Just got a letter from the executor of my father's estate. He left absolutely f*** all to his older kids. Everything goes to the youngest members of the family. Nae surprise, really, he didn't give a f*** about me, anyway.
sick to my stomach, my dog is very sick. shes going to the vet and I am fearing the worst. I will loose my mind if they need to put her down. I dont even understand, she was perfectly fine Monday night. She woke up the next day and I dont even know who this dog is now. 🙁🙁
sick to my stomach, my dog is very sick. shes going to the vet and I am fearing the worst. I will loose my mind if they need to put her down. I dont even understand, she was perfectly fine Monday night. She woke up the next day and I dont even know who this dog is now. 🙁🙁
honestly im sh**ing myself, taking the first steps to help sort my life out and got a doctors appointment in 2 days but nurse is gunna ring me soon to find out whats going on and try fit me in today.
i have no idea what to say tho, im running all kinds of ways of what and how i can talk about things but i just dont know, im starting to freak out from it.
can anyone who is or has been in a similar situation that could give me some advice?
Thank you, me too. I'm getting really nuts because my last dog Chloe we had for 11 yrs ( had to put her down last Nov.) I am convinced my neighbors did something to her. She was a barker & a pitbull
Jemmy seems to acting the way chloe did? But I never let her out alone so idk.
Please everyone, can you just send good vibes & thoughts to my Jemmy? Id truly appreciated it. She's the only happiness I have.
honestly im sh**ing myself, taking the first steps to help sort my life out and got a doctors appointment in 2 days but nurse is gunna ring me soon to find out whats going on and try fit me in today.
i have no idea what to say tho, im running all kinds of ways of what and how i can talk about things but i just dont know, im starting to freak out from it.
can anyone who is or has been in a similar situation that could give me some advice?
Is it a therapist or like a family doctor? Anytime I went to see a doctor/therapist about my mental health they usually do most of the talking at first. They will ask you questions, just be as open as you can be. Maybe write down what your feeling when you feel in & bring it in and you can show the doctor. Remain calm, and try not to think about it too much.
Like crap. I don't know what to do. I really don't want to explain or talk about this anymore, but basically here's the thing. I'm desperate to go home and get out of here. I COULD leave tomorrow, with my cousin, but that's 5+ hrs. in a car, possibly putting up with more verbal abuse and also being at risk of getting into an accident because she sucks at paying attention when driving. (and that's what happened the day I rode down with her; wasn't paying attention, didn't merge lanes and almost went into the opposite lane. Get this: that happened only 5 mins. after she told me to "stop worrying" about her and to just "read my book." Yeah see how well THAT went?! 🙄)
The next option is basically stick around being miserable for another 3 - 4+ days until either my brother or my dad comes down to get me and to visit for a bit.
FML.
I'm so stupid for even putting myself in this position.
sick to my stomach, my dog is very sick. shes going to the vet and I am fearing the worst. I will loose my mind if they need to put her down. I dont even understand, she was perfectly fine Monday night. She woke up the next day and I dont even know who this dog is now. 🙁🙁
Is it a therapist or like a family doctor? Anytime I went to see a doctor/therapist about my mental health they usually do most of the talking at first. They will ask you questions, just be as open as you can be. Maybe write down what your feeling when you feel in & bring it in and you can show the doctor. Remain calm, and try not to think about it too much.
its just my doctor, its my first time going for proffesional help of any kind, none of my family know im going either. im trying to keep it as quite as possible for now, im not ready to tell my family what really goes through my head...there not exactly an understanding bunch.
also im not good with being open, i have trouble showing how i really feel, ive always buried my emotions and kept silent pretending to be fine when inside im really not..
im going to try what you suggested and write it down on some paper and give it to my doc when i go in, i think it will be alot easyier to do this then actually saying it.
sick to my stomach, my dog is very sick. shes going to the vet and I am fearing the worst. I will loose my mind if they need to put her down. I dont even understand, she was perfectly fine Monday night. She woke up the next day and I dont even know who this dog is now. 🙁🙁
Like crap. I don't know what to do. I really don't want to explain or talk about this anymore, but basically here's the thing. I'm desperate to go home and get out of here. I COULD leave tomorrow, with my cousin, but that's 5+ hrs. in a car, possibly putting up with more verbal abuse and also being at risk of getting into an accident because she sucks at paying attention when driving. (and that's what happened the day I rode down with her; wasn't paying attention, didn't merge lanes and almost went into the opposite lane. Get this: that happened only 5 mins. after she told me to "stop worrying" about her and to just "read my book." Yeah see how well THAT went?! 🙄)
The next option is basically stick around being miserable for another 3 - 4+ days until either my brother or my dad comes down to get me and to visit for a bit.
FML.
I'm so stupid for even putting myself in this position.
That's a tough situation, I'm sorry. Is there anyway you can tell your dad or brother to come down and get you earlier?
its just my doctor, its my first time going for proffesional help of any kind, none of my family know im going either. im trying to keep it as quite as possible for now, im not ready to tell my family what really goes through my head...there not exactly an understanding bunch.
also im not good with being open, i have trouble showing how i really feel, ive always buried my emotions and kept silent pretending to be fine when inside im really not..
im going to try what you suggested and write it down on some paper and give it to my doc when i go in, i think it will be alot easyier to do this then actually saying it.
thanks 🙂
I'm quite bad at being open too, shakethelight has given a really great advice. Good luck.
Pretty good, went for a long walk today and then to a place I really like and although it was very crowded it felt great. 🙂 Its been almost 3 years since I've visited this place, I should go there more often.
Pretty good, went for a long walk today and then to a place I really like and although it was very crowded it felt great. 🙂 Its been almost 3 years since I've visited this place, I should go there more often.
i love a good,long walk:) really clears your mind doesn't it?
I'm glad you're feeling good from your visit to the place!
That's a tough situation, I'm sorry. Is there anyway you can tell your dad or brother to come down and get you earlier?
^ Sadly there isn't. My dad works until the weekend, then has 4 days off. I think my brother is working too, and if that's the case, then he can't get me until Sunday if my dad doesn't do it.
^ Sadly there isn't. My dad works until the weekend, then has 4 days off. I think my brother is working too, and if that's the case, then he can't get me until Sunday if my dad doesn't do it.
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