gsmax5
Well-known member
People who sexually abuse kids are scum.
I disagree. Anyone who sexually abuses his kids does not deserve to be called a "person".
People who sexually abuse kids are scum.
I disagree. Anyone who sexually abuses his kids does not deserve to be called a "person".
I voted no because I'm not sure if this counts.
Was with a guy when I was really young.
16 i think...
I was mad about him (you know the way when you're that age its so easy to think you're in love).
He wasn't completely terrible - like he did treat me fairly well (though thats only in comparison to other guys ive been with so doesnt say much),
but for the whole year and a half we were together, he'd try to force me to do things i REALLY wasnt comfortable with or ready to do.
He'd argue with me for hours when i refused, til i was in tears, and made sure he got his own way.
He'd also send his friends out of the room for a minute while he did stuff/got me to do stuff.
I always begged him not to tell anyone cos i was ashamed and felt really dirty, as if i was in the wrong.
But it was obvious that sending them out of the room was his subtle way of bragging to them.
Actually he took every opportunity to make people aware of the fact we had done stuff, (our ****ing parents included - arsehole!) and made out as if i loved it - when it was actually destroying me.
He once took out his little sisters raincoat and used it as contraception when he forced himself on me. I wasn't long pushing him off - that was just too far!
He didnt care about how i felt as long as he got what he wanted.
I remember i was going on a school trip for 5 days, and he made me promise to lose my virginity to him when i got back.
Little did he know i had been talking to a guy who i would leave him for the next week. When i got back from the trip i told him we were done.
It didnt finish there either.
He later turned literally half my friends against me.
Gave me the worst weight insults imaginable and encouraged the rest to do the same - turned my family against me then when i stood up for myself.
Everytime he and his gfs had a rough patch, theyd freak out at me - even though we werent on speaking terms!
A few years later i was in a bar with an girl, who was an ex of his, who was my friend at the time. She told me that while he was having sex with her he said "Why didn't i lose my virginity to you instead of Charlene?"
That was the last straw, i darted out of the bar, picked up a rock and made my way towards his house. It was miles away but i didnt care - i was gonna smash his window!
My friend and her boyfriend actually had to grab me and throw me into a cab.
He lied to everyone, about something that big, even though i blatantly refused to give in throughout our whole relationship.
And that my pretties, is why i now hate and fear sex.
Also sorry about the essay.
Extra sorry if it didnt count..
I don't know if it's classed as sexual abuse but when i was young maybe 7 my sister's friend who is 3 years older forced me to do stuff with her like make out, expose genetalia, simulate sex with her (rolling around on the grass on top of each other with our pants down. This left me very confused and scared and sice that incident i could not face my sister's friend, and the worst thing was that it was my sister who encouraged her to do the stuff with me.....My sister would use the incident as a weapon against me by saying things like ''I'll tell mum and dad about you and D####!''
I guess this left me scared of females and has probably been a contributing factor to my shyness.
i was just reading today about a mother who prostituted her 12 year old daughter... she charged men 100 dollars and hour.. and it was an extra 50 dollars if they wanted to do it without a condom.
i was just reading today about a mother who prostituted her 12 year old daughter... she charged men 100 dollars and hour.. and it was an extra 50 dollars if they wanted to do it without a condom.
That's abuse... You were just a kid and you were forced to do those things. There's something seriously wrong with your sister and her friend, they are both f*cked up in the head for doing that (Yes, if your sister encouraged her friend to do that and used the incident to blackmail you, it means she participated and that makes her a child abuser too).
I guess this is a common practice in my country. I read somewhere that esp. on the border with Germany mothers are waiting with children and infants, giving them over to the Germans.