gsmax5
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I disagree. Anyone who sexually abuses his kids does not deserve to be called a "person".
Sexually abused SA'ers (may trigger)
- Thread starter Remus
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I disagree. Anyone who sexually abuses his kids does not deserve to be called a "person".
He should be called a "Molestor" am i right?
Shift
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A long time ago, by two different people in different states.
It didn't cause my SA (though it did make me terrified of being touched by other people for many, many years), but I think it happened because of me being so quiet and too afraid to put up a fight or tell anyone. I was an easy target.
It didn't cause my SA (though it did make me terrified of being touched by other people for many, many years), but I think it happened because of me being so quiet and too afraid to put up a fight or tell anyone. I was an easy target.
DarkSeeker
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See that's things like this that really makes me feel like a freak. I'm a guy and was sexually abused by my mother, as if I wasn't weird enough already.
I didn't got raped, but I was continuously treated like some little doll, whom she made ugly on purpose with crappy hair cuts and clothes, caressed and erotically spanked, forced me to sit on her lap and to play kissing games with her.
Twice, she forced me to drop my pants in front of her to give me a butt massage. I only remember laying on the bed in the dark basement trying to hide my private parts. It's true what you read, you really feel like a cold statue watching the world going away while the body is violated.
Of course, I can't tell no one about this, because nobody would ever take any of this seriously.
I didn't got raped, but I was continuously treated like some little doll, whom she made ugly on purpose with crappy hair cuts and clothes, caressed and erotically spanked, forced me to sit on her lap and to play kissing games with her.
Twice, she forced me to drop my pants in front of her to give me a butt massage. I only remember laying on the bed in the dark basement trying to hide my private parts. It's true what you read, you really feel like a cold statue watching the world going away while the body is violated.
Of course, I can't tell no one about this, because nobody would ever take any of this seriously.
mrb
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sorry to hear about that remus , it must have been awful , i dont know what the hell makes people do things like that , some say the abusers cant help themselves and its not there fault ... well thats the abusers excuse , but they know right from wrong , there is no bloody excuse for that ........
To my knowledge I wasn't sexually abused, no. I don't remember hardly ANYTHING about my childhood...which leads me to believe that something was tramatic enough for me to block it out. But I have relations perfectly fine with my hubby...so I don't think sexual abuse was it.
evil feline space cadet
Banned
I voted no because I'm not sure if this counts.
Was with a guy when I was really young.
16 i think...
I was mad about him (you know the way when you're that age its so easy to think you're in love).
He wasn't completely terrible - like he did treat me fairly well (though thats only in comparison to other guys ive been with so doesnt say much),
but for the whole year and a half we were together, he'd try to force me to do things i REALLY wasnt comfortable with or ready to do.
He'd argue with me for hours when i refused, til i was in tears, and made sure he got his own way.
He'd also send his friends out of the room for a minute while he did stuff/got me to do stuff.
I always begged him not to tell anyone cos i was ashamed and felt really dirty, as if i was in the wrong.
But it was obvious that sending them out of the room was his subtle way of bragging to them.
Actually he took every opportunity to make people aware of the fact we had done stuff, (our ****ing parents included - arsehole!) and made out as if i loved it - when it was actually destroying me.
He once took out his little sisters raincoat and used it as contraception when he forced himself on me. I wasn't long pushing him off - that was just too far!
He didnt care about how i felt as long as he got what he wanted.
I remember i was going on a school trip for 5 days, and he made me promise to lose my virginity to him when i got back.
Little did he know i had been talking to a guy who i would leave him for the next week. When i got back from the trip i told him we were done.
It didnt finish there either.
He later turned literally half my friends against me.
Gave me the worst weight insults imaginable and encouraged the rest to do the same - turned my family against me then when i stood up for myself.
Everytime he and his gfs had a rough patch, theyd freak out at me - even though we werent on speaking terms!
A few years later i was in a bar with an girl, who was an ex of his, who was my friend at the time. She told me that while he was having sex with her he said "Why didn't i lose my virginity to you instead of Charlene?"
That was the last straw, i darted out of the bar, picked up a rock and made my way towards his house. It was miles away but i didnt care - i was gonna smash his window!
My friend and her boyfriend actually had to grab me and throw me into a cab.
He lied to everyone, about something that big, even though i blatantly refused to give in throughout our whole relationship.
And that my pretties, is why i now hate and fear sex.
Also sorry about the essay.
Extra sorry if it didnt count..
Was with a guy when I was really young.
16 i think...
I was mad about him (you know the way when you're that age its so easy to think you're in love).
He wasn't completely terrible - like he did treat me fairly well (though thats only in comparison to other guys ive been with so doesnt say much),
but for the whole year and a half we were together, he'd try to force me to do things i REALLY wasnt comfortable with or ready to do.
He'd argue with me for hours when i refused, til i was in tears, and made sure he got his own way.
He'd also send his friends out of the room for a minute while he did stuff/got me to do stuff.
I always begged him not to tell anyone cos i was ashamed and felt really dirty, as if i was in the wrong.
But it was obvious that sending them out of the room was his subtle way of bragging to them.
Actually he took every opportunity to make people aware of the fact we had done stuff, (our ****ing parents included - arsehole!) and made out as if i loved it - when it was actually destroying me.
He once took out his little sisters raincoat and used it as contraception when he forced himself on me. I wasn't long pushing him off - that was just too far!
He didnt care about how i felt as long as he got what he wanted.
I remember i was going on a school trip for 5 days, and he made me promise to lose my virginity to him when i got back.
Little did he know i had been talking to a guy who i would leave him for the next week. When i got back from the trip i told him we were done.
It didnt finish there either.
He later turned literally half my friends against me.
Gave me the worst weight insults imaginable and encouraged the rest to do the same - turned my family against me then when i stood up for myself.
Everytime he and his gfs had a rough patch, theyd freak out at me - even though we werent on speaking terms!
A few years later i was in a bar with an girl, who was an ex of his, who was my friend at the time. She told me that while he was having sex with her he said "Why didn't i lose my virginity to you instead of Charlene?"
That was the last straw, i darted out of the bar, picked up a rock and made my way towards his house. It was miles away but i didnt care - i was gonna smash his window!
My friend and her boyfriend actually had to grab me and throw me into a cab.
He lied to everyone, about something that big, even though i blatantly refused to give in throughout our whole relationship.
And that my pretties, is why i now hate and fear sex.
Also sorry about the essay.
Extra sorry if it didnt count..
Hellhound
Super Moderator
If he forced you into things you didn't like and kept doing it even when you told him, if he made you cry, if he tried to manipulate you by saying you liked it, if he hurt you like that, then it IS abuse.
recluse
Well-known member
I don't know if it's classed as sexual abuse but when i was young maybe 7 my sister's friend who is 3 years older forced me to do stuff with her like make out, expose genetalia, simulate sex with her (rolling around on the grass on top of each other with our pants down. This left me very confused and scared and sice that incident i could not face my sister's friend, and the worst thing was that it was my sister who encouraged her to do the stuff with me.....My sister would use the incident as a weapon against me by saying things like ''I'll tell mum and dad about you and D####!''
I guess this left me scared of females and has probably been a contributing factor to my shyness.
I guess this left me scared of females and has probably been a contributing factor to my shyness.
Hellhound
Super Moderator
That's abuse... You were just a kid and you were forced to do those things. There's something seriously wrong with your sister and her friend, they are both f*cked up in the head for doing that (Yes, if your sister encouraged her friend to do that and used the incident to blackmail you, it means she participated and that makes her a child abuser too).
Silvox Black
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I have been.
alana
Well-known member
i was just reading today about a mother who prostituted her 12 year old daughter... she charged men 100 dollars and hour.. and it was an extra 50 dollars if they wanted to do it without a condom.
I voted yes as well, i was sexually abused too.. i was shy before this happened but i think what happened made me feel like i was really bad... and being shy was an example of how bad i was.
people who do this sort of thing to children or adults... are animals or/and primative un evolved forms of homosapiens.. animals do act in this sort of way all the time. I feel sorry for the world.. humanity has still not over come this disgusting negative behaviour. people need to be conscious and come together to create a world where this sort of thing never happens..
I voted yes as well, i was sexually abused too.. i was shy before this happened but i think what happened made me feel like i was really bad... and being shy was an example of how bad i was.
people who do this sort of thing to children or adults... are animals or/and primative un evolved forms of homosapiens.. animals do act in this sort of way all the time. I feel sorry for the world.. humanity has still not over come this disgusting negative behaviour. people need to be conscious and come together to create a world where this sort of thing never happens..
DeathMetal
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No, I never have been sexually abused. I can't even imagine how bad it must be to go through something like that, and I feel sorry for everyone here that did.
lunarla
Well-known member
That makes me physically sick to my stomach.
DeathMetal
Well-known member
Yeah, that is sad. What the hell is wrong with some people?
Lea
Banned
I guess this is a common practice in my country. I read somewhere that esp. on the border with Germany mothers are waiting with children and infants, giving them over to the Germans.
recluse
Well-known member
I'm confused about it all, i mean part of me enjoyed the experience but on the whole i felt disgusted and violated. It definately left me feeling distrustful of people in general. I remember feeling weak because i didn't run away when it happened because i didn't want it to happen...I was scared.