How desirable do you think you are to the opposite sex?
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Uber Schnitzel
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Can't really break it down into numbers but I find my own opinion of myself both in terms of looks and personality varies wildly either way on a daily basis. Starting to feel a bit more stable/confident about it all but it's still a constant battle
Tiercel
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heartstrings
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I know I'm ugly because people cringe and look me up and down when they see me so....a 0. But I have facial scars so that may also...Lol
Pookah
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Which eye are you referring to? They have many, and they're all dangerous.
Screw beholders, the mind flayers freak me out.
Lonestar473
Active member
Meh...
Varies.
Maybe a 2 at the best and -5 at the not so good..
Varies.
Maybe a 2 at the best and -5 at the not so good..
goldenholds
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Sorry for the long post, here goes. I'm not really sure, people rarely comment on my looks. Once a friend of mine told her friends that she thought I was good-looking, and they just looked at me and frowned. My aunt also told my mother once that she(my mother) had good looking children, then looked at me and frowned and said "well". For a good number of years I felt like the hunch back of notre dame, and it took everything I had to cope with feeling so ugly in the presence of others. Yet one time one of my friends told me he didn't understand why I didn't try more with women, he said I could have whatever girl I wanted, but that I just didn't try. So I was usually more confused than anything.
Meantime, these days, I am changing how I think about the world and myself, cracking the negative thoughts, getting in better shape, and accepting myself better. It’s like the "streets of london" after all. And though I'm sure I will not be appealing to many people, I'm happy with how I look, and I wouldn't want to look any other way. I look like me, and that’s exactly how I should look. And since I've been more confident, and not as distracted by the anxiousness, I've noticed a few women have been looking my way. There was a girl one time that made me feel like a million bucks, and I talked to her just the other day, and now I'm thinking things aren't so bad after all. Maybe I can get her to look my way too.
Meantime, these days, I am changing how I think about the world and myself, cracking the negative thoughts, getting in better shape, and accepting myself better. It’s like the "streets of london" after all. And though I'm sure I will not be appealing to many people, I'm happy with how I look, and I wouldn't want to look any other way. I look like me, and that’s exactly how I should look. And since I've been more confident, and not as distracted by the anxiousness, I've noticed a few women have been looking my way. There was a girl one time that made me feel like a million bucks, and I talked to her just the other day, and now I'm thinking things aren't so bad after all. Maybe I can get her to look my way too.
Why am I attaching a feeling of complexity to this question? Seems easy to answer. Cannot find right answer. Maybe I am caught between two. Negative and Positive. Which is true? None are true.
Answer: N/A.
Answer: N/A.
Tiercel
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Screw beholders, the mind flayers freak me out.
That one is pretty hot.... Looks like it could be in a telepathic goth band, too.
Definitely desirable, regardless of its sex.
Ecclesiastes
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I guess mine varies really to extremes. At times when I look into the mirror, I could go as high as maybe an 8.
But sometimes when I look into the mirror, I feel like smashing it into pieces because I think I'm the ugliest person ever brought into this world, and might prolly be too ugly to even be around on this earth.
I have been told to have body image distortion. Idk if it's true but I think I'd only believe what I see.
But sometimes when I look into the mirror, I feel like smashing it into pieces because I think I'm the ugliest person ever brought into this world, and might prolly be too ugly to even be around on this earth.
I have been told to have body image distortion. Idk if it's true but I think I'd only believe what I see.
AntonioJohn
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looks: 8
character: 3
character: 3
jcoffeecat
New member
My husband says 10... I say lower than 0, lol. Whatever, all I know is if you don't like yourself there's nothing anyone can say to change it, no matter how good their intentions are. I just wish he could understand that.