joke around and use sarcasm or some innuendo with ease...
i'm finding it very difficult at the moment which just makes me stay quiet alot of the time. its not the fear of failure its more feeling ordinary in these situations.
i feel that because i've grown up around mainly serious people who take life and themselves way to seriously, its sort of rubbed off on me a little though i try to lighten up the mood if i can...things like conditioning can play a role in this...it sucks.
also i seem to be having a problem with carrying a conversation, i'll say something then respond so that's two interactions and then ..that's it..i'm out of ideas so back to silence..
when i try to be funny at work i'm not funny, it usually comes across as lame while others can naturally joke around and use sarcasm or some innuendo with ease...
i'm finding it very difficult at the moment which just makes me stay quiet alot of the time. its not the fear of failure its more feeling ordinary in these situations.
i feel that because i've grown up around mainly serious people who take life and themselves way to seriously, its sort of rubbed off on me a little though i try to lighten up the mood if i can...things like conditioning can play a role in this...it sucks.
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