Could you date a non virgin???

[madness_lover]

I'd date both. Being with someone experienced it's not a bad thing provided their partner count is not astronomical. It's not a big deal.

 

[Illusions]

I wouldn't mind. It's no big deal to me. *shrugs* As long as he isn't disease-ridden, anyway. Besides, in today's world many people aren't virgins, so I guess I could end up dating one.

 

[Pink_Paula]

I read the title of this wrong, i thought it was could you date a virgin ::

But i would definitely date a none virgin, in fact i have! for me i prefer my partner to have some experience, i am so insecure in bed myself that it would be so horribly awkward to have to guide the person i am with as well, that's just me though!

 

[jamez]

Yes...I could date a non-virgin. I could date a virgin as well. I'm not too picky LOL.

In actual fact...it would probably be easier to date a non-virgin.

But I do get why people would want their future long term partner to be "pure".

 

[recluse]

I guess i can't be picky as there are very little people left with no sexual history in the world.

As long as the girl hasn't been promiscuous in the past i would be fine. I would be really insecure thinking that she'd been with lots of other guys plus you've got the risk of std's to think about.

Otherwise what matters is being in love.

 

[Damaged]

Course i could, im not going to judge someone on their sexual past.

If someones slept with a lot of people i dont consider them a 'player' or someone whos made bad choices :\
Maybe they just enjoy sex and now are ready to settle down?

 

[Avery]

No, I'd only want to date someone with the same experience as me (zero). I guess the right girl could change my mind, but I'd have to be head-over-heels for her, and that's never happened before, and probably never will.

As others have said, finding a virgin partner is unlikelier the older you get, but rather than have me shrug off my standards that fact just pushes me towards abandoning the relationship search altogether.

 

[AidanKay]

I don't know why, but I just don't like the thought of somebody I love, and loves me back, being with another guy before. Might be because I've never loved or been loved, but I know it'll be tough to get used to, for me.

BTW, it's cuz I's a virgin too. I'd understand if neither were a virgin.

I was in the same situation and I would have preferred she was a virgin also. It's sorta like 'discovering a country with natives', you'll know you'll never be the first there. Bad example I know, haha.

But you'll get over it, especially if you really love her. And if you can get her to prove that the other time/s meant nothing, all the more sweater ;D.

Cheers,

-Aidan.

 

[mrb]

could i date a non virgin yes dont see why not im not a virgin , but yes its the person your seeing and how you get on being a virgin i think doesnt really come into it ..

 

[Exeunt]

I'd prefer a non-virgin. I'm a physical person, so I dislike the barriers that virginity brings. Yeah, I understand the whole trust issue - I've got those issues myself - but I don't want to have to earn myself into someone's pants.

Kind of turns me off, to be honest.

 

[WorldEndsWithMe]

but I don't want to have to earn myself into someone's pants

Don't you have to do that anyways? It's not as if all non-virgins just give it up like that.


I've never really been in a real relationship, but I could date either... it wouldn't bother me. Besides, even if a guy tells you he's a virgin you have no way of verifying it, and just have to take his word for it.

 

[Island_chic]

No offense ...I usually don't worry about something like this. In a perfect world
I'd perfer a virgin like Ericisme stated. But if you truly love someone you won't worry with silly little things such as that. Again no offense to you personally just stating how I feel about the subject matter.

 

[fudgy]

I am going to be 42 this year, and yes still a virgin... If I was going to date someone, I sure as heck wouldn't be that upfront about my virginity...

I can't and won't back track fella, but please don't be put off by what I said ok!

You are rare to be a virgin at 42 , but that doesn't mean it will put a woman off.

I haven't looked at where everyone is in the world but I do tend to find us brits have a totally different attitude to sex (not trying to start a world war here)

saving oneself untill marriage is not my bag , I like sex , I like extreme sex and the orgasm is a masterpiece of joy ....

however , not every woman is like me ...... so be proud of what /who you are...I am

 

[redski]

I guess i can't be picky as there are very little people left with no sexual history in the world.

...

Yeah I totally agree with this. Everything gets more difficult with age it seems.

...I like sex , I like extreme sex and the orgasm is a masterpiece of joy ....
...

Well whatever floats your boat but may be not too fitting in this thread

 

[Silentknight]

Hell, I may be a guy, but I'd rather just save myself for that special person, instead of wasting it on a one night stand. and no, I'm not religious.

WOW I had really thought I was the only guy who felt this way without being religious

 

[bollyknickers]

I'm a virgin and to be honest I would prefer the man to be a virgin but I highly doubt that would be the case unless I fell in love with someone younger and that wont happen. If I love him and he loves me then it shouldnt really matter. I guess...

 

[fudgy]

Yeah I totally agree with this. Everything gets more difficult with age it seems.


Well whatever floats your boat but may be not too fitting in this thread

yes it does float my boat ...and on a thread about sex I fail to see how the orgasm is not fitting

 

[lunarla]

Now, normally I'd just PM you, Remus. But I honestly just don't understand at alllll why my posts were deleted here? You guys tell us that we can voice our opinions even if it's in defiance (reasonably) of the mods, yet that's not really what actions tend to show. I was simply pointing out some inconsistencies with the moderation.

 

[philly2bits]

Now, normally I'd just PM you, Remus. But I honestly just don't understand at alllll why my posts were deleted here? You guys tell us that we can voice our opinions even if it's in defiance (reasonably) of the mods, yet that's not really what actions tend to show. I was simply pointing out some inconsistencies with the moderation.

I deleted them to keep this thread on topic. It's about dating non virgins, not Elad. Although off topic posts are allowed in threads, I try to keep them from getting completely derailed. Any other questions feel free to PM me or another mod but as far as the Elad situation it is closed as far as this or any other thread is concerned. Back on topic everyone.

 

[lunarla]

Back on topic, snappity snap!