How long have you been single?
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JamesSmith
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Wow, that scares the heck out of me too. I don't want to be that guy either. I think you may be right, we may have to be that guy. By the time we actually found someone, we'll be further along in life than most other people, and that means everyone else will be married except for the women who are what you just stated. These women won't be marrying us, they'll be marrying the only opportunity left to have children and have a dependable man to share living expenses with.
Well, we'll see what happens. Hopefully things turn out better than this.
Kristina223
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Almost 19 years. 19 on February. :
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JamesSmith
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I see a lot of negative attitude for being single in this thread. It may be a grass is greener on the other side case. Haven't you heard those people who say they would love to be in our situation cuz they are sick of being in a relationship and catering to someone else's needs? I've had a girlfriend before, and it wasn't that great. All of the sudden, you have to be careful about what you do and be concerned about another individual. It's kind of like carrying a another person on your shoulders through life. It's great at times, but I'm wondering if the not-great times outweigh the great times.
Liam17
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It's human nature, to want to love, and to be with somebody.
I'd love to have someone to talk to, someone to be close to and to love.
Liam17
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All my life im affraid, and i dont think it will change any time soon, thats so pathetic...
Sometimes i wonder how wonderful that must be, to have someone who loves you..
I wonder the same mate :/
x-t0mat0s-x
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Im 24 and for 20 years I was fine with being alone but for the past 3-4 years (correlate with me being in university) ive wanted a girlfriend..., but I am scared to death. It's not the sex that I want the most, it's to be intimate, loving someone and been loved in return. I envy people that have that.
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aien89
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Exactly, Liam - I have the same feeling.
I just turned single last month actually, so I still very much miss the girl, but it was my choice to break-up. Why? Because I didn't feel loved, and I want to feel loved - otherwise there's not much point in being in a relationship.
We're all different people, but those things JamesSmith just described, is something I dream about. I don't care about "being careful about what you do and being concerned about another individual."
I would love to find a girl, where we share this mutual care and love. To care for another human being is certainly not a burden.
R3K
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last girlfriend was when i was 22, i'm gonna be 31 soon, so i've been single for 9 years. i dont' get the "he must be gay" treatment, but i can't stand looking at other couples, or seeing the magazine covers at stores "9million sex tricks to try with your hot sexy wife (except for Jason who hasn't even been on 1st base in 9 years)"
Kiwong
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I see it as need not to be loved, or even liked, but just to fit in. I want to feel at peace in the world, I want to fit in. I don't assess myself as single, I refuse to fill it out as a status even on census forms.
there are an infinite number of ways to feel love in this world other than in the realm of romantic relationships.
there are an infinite number of ways to feel love in this world other than in the realm of romantic relationships.