So - i have decided that for a week or so, I am going to behave like a complete jerk - as a social experiment. I am going to be rude, curt, boorish, arrogant, condescending, insensitive and inconsiderate - I should be getting laid daily if my calculations are correct and command respect from my fellow alpha males. This in itself is a douchebaggy thing to do so I am on a good start.
Only to people who dont know me of course.
Being an ******* - is being 'confident'
Please do not do damage to yourself and hurt other people. I hope this is sarcasm, but I know why you would feel in such a way although I'm not a dude. I've done sociology experiments for class, but I made sure I never hurt anyone and I went to locations that I did not have to go back to much.
I'm sorry, Kia. I don't know why those girls don't like you. You have my respect, sorry that you can't find that. I see you're really hurting over this, I wish I could help you. Whatever you decide to do please think twice. Yea it can suck having a soft heart sometimes, because not many are appreciative and no one trust anyone much and to be honest, I don't trust much.
It's good to let out your feelings. I see a reason why you are feeling this way and I know my virtual hugs won't do much. I feel like this is a losing game also and I wonder if I wore the latest clothes and wasn't shy would more guys like me? I saw that chart you posted, lol, but I feel at disadvantage than other females because I'm shy and Don't care about things that most people do.
You guys on here probably don't believe me and think I'm just being nice, but you guys are attractive and have good qualities. It makes me sad to see y'all sad, I don't know you all personally, but the very fact that you're putting your deepest emotions out to the world, shows how much balls you have. I known many people you have to pull this out of them, there are some people there want to see you for who you are.
Yes I did just use that " there are people who will see you for who you are" line. I know it does not mean **** when you're stressed because you want to flip it off. That it also hurts after rejection because you don't want to keep hitting misses. I have to keep convincing myself also even though in the back of my mind I know it's true. I wish I could solve this problem, but I don't understand things myself. Try no to go to the extreme. ♥
I wish I could help....