do you think sex will cure your social phobia
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philly2bits
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I don't see how. People don't have sex because SA hinders any attempts. The lack of sex is not what is causing the SA though.
lyricalliaisons
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Lol certainly not. My SA will have to be much better before I can ever have sex, not the other way around. I'm too afraid to say one word to someone, muchless have sex with them lol
LycraPantiies92
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I just get so frustrated at this topic, i just don't know how if i can't talk to people, constantly fail to do that, and can't have relationships, friends, even aquaintances...
how the feck am i going to be able to have *ergh...gona die at the thought of it*
how the feck am i going to be able to have *ergh...gona die at the thought of it*
FountainandFairfax
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I agree with that.
I've had secks and it didn't cure me, but I did always feel better about myself afterwards. I just know it made me feel like I had a lot more in common with regular people.
I guess another question to ask would be whether a person should need that kind of outside validation.
BlueDays
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well hmmmmmmmm if there are and good looking females on spw who think sex will help with there sa ...... gazza will only be to pleased to helpcough ...... for a small fee of course just to cover traveling expenses ect ect ... see how i go over board to help you lot
LMAO!!...The depth of your kindness and willingness to help astounds me gary!!
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Kustamogen
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sex = pointing and laughing at penis = lower self-esteem
Not at all. For me, there's no correlation between my wellness and sex.
worrywort
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i don't think so. It could potentially make it worse if that's your reason for doing it.
This guy disagree's with me though;
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This guy disagree's with me though;
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ShyCanuck
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Despite my anxiety I do have frequent sex, but usually not with a consistent partner. I believe the concept of "love" and of sexual pleasure can be separated from one another. Sex in this way can be easier for someone with SA, since mostly it is a one-time encounter with no social commitment. Both people know it is just for sex and usually there is very little talking because of this. It's never helped with my anxiety, though.
Always, always practice safe sex.
Always, always practice safe sex.
Crap no it doesn't. I lost my virginity at 19, I'm 38 now and it hasn't gone away yet. Sex is irrelevant to SA, aside from the SA making it more difficult to happen.
I think it's more like sex is the box of Cracker Jacks and love is the prize. And most of the time there's no prize in the box. ::
Kato said:
I think it's more like sex is the box of Cracker Jacks and love is the prize. And most of the time there's no prize in the box. :
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Brokenx
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nope, if anything it prob made mine worse !!!! i feel to much pressure to perform (tryin to please her) and dont feel comfortable. i guess i wont enjoy sex till i actually find a suitable partner with whom i have strong feelings for !! :
So the girls u currently sleep with you don't even have feelings for lol?
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Well sex is good excercise and pleasurable, so it can relieve certain stressors but only temporarily. Some people are addicted to sex much like drugs, because it brings a temporary sense of relief and a way to escape from sad feelings, lonliness etc.
While its healthy to engage in it with a partner whom you love, it cannot cure mental illness. Its just a healthy pleasurable activity and thats it.
While its healthy to engage in it with a partner whom you love, it cannot cure mental illness. Its just a healthy pleasurable activity and thats it.