...then I think that it is OK and perfectly acceptable - its such a shame to think that the ONLY barrier for people to know each other better is because of a contextual environment. there is always potential - provided that the desire and consent is there from both parties...
but i'm worried about what her husband would think
I might get flamed for this but...
why care what her husband thinks? Did you make wedding vows to him? Did you promise him anything? Nope. If it's mutual than her marriage isn't that great and she probably shouldn't be married in the first place then..and THAT is not your problem.
oh, i agree - it's not that
i'm more just worried that he might want to hurt me or something
i'm a lover, not a fighter
he's a chef and owns a lot of knives
oh, i agree - it's not that
i'm more just worried that he might want to hurt me or something
i'm a lover, not a fighter
he's a chef and owns a lot of knives
i have a job interview tomorrow! =3
I bet you are a lover coyote.
But, jokes aside, how is their relationship going? If there's mutual interest between you two, the relationship is on the road to ruin and you want to take things further with her, then maybe it would be best to wait until it ends to go any further or you could ask her to break up with him before you two go any further. I'm not saying that you can't move forward now, but just be ready to accept the consequences of what'll come about, no matter what they are. So, for example, if he does pull out the knives, then call the cops.