Section_31
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Big awkward manhug to you Graeme!
How are you feeling?
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twiggle
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I absolutely hate when this happens. Happened to me yesterday. A break of thought (such as sleep) usually helps a lot - I hope the early night helped for you.
This doesn't sound too good and whatever it is you make it seem like something factual that will definitely occur. I'm sorry you're feeling this way Gunman, I hope you can manage to find a solution.
Section_31
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Hey Twig
. Aww thank you....its just tough because ppl have a very difficult time changing...and in this case its a toxic situation that feels like im slowly being suffocated. sometimes the person wants to help themselves, other times not so much....and its hurting me emotionally every day. But its something theyre TRYING on but theyre just not succeeeding...and that all therein makes it more difficult for me to look at the future because i cant keep going this way forever.
nothing is a certainty. Im an optimist and i like to believe the best can happen. but sometimes things dont always do that way you know? despite our best efforts =\.
whatever the outcome ill still be here though
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Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
twiggle
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Hey Twig
its just tough because ppl have a very difficult time changing...and in this case its a toxic situation that feels like im slowly being suffocated. sometimes the person wants to help themselves, other times not so much....and its hurting me emotionally every day. But its something theyre TRYING on but theyre just not succeeeding...and that all therein makes it more difficult for me to look at the future because i cant keep going this way forever.
nothing is a certainty. Im an optimist and i like to believe the best can happen. but sometimes things dont always do that way you know? despite our best efforts =\.
whatever the outcome ill still be here though
I'm sorry you are feeling so hurt, Gunman :
: It's tough sometimes to observe it when people are trying to help themselves but not getting the results their efforts deserve. And I know that you're being as supportive as you can be. Maybe this person needs to know how you are truly feeling. It might be upsetting for them, but it might also give them the boost they need to really push ahead and make that extra step forward.
PM me if ever you need to get anything off your chest and keep hold of that optimism. If there's one thing I've learnt about life, it's that it has the potential to surprise us every single day.
Srijita52
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MikeyC
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Thanks, twiggle.
It did.You're doing the best you can, buddy. I know you'll be okay.Hey Twig
its just tough because ppl have a very difficult time changing...and in this case its a toxic situation that feels like im slowly being suffocated. sometimes the person wants to help themselves, other times not so much....and its hurting me emotionally every day. But its something theyre TRYING on but theyre just not succeeeding...and that all therein makes it more difficult for me to look at the future because i cant keep going this way forever.
nothing is a certainty. Im an optimist and i like to believe the best can happen. but sometimes things dont always do that way you know? despite our best efforts =\.
whatever the outcome ill still be here though
vj288
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Frustrated, today I was supposed to register for class, but apparently it is required to talk to my adviser beforehand, so I couldn't. Now all the class I need to take have almost no more spots left and by the time I am able to register tomorrow will be almost definitely filled. On top of that my schedule is going to go to **** because I'm going to have to pick from what's available and not the times that I wanted either. At least I don't have work or have anyone I would like to spend my free time with during that semester...oh wait :veryangry: It's such a stupid system I didn't need to do this to register for my current classes, yet now I do. If I'm extra lucky I'll have to take summer or winter classes to graduate on time now.
aquarius86
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I'm excited. I'm getting a new cellphone tonight!
truffleshuffle
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I am feeling burnt. Thats becasue I burnt my thumb getting something out of the oven. Some how I always burn my self getting something out of the oven.
Daniel089
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I feel pretty weird. I feel like finding someone to love but... I'm registered on a dating site, where a girl found me, we're already fb friends and she seems interested in talking to me (so i guess she's interested in a way).
The problem is I don't think she's not attractive but I would want to write to some other girls as well, cause I'm rather interested in them, but I wouldn't mind getting to know the first girl a bit more (who knows I'd might really like her if I ever met her), not that I want to play with her feelings... So this might sound stupid, but should I feel guilty about this?
The problem is I don't think she's not attractive but I would want to write to some other girls as well, cause I'm rather interested in them, but I wouldn't mind getting to know the first girl a bit more (who knows I'd might really like her if I ever met her), not that I want to play with her feelings... So this might sound stupid, but should I feel guilty about this?
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truffleshuffle
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Why not find out how that person feels about you before you go jumping off a bridge so to speak. . YOu want to find love just like most of us do. What if she is the one for you. I think get to know her better but that dosen;t mean you have to limit yourself since you barly know her. I would probably find out about her before I started chatting with other women but thats just me. Who knows maybe she will turn out to be the one for you but also maybe not. You should not feel guilty about talking to other people Unless you two were dating then It would be a little awkward.
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MikeyC
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Do you think that you're the only guy this girl is talking to? The chances of that are slim.
The two of you aren't dating and you don't really know her so I think you're totally free to talk to other girls on that site. I'm willing to put money on the fact that she's also scoping out other guys, too.
truffleshuffle
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Good luck Mikey I hope it dose its thing for you. I Usualy feel stuck in limbo as well. Although I don;t usualy feel it goes in the right direction for me I hope it dose for you.
Labyrinthine
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Embarrassed. <.<
just earlier today, I was thinking that my fear of spiders was lessening. Then it happened while I was minding my business, sitting on the couch. The most ridiculously large spider scurried over and stopped right next to me. It very well could have been the spawn of Shelob. After flinging my limbs around in hopes of successfully removing it, I had to get my grandfather to do it. Ridiculous.
just earlier today, I was thinking that my fear of spiders was lessening. Then it happened while I was minding my business, sitting on the couch. The most ridiculously large spider scurried over and stopped right next to me. It very well could have been the spawn of Shelob. After flinging my limbs around in hopes of successfully removing it, I had to get my grandfather to do it. Ridiculous.
truffleshuffle
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Lol Don't be embarrassed about hating spiders. I am a guy and they creep me the heck out Specialy the big ones. If one came up on or by me I might not flinging my limbs around but I sure would be jumping up and trying to get away from it.
MikeyC
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Cheers, man. I feel okay.
My pants would've been completely soiled. :blushing: Not ridiculous one bit.
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So I was at work and then 4 skateboarders decided to use the courtyard to skate and hang out. They were minding their own business and weren't causing any issues but I got so anxious about them being able to see me that I was getting weak in the legs. :
: That was below average on my part. I can't believe I let them make me so anxious in the first place. It's over now so I can relax.
Starry
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I woke up in the night with a dream about having a migraine aura, and whether the dream continued into my waking state or I actually had an aura I don't know, but there appeared to be an aura and a very loud ringing in my one ears, I fell asleep again almost instantly, but now I have a headache, possibly a migraine on the same side of my head as the ringing ear (I find it difficult to tell the difference between headaches and migraines since my migraines are pretty mild when I get them - quite rarely)...
Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
Depressed, no' to happy. :: Eh, just in the same auld mood, really. Socially isolated.
And yet, am fed up with feelin' obligated tae be sociable. But I feel that I cannae stand up fur maself and say "No" every once in a while.
Naw! Am too scared tae accept that ye cannae please everybody aw the time.
: Eh, just in the same auld mood, really. Socially isolated. And yet, am fed up with feelin' obligated tae be sociable. But I feel that I cannae stand up fur maself and say "No" every once in a while.
Naw! Am too scared tae accept that ye cannae please everybody aw the time.