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I was just heading home on the bus nearly half an hour ago when I saw the prettiest face ever sitting in front of me. I just couldnt get my eyes off of her. I was about to sit next to her and ask her this: "What's wrong, you look worried and sad. Never saw anyone so beautiful before, and when I...

Title says all! What's yours? Mine's: john lennon- Oh My Love Digital Remaster (2000) - YouTube

Today I called a sexpartner to lose my virginity next week, I don't really regret it, in fact I was happy a bit after I got the appointment. Honestly sex was on my mind for far too long, I feel like I want to experience it, so technically I wasn't like "oh my god I'm still a virgin"... Second...

I believe I have a really bad issue here, in my life. Please take this bloody serious: one thing irritates me so much, whenever I see a (mostly young) couple kissing or more likely snogging, I become so angry, jealous and start to hate the guy that I just wanna punch him in the damn face or hurt...

I'm going on my very first date tomorrow, one week after I started talking to a girl online. She's an extrovert type, has few but very good friends, and she's very intelligent, and has a fun personality. We'll just go to a mall café and have a chat, later on maybe take a walk, that's what I...

I feel like I'm turning into a hopeless kid or something, who looks to this forum as an answer to all of my million and one questions, but I just ran out of ideas... So I started messaging with a girl recently, she told me I seem like a very cool guy and have good taste to music and all, we...

I think I already told in other topics that my SA isn't really an issue or doesn't quite exist for me, but I'm an introvert type, I have no friends literally, nor social experiences, just rarely, while at work and at my uni. A while ago I realized that there is one little thing more important...

I decided to register on a dating site. I already know my social phobia is just a small issue in my life, since a psychiatrist confirmed it multiple times, but still I don't really have friends, just so called "buddies" but I rarely hang out with others... And during the few months I realized...

OK, so I just met this guy in work, we go home, take the subway, never talked before, but we start to talk about each other's life ( school, work, etc.), when I'm talking suddenly a friend of his steps in at a station, and they start to talk and I turn into a stone statue, listening to them just...

Second time, and to another person this time. She is really known here, and the main reason I payed her a visit is because of my SA, and because I wanted to start CBT because I have heard much of it, mostly on this forum and elswhere too... So we talked a lot about myself, everything with me...

I think my life has now become a big tragedy. My life is a game is where I'm the main character, and I can only lose, no other options. Even if others do find my problems and my depression pretty ridiciolus, I feel lost like no other person on this planet. Let me tell you about what happened...

OK so I think being humorous among people, like when your talking with friends is a pretty good and effective "virtue". Whenever I try to be like that I fail most of the time. It sometimes works with other dudes, but never really works with girls, because I think they wouldn't just laugh at what...

OK so I decided to visit a psychotherapist because of my social phobia. I just wonder if anyone have any tips for tomorrow when I'll pay her a 1 hour visit. I think I'm going to tell her everything I can tell in the most detailed way, I'll try not to give a damn on her reactions beforehand...

OK this may be a bit private thing, but I ask you to: - Write down your previous dream which - for example - may involves your desires about social life, relationships, getting to know people, etc.. AND - Try to find out an explanation for it & write it...

For me it's getting harder and harder to accept that I'm still a virgin at the age of 23. I can't do anything about it right now, because the lack of friends, the lack of people I would hang out with to a bar or a club or anything. I get weird thoughts like losing virginity is the key to...