this_portrait
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I've been out and about mostly, so I've had more exposure to the chilly air.
How are you feeling?
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I've been out and about mostly, so I've had more exposure to the chilly air.
DeadmanWalking
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Ah, I know what you mean. Well, just bundle yourself up in some covers and you should be fine. Make sure you drink and eat hot things as much as you can. *hugs* Or you can accept this warm and fuzzy hug to warm you up
. You know, when people are close together, their body heat transfers to each other, warming each other up::.
Phoenixx
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^ Yeah that's pretty much what I have to do I think.
^ Yeah that's the thing. I did talk to my adviser yesterday because I had to choose next year's classes. I spent a good hour planning and just telling her how hard it's been living there (didn't say a thing about my SA) with my food allergies and that I was thinking of going the online route. She didn't dismiss my idea, but she had me considering getting an apartment nearby. I talked with my mom this evening and she's all for it. I didn't think I'd have enough to pay for one, but my mom said that if I just go to college for the academics, I'll have enough back from my housing money to pay for an apartment, if I get a roommate. That's also another thing. I have someone that might just be able to room with me, but I'm kind of... uncertain about the whole situation. It'd be great to have my own apartment and be going to college, but my roommate would be my best guy friend... And I'm just afraid it would be awkward if we lived together. I don't like him more than a friend, but he has with me in the past, and I'm not sure if those feelings are gone. See what I'm getting at?
Also, I already chose my classes for next semester, but haven't registered yet and can't until I pay my dues, which I don't understand what I owe because I had everything paid for, and the stupid woman I was talking to today was very vague about everything and wouldn't explain and was just very snooty answering the questions I had.
*breathes* Okay, and I'm also afraid of two classes I'm taking next semester, Psychology and Oral Communications. Psychology sounds like tons of fun... but there's 90 students in that class! I have a bad enough time with my Chemistry class being 75 students. And Oral Communications will be the death of me. :S I don't do well with discussions, and I can hardly give a speech. Sorry for the long a** post. I felt that I needed to explain the whole situation.
DeadmanWalking
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^ Yeah that's the thing. I did talk to my adviser yesterday because I had to choose next year's classes. I spent a good hour planning and just telling her how hard it's been living there (didn't say a thing about my SA) with my food allergies and that I was thinking of going the online route. She didn't dismiss my idea, but she had me considering getting an apartment nearby. I talked with my mom this evening and she's all for it. I didn't think I'd have enough to pay for one, but my mom said that if I just go to college for the academics, I'll have enough back from my housing money to pay for an apartment, if I get a roommate. That's also another thing. I have someone that might just be able to room with me, but I'm kind of... uncertain about the whole situation. It'd be great to have my own apartment and be going to college, but my roommate would be my best guy friend... And I'm just afraid it would be awkward if we lived together. I don't like him more than a friend, but he has with me in the past, and I'm not sure if those feelings are gone. See what I'm getting at?
Also, I already chose my classes for next semester, but haven't registered yet and can't until I pay my dues, which I don't understand what I owe because I had everything paid for, and the stupid woman I was talking to today was very vague about everything and wouldn't explain and was just very snooty answering the questions I had.
I think you should have told her about your SA; the more people know about a situation, the better they can help you. As for your guy friend being your roommate, you can try it, but just make it perfectly clear to him that you two are just friends. I think, in this situation, you're stuck with two poisons and you've got to pick one. Although, he may have already gotten over you. Talk about these things with him before you two move in together.
Did you go to the Finances building of your college when you were asking those questions? If that's the case, then send an e-mail to the contact person and talk to them about it. Just keep going higher and higher until someone gives you an answer. If Psychology was anything like my class, you'll forget about how many people there were. My teacher usually made us do work on our own and the students (or at least me) didn't interact with each other a lot. As for Oral Communications, talk to the teacher at get-go about your SA, they should be able to give some advice about it. I'm sure that your body will cope to the class though.
MikeyC
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Hmm, that's quite the predicament. Do you think he's completely over you now? If there's still some feelings there from him, and he won't be able to shut them down, it could get a little bit awkward. It's up to you if you want to take the step with him being roommates, but it's certainly a tricky situation.
Phoenixx
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^ Yeah I've been pretty clear about the whole "just friends" thing. I know how much someone hates to hear that, and I don't like feeling like I'm hurting someone when I do say it, but it is what it is.
Yeah I did go to Finances. I'm planning on going back and talking to the other woman that was there. I'm pretty sure she'll be much more clear with her answers because I've talked to her before. I just couldn't talk to her today because she was busy with another student, so I got this other woman instead that I've never talked to.
Hm... I might just have to do that about Oral Communications, if I decide to stay for next semester. Not sure how well I'd cope though. :/ Last year's English discussions were horrible for me. I barely said two words and just sat there shaking and sweating every time. And that was with only 10 people in the class just sitting in a circle.
^ Yeah. I'm going to ponder it some more, and might talk to him about it tomorrow. Just to consider, not setting anything in stone yet.
My anxiety has been through the roof lately. I know things have been hectic and stressful the past few weeks, but it feels like I can't do anything without freaking out. (I think I said that same thing just a few days ago, actually.)
I'm hoping it will pass when things settle down, instead of getting worse...
I'm hoping it will pass when things settle down, instead of getting worse...
I can't go for a drive. I don't have a car. I only drive once, maybe twice a month, which makes me even more afraid.
WeirdyMcGee
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errrr... fat. fat and sick.
MikeyC
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You've been flat-out for a while so maybe you're just exhausted, mentally and physically. Time for a break, I reckon.
It will pass, don't worry. It'll make way for relief and happiness when you're finally settled in to your new, wonderful home.
MikeyC
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I'm sorry to hear that, BlueDays. Hopefully you'll meet some people soon and you can get back in the social circle. Even just one person you can rely on is nice. I only really go out with one person these days and that's fine with me.lonelylonelylonely
It's getting harder each year to cope without a friend to hang out with.:
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It's getting harder each year to cope without a friend to hang out with.:
i know how you feel and it can be pretty hard to stay positive when you feel so alone , the people doesn't seem to be interested in me so , i try to keep myself busy , that's the only thing that helps , do you have any hobbies BlueDays ?
AsTimeBurns
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I have a cold -.-
Phoenixx
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^ Hope you feel better soon
Dead_on_Arrival
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In the supermarket right now. Shopping alone for groceries and it is packed. Feel like I am penned in and costrophobic.
I need to be able to breath. I've found a corner so I can get out of the way.
I need to be able to breath. I've found a corner so I can get out of the way.
wash your hair frequently. okay? no excuse! even you tired from work.. you still need to shower. take care yourself. dont let other people take advantage of your kindness. drink more water and eat on time. if you are sick.. i'll be worry. dont simply say yes. i know you will forget what i've just told you. silly. seem like.. i'm talking to myself again. i'm sorry. feeling love-Less..
Phoenixx
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^ Grab a cart and run them over!
I'm totally kidding. I hate crowded grocery stores too, worst time to ever go shopping. What I do when I'm feeling overwhelmed from so many people is I try to find an aisle or corner that's empty (or mostly) and just take a breather for a few mins., calm myself down a little, then continue on and try to get out of there as fast as I can.
this_portrait
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I'm awake and ready to go to my therapy session. Kinda looking forward to it. Also feeling hopeful about the upcoming week.