The Confession Booth
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Did you let this person know it was not meant? Or would that not help the situation?
kihira
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Often it takes a few times before we learn
sanitariumcalls
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I need to sound off about something, and didn't know where else to put it so I'm putting it in here.
I'm so ****ing sick of seeing teen moms. I mean, disgusted. Society enables them to do it, there are pregnancy packs in schools, welfare just keeps handing out money to these stupid b*tches! I mean c'mon!
Obviously there is nothing that can be done about underage sex, but why can't we do something about their pregnancies?! These kids... I mean My God! They're kids themselves! They bring these tiny, innocent lives into a world filled with drama, drugs, alcohol and abuse! How are they so blind to this? How can they be so selfish, we ask?
Because their minds are too immature to understand it, that's why. If there was any time to amend rules and laws against this, it is now. I'm not saying throwing young mothers in jail (although some of them need a good wake up call), but make it so they can't get any help from the state! Do away with welfare for pregnant mothers! Tighten up the routine checks on families with pregnant daughters so their parents can't commit welfare fraud! Do away with school daycares! Make it so they see with their own eyes how wrong they are acting!!!!
I'm tired of seeing adults, who took care of themselves and saved the money to support a child, not being able to have their own! I'm tired and sad to see that, and these kids are just popping them out irresponsibly! Its an awful thing, seeing hard working, responsible ADULTS have their efforts wasted while some dumb slut opens her legs and whoop there's a child. And even worse, those poor ADULTS's hard earned tax dollars go to support that b*tch's bad choices!
I had to get that out... I don't feel a whole lot better... but at least its been vented
I'm so ****ing sick of seeing teen moms. I mean, disgusted. Society enables them to do it, there are pregnancy packs in schools, welfare just keeps handing out money to these stupid b*tches! I mean c'mon!
Obviously there is nothing that can be done about underage sex, but why can't we do something about their pregnancies?! These kids... I mean My God! They're kids themselves! They bring these tiny, innocent lives into a world filled with drama, drugs, alcohol and abuse! How are they so blind to this? How can they be so selfish, we ask?
Because their minds are too immature to understand it, that's why. If there was any time to amend rules and laws against this, it is now. I'm not saying throwing young mothers in jail (although some of them need a good wake up call), but make it so they can't get any help from the state! Do away with welfare for pregnant mothers! Tighten up the routine checks on families with pregnant daughters so their parents can't commit welfare fraud! Do away with school daycares! Make it so they see with their own eyes how wrong they are acting!!!!
I'm tired of seeing adults, who took care of themselves and saved the money to support a child, not being able to have their own! I'm tired and sad to see that, and these kids are just popping them out irresponsibly! Its an awful thing, seeing hard working, responsible ADULTS have their efforts wasted while some dumb slut opens her legs and whoop there's a child. And even worse, those poor ADULTS's hard earned tax dollars go to support that b*tch's bad choices!
I had to get that out... I don't feel a whole lot better... but at least its been vented
I feel soo guilty cause I haven't done enough...
I want to do so much more..
I know exactly what to do too, for some of the things too.. but I've been chicken about it.. /sigh/
or had a headache, or feeling sucky, or it was an 'unlucky' day.. /don't ask/ yikes
There's soo much more we could do, I just don't get it why I haven't done it yet.. grr!!
I want to do so much more..
I know exactly what to do too, for some of the things too.. but I've been chicken about it.. /sigh/
or had a headache, or feeling sucky, or it was an 'unlucky' day.. /don't ask/ yikes
There's soo much more we could do, I just don't get it why I haven't done it yet.. grr!!
3lefts
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I know your heart is in the right place, it greatly weighs on my mind the children that grow up in poor circumstances too, but it's not categorized to young teens. Many 'adults' are no better. If we we're too young to have children as teenagers then why is it so? No, we are very much mature enough to have children when we do, because that's the way we're made. Our contemporary social nature is what detours our mental capability, that's all.
Some teen moms do really well.
The taxes/welfare is a political mess. Those people are just taking advantage of it. And every one takes advantage of something in their life.
sanitariumcalls
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I'm not trying to sound like a b*tch here, but if I cared who I offended, I wouldn't have posted it at all. My own sister is part of that rant, so its not like I don't have a personal connection with the issue.
I have no qualms about my opinions, and I don't apologize for my beliefs. But I will relent on my tenacity enough to say if it was a REAL accident, my rant does not apply.
The women who may have fallen into my radius of anger know in their hearts if it was a real accident or they were just being stupid, so if anyone gets offended its on their conscience why they're getting defensive because I'm telling the truth about an epidemic or they chose to take something a perfect stranger said personally.
just wanna b normal
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i dont if i could do this but yeah i forgive myself for letting my 1 special someone walk away from me cuzz my SA...man that didnt feel any better just brought back painful memories...*sigh* i dont know if i could forgive her cuzz she hurt me really bad but i alwayz say i do & even try to forgive her but i dont think i really do cuzz i feel nothing but disgust & anger towards her for how she treated me! she broke my heart *cries* *sigh* she hurt me on purpose f**in HOE!!! i forgive you tho!!! cuzz i want to move on but the SA is stoping me from moving on frum meeting anybody else. so the pain justs sits there eating at me everday my heart is in so much in pain rite now...*tears* *sigh*
thats my confession i dink feel alittle better mostly pain...
thats my confession i dink feel alittle better mostly pain...
Confuseddd
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i agree with her... She is right. To think a teenager is capable of such a task is morally and logically flawed. Life is about perception and expierence, there is no way that a teenager has the amount of wisdom and knowledge needed to properly introduce a child into the world. You must first figure out life and your own life before you help a young child develope into this big unkown world. Having a kids means taking your life and putting it on a complete halt until that kid is able to leave on there own(18). Financially this child will be what all your expenses go into, as well as bills. You as a parent must help this child understand the world and develope into a human being. It is absurd to think that a teenager could ever be financially steady or emotionally stable enough to handle a kid, and if it were up to me (i know that it is not) this action would be illegal.
Rembrandt Broam
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The problem with stopping their welfare, is that it won't just be the mother who suffers, but the child too. And when you stop welfare, and leave people desperately short of money, they simply turn to other methods to obtain it. Given that they're on welfare to begin with, those other options probably won't include getting a job, but will be more likely to involve crime. A mother who needs something for her baby, but has no money is much more likely to shoplift it for example.
Dronee
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I somewhat agree... though I think the issue is far more complex. The whole range of systems is deeply flawed somewhere or maybe they're all very, very badly flawed.
Many or perhaps most people are to a large degree the product of the systems they live in. What do you propose then apart from merely taking away welfare, since that would make the child suffer as well....
punklove
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I confess that a few people in this world I do strongly dislike and wish bad things upon them.
I confess that I sometimes resort to unhealthy dangerous things to make myself feel temporarily satisfied.
I confess that I don't really like myself that much.
I confess that I've done sexual things in the past that I'm not proud of.
I confess that I've shoplifted on numerous occasions and I don't feel bad about it.
I confess that there's probably so much more for me to confess
I confess that I sometimes resort to unhealthy dangerous things to make myself feel temporarily satisfied.
I confess that I don't really like myself that much.
I confess that I've done sexual things in the past that I'm not proud of.
I confess that I've shoplifted on numerous occasions and I don't feel bad about it.
I confess that there's probably so much more for me to confess
I confess that I am a lonely person.
I confess I don't quite have the strength to change that, and "get out there."
I confess that I become attracted to people very easily. I consider myself very open minded, and I try to see the good in every person.
I confess that I've believed for a long time I am Bipolar.
I confess that however far-fetched, cliche, or perhaps stupid it may sound, but I'd love nothing more for somebody to come into my life and change my world.
That's probably about all for now.
I confess I don't quite have the strength to change that, and "get out there."
I confess that I become attracted to people very easily. I consider myself very open minded, and I try to see the good in every person.
I confess that I've believed for a long time I am Bipolar.
I confess that however far-fetched, cliche, or perhaps stupid it may sound, but I'd love nothing more for somebody to come into my life and change my world.
That's probably about all for now.
Sinar_Matahari
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I see dead people....naked dead people. They don't know they're naked.
punklove
Well-known member
I'm a cutter too.
Everyday im hoping i have cancer and die so i cant be blamed for hurting my family by killing myself.
I stopped taking the birthcontrol pill once without my boyfriend knowing (he defintely didnt want a baby and i knew) :
I threatened my dad once to call the police when he ever touched me again (he only grabbed my arm because i did something he didnt like)
Wow, now that's bad.
You're not hurting your family, they probably don't understand that you are maybe just the black sheep. Which is awesome, because it shows individuality.
As for the cancer part, um yeah it's not a nice way to go. You want to live life and see what it can do for you instead of you trying to do things for it.
My mind has degenerated a lot over time. Whatever is left, is just a blur of what was once there. I'm not dumb, but it has caused me to become very slow..
Forcing me to do simple things, all in the meanwhile knowing I could do far better, if I were still at my prime. Mental prime, that is.
And I let it happen.. Through denial. Stress. Not running away when I should have. All adding up to damaging myself more and more. I am a lot responsible for my mental state. Not the main cause, but certainly responsible.
Forcing me to do simple things, all in the meanwhile knowing I could do far better, if I were still at my prime. Mental prime, that is.
And I let it happen.. Through denial. Stress. Not running away when I should have. All adding up to damaging myself more and more. I am a lot responsible for my mental state. Not the main cause, but certainly responsible.