MaliceInWickedland
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My godmother came over today to wish me a Happy *and very belated* Birthday. When she handed me my present I muttered a shy "thank you" and started walking away. I don't like opening gifts in front of other people in fear that my reaction will be unpleasant or give the impression that I'm not interested so I put them away in my room to open later. I know it's rude but my SA really gets a hold of me in situations like these ::
Anyway, my Godmother obviously isn't aware of my SA (or just doesn't care) and she pulled me back, asking me where I was going and told me to open it right there. I got all anxious and when I get anxious my face tenses up and I look either depressed, pissed off, constipated, or just rock solid. So I opened it and it turned out to be this really beautiful bracelet and I felt really happy in the inside but on the outside all I could do was smile awkwardly and mutter a near-silent "thank you". I gave my godmother a hug but my body was so tense that I'm sure she could feel it, plus I was a bit shaky.
I feel so terrible now because she was all excited about giving me the gift and I was so awkward and nonchalant about it. It's the same thing whenever my mom buys me something - she'll be very excited about giving it to me but my enthusiasm is nowhere near close to hers when receiving things from her. I feel like I don't know how to properly express my happiness or gratitude anymore...
Does anyone else here ever feel the same about opening gifts in front of others?
Anyway, my Godmother obviously isn't aware of my SA (or just doesn't care) and she pulled me back, asking me where I was going and told me to open it right there. I got all anxious and when I get anxious my face tenses up and I look either depressed, pissed off, constipated, or just rock solid. So I opened it and it turned out to be this really beautiful bracelet and I felt really happy in the inside but on the outside all I could do was smile awkwardly and mutter a near-silent "thank you". I gave my godmother a hug but my body was so tense that I'm sure she could feel it, plus I was a bit shaky.
I feel so terrible now because she was all excited about giving me the gift and I was so awkward and nonchalant about it. It's the same thing whenever my mom buys me something - she'll be very excited about giving it to me but my enthusiasm is nowhere near close to hers when receiving things from her. I feel like I don't know how to properly express my happiness or gratitude anymore...
Does anyone else here ever feel the same about opening gifts in front of others?
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