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Hi! Recently, I've been spending way too much time using my computer. This is pretty bad habit and also staring at the screen for too long is making my eyes bad. Now I have to wear glasses. Also, I read in an article that sitting down for extensive periods can mess up your posture. So when I...

You know that saying, "there's always someone worse off than you" ? It's true. No matter what your situation is, there is ALWAYS something that can make it worse. Let's make this a game. Add something you think would make your situation worse. Afterward you may not feel bad, maybe even get a...

So I walked out of my job the other day. I had been considering it for months and finally decided to just do it. A little bit of hesitation, but not enough to stop me. It was a pretty crappy job actually. People come in, I ask them what they want to drink, how many in the family, etc. etc. It's...

...the pinnacle of embarrassment for you? The worst thing that can happen?

Ok so I work in a popular restaurant and I almost can not take it anymore. I keep considering just walking out and not coming back. IT is so annoying because there are too many people. I am one of the cashiers. So I have to ask what they want to drink and how many people in the party etc so my...

It seems I am screwed now. My brother and sister don't talk to me, and I have for too long weighed this guilt upon my shoulders. They ignore me and make me feel like ****, blaming me for stuff and accusing me of stuff. Truthfully they are worst of than me, they are more scared to talk to people...

How the freak do I apply for a government job? I don't have many skills, but I can type quickly and accurately and I can lift things. I just can't seem to figure out how to get the job. My friends that have government jobs are financially stable, and I want to experience that.

I'm starting to realize that my family never wants to do anything together. I want to move out, but I cannot afford to get my own apartment. I can't stay around the house anymore because it's way too annoying. I don't have any friends I can just call and hang out with. Also I am extremely low...

I can not spend a day without using the computer. This makes me paranoid because I developed nearsightedness, but I don't care anymore.

Recently, I began to look at people and see more than what I used to. Ever since I studied muscles and try to increase my muscle mass, I am starting to look at everyone now. Now I look at girls and guys, I see everyone being attractive. I wouldn't even try to talk to a guy because I'm not gay...

I can not stop staring at myself. When I am looking in a mirror, I just stare at my face and if I don't have clothes on, I stare at my body. I am extremely critical about things and have not accepted my imperfections. I am not insecure about the way I look, but I only think about myself in 90%...

A few months ago, I found out about a person near me who gives sexual acts in exchange for money. I received her number from the internet and gave her a call. I canceled the first couple of times I called because I was too nervous and paranoid. A few months ago, I had the courage to go finally...

Family doesn't spend time together, don't get phone calls, no girlfriend, no friends, can't stand up for myself, can't speak to people, I literally don't talk to anyone. I don't have a backbone. I don't know what to do. I have no way out. Can't discuss it with anyone. I find it easy to think...

I recently realized that I am uptight almost around the clock. My schedule seldom changes, and most if not all of my activities are consistent. I'm starting to see first hand why people think I'm boring. I remind myself of Hank Hill (he's cool though). How can I be carefree? I thought of...

I don't know what to do. I never talk to people. I can't talk to my family, they spend more time with their computers and I don't matter here, clearly. I don't have friends to talk to, and I don't get phone calls. I don't talk at work because I am too busy battling the thoughts of me not wanting...

I have gaps in my teeth that I dread more than almost anything else. I seldom smile and whenever I do it's always fake. Anyone else?

About 90% of things I say, I have to repeat. This has gotten so annoying, I made a habit of not saying anything most of the time. Now I have nobody to talk to and I want to change that. What can I do to speak more loudly and clearly? I'm trying to use visualization to imagine people shattering...

What does courage mean to you? What does it take to gain courage? It means to me breaking bad habits, and I mean destructive habits. It means making your body and mind stronger. I don't know how to gain courage.

This is a fact, not an opinion. I speak in monotone, I don't smile, and I'm not social. I want to do these things, but I have trouble. Any advice?

I am sure to say that I don't like the way I'm living right now. I have no friends, no girlfriend, I get no calls, my family does not communicate, and I don't like my job. I think 90% of these problems is because I'm always being *nice* to people and that it seems to radiate an aura of...