do i look like a boy?

Snowdrop

Well-known member
What?! You look sooo pretty! You have the cutest eyes and smile. I do understand what you mean though. I often worry about my own looks. I agree with Pacific Loner. It's harder on us who suffer from anxiety, SA, whatever, because we feel like we need to 'make up' for our personalities by looking nicer. But you have nothing to worry about, girl, and I mean that. Besides, haven't you heard the boyish look is in now? :) I think guys dig that kind of look because it makes them feel more comfortable with you and you can tell you are confident in yourself and aren't afraid to dress as you please. Girly clothes or boyish clothes, it's the heart that matters, always. But I think you know that ;)
 

MsBuzzkillington

Well-known member
Lately I have been obsessed with looking at the facial structures of people. Just different shapes and curves and everything. Mostly, comparing them to my own, to see what I could change about myself to make me attractive.

So with that, all that obsession I have had lately, I can definitely say that you do not look like a guy. You have girly features, and you are very very pretty. I wish you could see that.

I have the same worry. I look in the mirror and I feel like when I wear a hoodie and a hat, people probably mistake me for a guy. Or even when I wear my hair up. I hope not though.
 

LadyWench

Well-known member
Hello,

So i've been thinking about this a long time. I feel too boyish, i look like a boy. I'm a girl, and even when I wear girly things, I look like a guy.
I hate my face, because of this. I don't think that's attractive.
I'm afraid I look androgynious, and it keeps me worrying.
But still I don't know, I want to be feminine, but sometimes I want to be a little cool, but not too much. i'm afraid I look too MUCH guyish, i mean, my face. I don't know, I can't change anything about it.
I'm a girl, and sometimes I feel like I don't look like it.
I'm so worried, about this. because that's totally not coooool.
And i'm afraid people think I'm a lack of attraction.. ::(:

so here are some pictures.. tell me what u think..

http://img14.imageshack.us/img14/7434/picture5jx.jpg

http://img820.imageshack.us/img820/4948/picture3kj.jpg

http://img152.imageshack.us/img152/6772/picture4bo.jpg

this is a huge obsession :(
i mean, with a pony tail i look guyish.. and with my hair straight i look much more feminine.. do i always have to have my hair straight?!

http://img502.imageshack.us/img502/2732/picture0442.jpg

i think people are gonna judge me on this because this is soo weird.. but i'm still worried about this..

Are you kidding? You're clearly a very cute FEMALE. I'm sorry you've been feeling this way and worrying over it. I hope you will be able to come to the conclusion that you're an attractive gal. :) I don't see anything masculine about you at all.
 

Confuseddd

Well-known member
where are girls like you in america?
You know , the girls that are so pretty , but don know it.
Those kind of girls are so much cuter then the ones who walk around like there hot
I wish there were more of your type where i live
 

Felgen

Well-known member
Hello,

So i've been thinking about this a long time. I feel too boyish, i look like a boy. I'm a girl, and even when I wear girly things, I look like a guy.
I hate my face, because of this. I don't think that's attractive.
I'm afraid I look androgynious, and it keeps me worrying.
But still I don't know, I want to be feminine, but sometimes I want to be a little cool, but not too much. i'm afraid I look too MUCH guyish, i mean, my face. I don't know, I can't change anything about it.
I'm a girl, and sometimes I feel like I don't look like it.
I'm so worried, about this. because that's totally not coooool.
And i'm afraid people think I'm a lack of attraction.. ::(:

so here are some pictures.. tell me what u think..

http://img14.imageshack.us/img14/7434/picture5jx.jpg

http://img820.imageshack.us/img820/4948/picture3kj.jpg

http://img152.imageshack.us/img152/6772/picture4bo.jpg

this is a huge obsession :(
i mean, with a pony tail i look guyish.. and with my hair straight i look much more feminine.. do i always have to have my hair straight?!

http://img502.imageshack.us/img502/2732/picture0442.jpg

i think people are gonna judge me on this because this is soo weird.. but i'm still worried about this..

No, you do not look like a boy. You're better looking than 90% of the girls in my country, if it makes you feel any better.
 

gsmax5

Well-known member
You don't look like a boy...you look like a man.

JKJK, sorry I had to. You have nothing to worry about. You look like the attractive girl you are :)
 

diesel

Well-known member
you have a rock chick look about you ;)

definitely dont look like a guy , you should just squash that idea right now .
 

gals

Active member
Hello,

So i've been thinking about this a long time. I feel too boyish, i look like a boy. I'm a girl, and even when I wear girly things, I look like a guy.
I hate my face, because of this. I don't think that's attractive.
I'm afraid I look androgynious, and it keeps me worrying.
But still I don't know, I want to be feminine, but sometimes I want to be a little cool, but not too much. i'm afraid I look too MUCH guyish, i mean, my face. I don't know, I can't change anything about it.
I'm a girl, and sometimes I feel like I don't look like it.
I'm so worried, about this. because that's totally not coooool.
And i'm afraid people think I'm a lack of attraction.. ::(:

so here are some pictures.. tell me what u think..

http://img14.imageshack.us/img14/7434/picture5jx.jpg

http://img820.imageshack.us/img820/4948/picture3kj.jpg

http://img152.imageshack.us/img152/6772/picture4bo.jpg

this is a huge obsession :(
i mean, with a pony tail i look guyish.. and with my hair straight i look much more feminine.. do i always have to have my hair straight?!

http://img502.imageshack.us/img502/2732/picture0442.jpg

i think people are gonna judge me on this because this is soo weird.. but i'm still worried about this..


I like the 2nd, and 3rd photos best.

Indeed, you look feminine if you let down your hair, Rapunzel, err, I mean Flowergirlie.

But you don't look bad even if you're on a ponytail. Sometimes, it can be some bad lighting on some pics.

Just be comfy with whatever hairstyle or cut youre in. You look fine to me, hoenstly. Just stop obsessing about it
 

otaman20

Member
I don't know where you got that from but to me you look very feminine.Btw,you're very attractive,I really like you and it's not joke.You can call it a crush.Too bad we live too far apart,so all I can say is good luck:)You can also message me,I will try to encourage you more.
 
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lunarla

Well-known member
As everyone else has said, you don'ttttt look masculine. But I've had the odd time where I look in the mirror without makeup or hair done or anything and have wondered the same thing about myself. Also with my nose.... I want it to be more feminine. But you have great features! Have you ever considered getting bangs? I think they'd really suit you!
 

mozart87

Well-known member
oh my god that's the craziest thing I have ever read:))))
Flowergirlie you're such a sweet girl... in the third picture you look so beautiful...natural beauty
 
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