do you think sex will cure your social phobia
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Felgen
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LadyWench
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I'm sorry. Dating is extremely hard when you have no confidence. Luckily, the person I'm with isn't put off by my lack of self-esteem. I'm sure you could find someone that would feel the same way. If you don't mind me asking, why don't you trust men?
I think the person above is correct in saying that most men don't care about experience. If you find someone that loves you for you, your lack of experience won't matter to them. Not only that, but there are tons of males that simply like sex, and being the best isn't what they're looking for.
ImNotMyIllness
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No, of course not. But, it would be nice!
Tornsoulnz
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no it will not. if you have seen my other post you will no i am a virgin and i am going to sort that out soon even if i have to pay for it. now every one has a back grand that has led to SA. i am not going in to my back grand but i have been thinking and have been working hard to sort out my SA. there it no cure for SA i think it is about control over SA.
i have a thread (The never ending War on SA) part one. now part two i am stall working o and will get up but it has to do with how i see SA and what i am do to battle it and it is working big time atm. now the have sex thing it part of that but it is not all of it.
i have a thread (The never ending War on SA) part one. now part two i am stall working o and will get up but it has to do with how i see SA and what i am do to battle it and it is working big time atm. now the have sex thing it part of that but it is not all of it.
Diend
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I don't think sex cures social phobia, but you might have a desire to have sex to feel more confident. I think that is healthy unless you start having a lot of sexual partners in order to prove something. There could be an inferiority complex deeply rooted in your lack of sex that causes social phobia so please have sex for pleasure but please do it in a healthy way that won't hurt your partner emotionally.
Zackarydoo
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It would help me hugely because I would then know that someone thought I looked ok enough to want to have sex with me! All you lot talking about it being nice and it not helping - Step back and consider how lucky you are that you even know someone who wants to have sex with you.
Dennis1980
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It would help a little, but no, I know it won't magically fix me of my SAD.
IntheLabyrinth
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I don't think sex by itself will help it at all. I think a relationship with someone you feel really comfortable with may help. Especially, if the person is caring, a great listener, and generally wants to help build up your self-esteem and help you get better. I guess that person would be similar to a psychologist. However, I don't know that there are very many people like that who want expend the effort and time to do that. Maybe I am just too cynical to think there are many people like that.
No,
Seems pretty foolish to think that it would in my opinion.I'm not exactly in a situation to to say what does and what doesn't cause SA,But I seriously doubt that anybody's SA stems from having never bumped uglies.
People put too much weight on sex.
They act as if you level up or something.
"Achievement unlocked:Boned
social phobia shield acquired"
Seems pretty foolish to think that it would in my opinion.I'm not exactly in a situation to to say what does and what doesn't cause SA,But I seriously doubt that anybody's SA stems from having never bumped uglies.
People put too much weight on sex.
They act as if you level up or something.
"Achievement unlocked:Boned
social phobia shield acquired"
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Englishman
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It helps.. kind of