Daniel089
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I think I already told in other topics that my SA isn't really an issue or doesn't quite exist for me, but I'm an introvert type, I have no friends literally, nor social experiences, just rarely, while at work and at my uni.
A while ago I realized that there is one little thing more important for me than finding friends: finding a girlfriend. I recently registered on a dating site, and yesterday all of a sudden I got a letter from a girl who I never messaged before. We messaged a bit then she told me to add her on facebook, I did, though we didn't chat yet, it is possible that we'll do that tonight.
She is one heck of an extrovert type: she goes to festivals, has lots of friends, there isn't a reason why she wouldn't be a happy person and all, at least from what I saw on her pictures.
Now, I know that it wouldn't be a wise choice to tell everything about myself as soon as possible, but sooner or later she might see that I'm a quiet type, moreover because when she'll ask about my hobbies, what I do in my freetime, where I usally hang out with others, what do I do with my friends on friday evenings, etc etc., everything she might build up in her mind about me would just collapse - once I tell her about the "real me".
I know it's maybe a dumb thing to dwell on the future, but what do you people think about my situation?
A while ago I realized that there is one little thing more important for me than finding friends: finding a girlfriend. I recently registered on a dating site, and yesterday all of a sudden I got a letter from a girl who I never messaged before. We messaged a bit then she told me to add her on facebook, I did, though we didn't chat yet, it is possible that we'll do that tonight.
She is one heck of an extrovert type: she goes to festivals, has lots of friends, there isn't a reason why she wouldn't be a happy person and all, at least from what I saw on her pictures.
Now, I know that it wouldn't be a wise choice to tell everything about myself as soon as possible, but sooner or later she might see that I'm a quiet type, moreover because when she'll ask about my hobbies, what I do in my freetime, where I usally hang out with others, what do I do with my friends on friday evenings, etc etc., everything she might build up in her mind about me would just collapse - once I tell her about the "real me".
I know it's maybe a dumb thing to dwell on the future, but what do you people think about my situation?
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