Grrr, I know something like that can be difficult to not let it get to you, Mikey. Food is a great idea though! :thumbup: tantalize those taste buds for distraction erfect:One comment has left me feeling blue. Damn it. It was throwaway and meant nothing. I think I'll go out for food. That'll cheer me up.
One comment has left me feeling blue. Damn it. It was throwaway and meant nothing. I think I'll go out for food. That'll cheer me up.
It's amazing that a total insult can have no effect, yet a comment not related to anything can burrow deep. It's crazy!
I will go out for food very shortly.
Just something my dad said. It's all good, though, thanks.
I say go out anyway. It might be anxious but you may even enjoy yourself. Opposites can attract!
Let me know how it went.It happens. Hope the food will make you feel better.
Thanks, I will. We'll see how it goes.
Let me know how it went.
So he's attracted to you? You'll have to let him down in time, but at least you went out and it turned out alright.It was alright, we talked, grabbed some food. He wanted to spend more time with me but I made an excuse. I know why he's doing all this, today. He's a nice person, full of life, really social, thinks he can get anything if he keep at it but he's really not the type of person I can fall for.
The more you do, the more experiences you'll have, whether they're good or bad. The bad times are not good, but even then you may be able to look back and laugh one day. The good times are definitely worth it.This last few years have been a battle of massive highs and lows, I've achieved heaps, felt like a failure too. I can even see the good that came out of the very worse of times. I've been close to the point of nervous breakdown, and feared it's all going to end.
Even all the ill health I went through and conquered, seems part of a life being lived, finally. I've even felt happiness on more occasions than even my happy childhood, and I've experiences sadness deeper than I have ever known. I have despaired, lost and regained hope. I've experienced pain and the miracle of being healed. I have made dream come true for myself, while living a nightmare.
It feels there actually a story going on in my life, of good and bad experiences. I wonder if that is because I am finally making the effort to get out and live? Trying to live is hard, that is the nature of it.
I'm finally living, and have a life story to tell.
The more you do, the more experiences you'll have, whether they're good or bad. The bad times are not good, but even then you may be able to look back and laugh one day. The good times are definitely worth it.
I'm glad that you have that mentality now. It means you can let go and enjoy what you can today.Yes, MikeyC, I think living is worth it, the experience, with all the good and the bad. I find that looking back a lot of the bad stuff is forgotten, or you only see the good that came out of bad.
I'm glad that you have that mentality now. It means you can let go and enjoy what you can today.
Yeah he is although I've told him that I'm not. But he's optimistic that things are going to work out someday if he keeps trying.So he's attracted to you? You'll have to let him down in time, but at least you went out and it turned out alright.
Hang in there Mikey. Loneliness sucks.Lonely.
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