Such a woman? I thought the issue was someone who'd been left by a guy to take care of the kids. How did that become someone who'd slept with hundred of guys?
I was just giving an example of a different situation.
Would you date someone with kids
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I was just giving an example of a different situation.
I think you have suddenly lunged into an extreme comparison to prove a very poor point.
The vast majority of people have had only a handful of sexual partners by thier 20's
Ah. Okay. I still don't see the relevance. But alright.
The basic idea is that women who make mistakes with sexual partners are to be avoided?
Right, riiiight. You are all absolutely right and I'm all wrong, ok!!?
Single mothers are all wonderful and lovely!
I'm probably the only person in the world mad enough (for some very curious reason) not to be in total awe of them.
Now lets get this discussion all wrapped up nicely because I'm honestly sick of it.
Single mothers are all wonderful and lovely!
I'm probably the only person in the world mad enough (for some very curious reason) not to be in total awe of them.
Now lets get this discussion all wrapped up nicely because I'm honestly sick of it.
I was a single parent who got custody of my children as my partner had a cocaine habit and a subsquent breakdown, does that make me unworthy? If I was female would I be deemed equally as bad by you? I think you should not generalise as it is a huge mistake when it comes to accessing a persons character
fudgy
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do you think "us" single parents carry out a fkin intelligence test first !!!!
get a grip on reality my friend cos right now I can honestly say I have never heard so much self rightous crap in all my life !!
you are not good enough to breathe near a single mother right now !!
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I was merely addressing the question of whether I would date a woman with children
And yes, of course I'm judgmental of guys who dump their pregnant wives.
Good point, ma'am.
Bama_Heath
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I've dated one girl that had a child. It was not really a big deal other than the fact that in a situation like mine you will most likely have to deal with the other parent/ex. That was the difficult part because the dude was psychotic. I couldn't deal with that part and is the main reason it did not work...I got along fine with the kid though.
It's pretty sad to read isn't it. Oh well, you can't change someone, only help them to see a different view and let them make their own choices. Unfortunately everyone matures at different rates, it's best not to let it get to you, hun :
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Damaged
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No i wouldn't, i don't know why?
Maybe because i cant really take care of my emotions right now i wouldn't want to put that on a child (if i was involved).
Also i want to have someone who hasnt experienced going through the 9 months and having a baby already so we'd be in the same boat (weird i know)
Maybe because i cant really take care of my emotions right now i wouldn't want to put that on a child (if i was involved).
Also i want to have someone who hasnt experienced going through the 9 months and having a baby already so we'd be in the same boat (weird i know)
da_illest101
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I was too tired to give a develop answer
1) I do not judge those women, it can be either an accident or it can because a long relationship ended.
2) I do not want to take care of her kids ( that situation might not applied for all)
3) It's hard to be someone's priority when they have other of they own
4) i'm not even sure I want kids
of course if i was a single dad with kids I would want women to not care but I would understand if they don't
1) I do not judge those women, it can be either an accident or it can because a long relationship ended.
2) I do not want to take care of her kids ( that situation might not applied for all)
3) It's hard to be someone's priority when they have other of they own
4) i'm not even sure I want kids
of course if i was a single dad with kids I would want women to not care but I would understand if they don't
iamthenra
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I answered yes, simply because I personally don't want to have kids. I don't want any offspring to suffer through life like I have, feeling depressed and sad all the time isn't much fun... I would gladly accept a partners children as my own, that wouldn't bother me at all. I love kids, I would love to have a partner even more....
bettyw7679
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I am also a new member. Would a newcomer be warmly welcome here? Good day you guy !
Lost Girl
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Avery
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I wouldn't feel comfortable with anyone more experienced than I am (i.e., practically everyone), and mothers are more experienced than I am by definition. So no, I wouldn't date a mother.
I get along great with kids, but only those in my really close family. Outside of that limited scope I'm just as uncomfortable around kids as I am around adults.
I get along great with kids, but only those in my really close family. Outside of that limited scope I'm just as uncomfortable around kids as I am around adults.
Danfalc
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I'm probably the only person in the world mad enough (for some very curious reason) not to be in total awe of them.
No one is saying you have to be in total awe of single mothers.I think it's just your statement that if they are on there own,it must be there own fault,deserved to be in that situation and therefore not worth your time that irked people.
Your entitled to your opinion and everything bit do expect flack if you make a sweeping statement like that,and no one is saying you have to date single mothers,just the way you worded it made you sound like all single mothers deserved to be on their own or something.