I don't think it's stupid. I always felt awkward when I dated men who had many sex partners...exactly why you said, like I was expected to join his #.
Could you date a non virgin???
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I don't think it's stupid. I always felt awkward when I dated men who had many sex partners...exactly why you said, like I was expected to join his #.
Lol i know what you mean.
Waybuloo
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I would have trouble with it to accept I'm not the first one, but still, why not ? And still, virgins are not growing on trees. The older you get the less virgins there are in your category, so that question would be useless after a certain age.::
Exactly
Maybe some guys go out with teenagers for the joy of the conquest...
NinjaLikesToast
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Yes, I would. I try not to let much stand in the way of a relationship if I truly like the person. Letting something silly like that get in the way is non-sense. I try to be as open as possible with the people I do talk to, so either way it would be fine.
Would you also make sure you were a virgin on your wedding night? Seems only fair to me to match the demand
Danfalc
Banned
I'm not a virgin myself so it's not an issue for me.This is going to sound so cheesy but the issue comes to a virgin for me.
If it's a girls first time with me,I would want to know she's sure and ready,as I think a bad/rushed first time experience can have a long lasting effect.I'm still not sure about it as most girls these days who are virgins are a bit younger than me and the thought does not sit well with me unless I was in love.
Imo In a perfect world it would be nice for people to loose there v together,so they can both learn and share the same experience.But in reality a lot of time people who have there first time have no idea what they are doing and a lot of awkwardness/fumbling ensues unless you take your time to learn ect
So it can be good for a more experienced person to sleep with a virgin.That way you get a nice first time and an orgasm to boot
My million cent's..Sorry for the rant
If it's a girls first time with me,I would want to know she's sure and ready,as I think a bad/rushed first time experience can have a long lasting effect.I'm still not sure about it as most girls these days who are virgins are a bit younger than me and the thought does not sit well with me unless I was in love.
Imo In a perfect world it would be nice for people to loose there v together,so they can both learn and share the same experience.But in reality a lot of time people who have there first time have no idea what they are doing and a lot of awkwardness/fumbling ensues unless you take your time to learn ect
So it can be good for a more experienced person to sleep with a virgin.That way you get a nice first time and an orgasm to boot
My million cent's..Sorry for the rant
Bama_Heath
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Well to answer this simply - YES. At my age there are just about no virgins left anyway. The ones that are still virgins would be too young for me at this point. Probably can't really say this in a politically correct way but I would rather be with a non virgin. It's too late in the game to teach someone how to rodeo. I'd rather the person have some experience. Just my humble opinion.
I'm the same way. I agree.
And when I'm in a relationship, it's always VERY difficult for me to accept the girl's sexual past, no matter how big or small, despite how unfair that might be to her. I would never actually disqualify a girl based on choices she has made prior to me or who she was before me, as long as she demonstrated a desire to improve herself while with me. People can change and people deserve continuous chances to do so. Considering the unstable climate of my life now, who I've been in the past and what I'm guilty of (regarding anything), it's only fair that I remain so understanding with others.
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SoulSeeker
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I dont care in the slightest. If you ask me..it's impossible to allow something like this to stop you falling in love with someone.
As long as im the only person for the rest of our lives who see's her naked body...then i feel special. The relationship feels special. I feel special right now.
As long as im the only person for the rest of our lives who see's her naked body...then i feel special. The relationship feels special. I feel special right now.
If you actually care about someone I seriously don't understand why it should matter how much sexual experience they have down to 8 decimal places. They have more? Maybe they can teach you stuff. You have more? Maybe you can teach them. Why does it matter?
lmao How would she go about "improving" herself? Get herself sown up or wait for her hymen to grow back? No, it can't really grow back.
No... I just meant anything in her past, not necessarily sex. Relax.
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Tiercel
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*knock knock knock*
*nun opens door*
"LLLAADIES!"
*nun closes door*
As long as she's not too diseased and/or screwed up, anyone's fair game for me. But if I was specifically looking for a virginal maiden, I guess I could always hang around when the middle school kids get dropped off in the afternoon.
Or instead of pedophilia, perhaps a place like SocialPhobiaWorld?
da_illest101
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seriously i really couldn't give a damn if the girl was not a virgin, I really don't see the importance of it
Tiercel
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That's funny, because I was being serious for once. Or was I?
Actually, there's a lot I'd like to type. But it tends towards the offensive, the perverse, and the morbid, so I keep it to myself. I have a nice enough headache right now without tempting the mighty banhammer. And my "jokes" have gotten me in enough trouble over the years that I usually just keep them to myself.