Piece_By_Piece
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Crying... feeling lost.
How are you feeling?
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vj288
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Do see what I just did there? That's what I like to call a false card. It's pulled when someone says something false. You're feelings are deceiving you, as I am in the world, and you are not worse than I. So you cannot be the worst. The false card is never wrong.
Invisibleman
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I actually feel pretty down for a number of reasons. One,ive been thinking about my future alot lately and I just want to cry its made me so depressed. Two ive been wanting to start playing hockey again lately,I used to play but quit years ago. I was terrified but I thought it would get me out of the house and make me feel better but it turns out I waited too late to join so the teams full. And three one of my friends who I havent hung out with in a really long time invited me to the movies which surprised me. I was sitting there and his other friend asked if they were still going to the movies and he said yes and just forgot about me completely I guess:
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alwaysrunning
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Confused and anxious.....first time ever i got asked out on a date...well first time i can be certain of it. I'm not even sure i should go through with it. college students date right? i want to but what if i do or say something extremely stupid. what if he only asked me out bcz i looked like an idiot and he just wants to make fun of me and get a good laugh??? taken we did meet at a club so i don't take anyone seriously there. wtf do i do?????
Kiwong
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Louie the legless horseman!
DeadmanWalking
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Confused and anxious.....first time ever i got asked out on a date...well first time i can be certain of it. I'm not even sure i should go through with it. college students date right? i want to but what if i do or say something extremely stupid. what if he only asked me out bcz i looked like an idiot and he just wants to make fun of me and get a good laugh??? taken we did meet at a club so i don't take anyone seriously there. wtf do i do?????
I say feel him out for a bit. Contribute enough to the conversation so that you aren't acting distant, but not enough that you're investing everything in him. If you feel you can trust him, then contribute more as you meet more; on the other hand, if you don't, then you can harmlessly walk away. If you get stuck, ask something about him or ask him if there's something he would like to ask about you. You can ask him about his hobbies, what he does for a living (I think), if he's a student, you can ask him about his major or his classes, you know, stuff like that. Don't worry so much about if he's out to make you look like an idiot; most people don't do stuff like that (or so I've heard). Just roll with the punches and handle each problem as they come to you. Also, if he seems nice, try to get his phone number or something so that you two can speak more. Good luck on the date
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coyote
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Confused and anxious.....first time ever i got asked out on a date...well first time i can be certain of it. I'm not even sure i should go through with it. college students date right? i want to but what if i do or say something extremely stupid. what if he only asked me out bcz i looked like an idiot and he just wants to make fun of me and get a good laugh??? taken we did meet at a club so i don't take anyone seriously there. wtf do i do?????
go
have a good time
wear protection
cloudbound
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MrJones
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Don't worry about the negativity, if you need to vent, that's why this site exists.Disappointed in myself. When I thought my self esteem couldn’t go any lower, it went so, all thanks to my own idiotic self. I was actually feeling ok this week, but it all changed today. I just want to hide in a cave.
Sorry to add negativity to the forum, but I need to let this out :
Now, what happened? :
:Hope things start going better again.
MrJones
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coyote
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Slept badly, had a dream that I was 64 and life was at its end :
Good thing is that I've woken up feeling tired but 'young', lol
geez, i won't even be able to retire at 64
i figure i'll i have at least another 30 years of fun after that
Rembrandt Broam
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Slightly paranoid. I hope it's unfounded. :/
Thundercats
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Remarkably lonely. I seem to push everyone away.
MikeyC
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Aw, I'm sorry. I hope you feel better soon. :
:Go!! If he has asked you on a date just to make fun of you, he's a complete loser. I wouldn't know anyone who would do that.Confused and anxious.....first time ever i got asked out on a date...well first time i can be certain of it. I'm not even sure i should go through with it. college students date right? i want to but what if i do or say something extremely stupid. what if he only asked me out bcz i looked like an idiot and he just wants to make fun of me and get a good laugh??? taken we did meet at a club so i don't take anyone seriously there. wtf do i do?????
Just be yourself and you'll be okay. If you think he's cute you should definitely try to cultivate a relationship out of it.
Good luck!!!
Phoenixx
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A bit lost. Not sure what to do about next semester in college. I thought I had a plan all set for myself, but then something else comes up and.. ugh, I don't know! I just wish I knew what would be best for me, what would be a better decision. *sigh* So much to consider in only a month. I wish I had more time. :/
MikeyC
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Sometimes we don't know what's best for us until after we've made a decision. You'll probably have to go with one and cross your fingers it works out.
It would be nice if you had some more time, for sure.
DeadmanWalking
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Maybe you should talk to your academic advisor or counselor or your family about these feelings. One of them should be able to give you advice to at least point you in the right direction. Was the thing that came up something that annihilated your plans or can you salvage some ideas from it?
this_portrait
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I've been freezing off and on all day/night. -shiver-
I had one of those a couple weeks ago and it freaked me out, so I feel for ya. But try not to let it take over your life. Just go for a drive around the block and keep increasing the distance and traffic flow until you feel more comfortable. That's what I did.
DeadmanWalking
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Is the heat not working where you're at? Or is it just that cold?