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I cant decide on which makes me the most unhappy: 1. Loneliness 2. Missed Opportunities They kind of go hand in hand i guess..

is there a time when its generally acceptable to ask for a number wihtout creeping ppl out or scaring them? idk if any of u read my previous thread of the 'bus' girl but heres the summary i sit by a very attractive girl on the bus and theres sorta tension between us (or i think) but i dont got...

im confident there are some guys/gals here that took a bold step to approach some1 or do some terrifying thing and succeeded, but how did you brg urself to do it? i was in NY over the weekend for my cousins graduation and i saw many of my cousins (newlyweds with babies) and was envious how good...

ive noticed alot of members are just too negative/hopeless about their future and condition. I'm guilty of this too, often after school, i take the bus home feeling hopeless and dejected. but sometimes i envision a near future where i have a normal life, a gf, and successful. I convince myself...

OK, i have to vent. these thoughts been going through my mind for the last couple hours. So Im in this one art class, it meets 2x a week for 3 hours each. In this art class, ive been tryin to be more social because 1. im trying to change myself to be more social obviously ( i suffer from mild...

how did you "reveal" your true self (with SA) to them? how did they react? did they know u had SA before or did they think u were just a regular person then when start dating you told them about it? no, i didnt get a gf :C but this has always worried me if i were to.. LOL. Just seem so awkward...

the other day i realized HOW MUCH i use my ipod throughout the week... typical weekday taking bus to and from school - 40min waiting for bus 20-30min walking to/from stop 20min walking to class by myself 10minutes studying in library, using comp at school 1-2 hours gym 1-1.5 hours that...

I realized i seem to act alot more confident,social and generally less SA around friends, even if they arent the most social people either. like last night at the gym, i was workin out wit a frend and we saw these 2 cute girls nearby. Normally when im by myself, id be terrified to even look a...

When fall quarter started, i said to myself, this school year im gonna change my life around when 2010 hit, i said this year is the year i enjoy my life when winter quarter started, i said same thing... Seems like a cycle of broken promises to myself These past months, I have been living in...

you finally have the nerve to engage in a 1 on 1 convo with some1 (particularly the opposite sex) then some outgoing person just randomly budges in and it becomes a group discussion? i srsly dread group discussions unless every1 else is shy like me so we can share time to talk, in discussions...

i think it does to me... in a negative way i think most ppl would think SA would help school work since no friends- > more time for hw. but It may just be me... but im finding no motivation to do my hw other than the grades, and no motivation to do extra curricular studying. I mean my life is...

when something decent happens to me, i like to tell about it here since in real life, its insignificant to people. well yesterday was a very bad day, got 2 exam grades back and they were sub-average... i was enraged since i usually do well. my SA causes me to be anal about grades since thats...

I think the general population assumes those with SAD/whatever social problems are the ones who are ugly/fat/bad clothes/ etc but this is not true. personally I try to comensate for my lack of social skills but trying to dress well/look good. I dont think the average person would look at me and...

Surprising last time i fully cried was at my dad's funeral around 4-5 yeras ago, after that ive been pretty emotional but i just dont show it. sometimes i tear up but never have "cried" since then. But right now im very close to crying.. spent my whole weekend doing this retarded hw and im not...

this post is just to say what happened today cause no1 in real life would care lol so in my art class, theres been this cute girl that I;ve been eyeing for 5 weeks now (so long zzzz) and shes been doing the same (i think) but we never approached each other to talk. So today, thankfully we went...