Why do you want a boyfriend or girlfriend?

[joyce]

I suppose because it would just be nice to have someone to talk to and spend time with.

Being alone is hard so someone there with you who wants to be there makes you feel good

 

[thor01]

I'd like girlfriend but ive given up.

The more you think and hope, the more hurt i feel. I'm better off Alone than hoping.

True for me too.

Also, suppose you did get this sometime, and could love and be loved by the person, how do we know it would solve things and make us feel better? Maybe it would at first feel that way, but then we might just think, what now? in a quest for happiness. Maybe we should try to learn to feel more content without, otherwise with one, since we put so much expectation and hope into it we might be more down about the fact we still feel the same in some ways. Just a thought anyway.
Many people with a boyfriend or girlfriend still have problems.

 

[Dronee]

does that mean i'll live twice as long, since I was married twice?

cool

Hmmm... going by that theory and since you've already married twice... You can use your "extended life" to marry again and gain even more time... Ga! You're the Highlander aren't you?!

 

[Luke1993]

All of the above really except 4 although who knows maybe I would like to show off

 

[Hamelech]

I had a girlfriend once. Now I would prefer sex rather than love.

 

[X-Rated]

I don't want a relationship.

at least you don't want one because you`ve been in a one before and maybe realised u didn't like it .... well, most of us( including me :-<) didn't even had that experience

 

[gio289]

It won't solve any of my problems, and I've been there done that multiple times. So right now, naaahh. In the future sometime when I'm better in the head.

 

[X-Rated]

Well sorry for having been in a relationship before... ffs

lol, sorry if my post sounded a bit critical i didn't want that, i just stated a fact......i'm not a native speaker of this language so my piece of writing may seem a little plastic or critical when in fact it's not the case...

Again , i`m sorry if I upset you or smth like that

 

[Psychedelicious]

Screaming in the face of death

I don't want a relationship either. I just can't bring myself to care or even think about that right now. I have much more I need to work on first, and not having one does not make me desperate or bitter. As right now, it's pretty low on my list of worries.

 

[Liam17]

at least you don't want one because you`ve been in a one before and maybe realised u didn't like it .... well, most of us( including me :-<) didn't even had that experience

Not everyone wants a relationship, or wants one now. We're all different.

Somedays i think, i'll be happy and ok single for forever. Other days i'm like ffs, i need someone.

 

[Hellhound]

But i have to say i'd like to have a girlfriend so the the people wouldnt think im weird, im 21 and never had one and my family just keeps asking when im gonna find one... so frustarting...
Personaly i wouldnt mind, i made my peace with the fact i'll never have a girlfriend, but the society dictates us that its "normal"...

Do what you want to do when you feel ready. Don't do things because of what others say, you'll lose your freedom that way.

It's not abnormal if you don't have a girlfriend, if anyone tells you otherwise, they're stupid and mindless. Try not to listen to them.

 

[Waybuloo]

So I can make his and her scarf and mitten sets.

 

[joyce]

So I can make his and her scarf and mitten sets.

waaaaaaa 0_o

 

[ilmatross]

I share every part of my life with her and she pushes me to defeat my anxiety when I don't want to but know I need to.

Sex and all that jazz is an afterthought to how happy she makes me.

 

[joyce]

I share every part of my life with her and she pushes me to defeat my anxiety when I don't want to but know I need to.

Sex and all that jazz is an afterthought to how happy she makes me.

so to defeat your anxiety

 

[A friend]

I don't want a relationship.

You're lucky, you can be single and avoid having it destroy you internally. I want to have a relationship because I'm a slave of my emotions and my desires. So for me, it's either I look for a girlfriend/wife, or I stress out all the time.
::

 

[Kinetik]

I'm so over women. I just don't give a shìt anymore. She'd have to physically chase me down, pin me to the floor, and prove to me that she can be mature, self-aware, responsible and (emotionally) independent before I'd look at her twice. On top of that she'd have to look great as well. So I suppose you can all guess the chances of this happening.

I'm the bad guy in every relationship I've ever had whereas I know it's something that's been pinned on me out of spite/resentment.

 

[EdgeCrusher]

having never been in a relationship i would just really like to experience it atleast once. being 29 and having never known that kind of love has left me very lonely.

 

[joyce]

having never been in a relationship i would just really like to experience it atleast once. being 29 and having never known that kind of love has left me very lonely.

I'm sorry to hear that I hope you find someone good luck

 

[theslowesthand]

Sorry to nit-pick, but its what I do...

...but in reality, having a bf/gf is easy...

I'll have to disagree with this. But i do realise that for some, getting (& keeping) a bf/gf is "easy", and for women its easier than men as since cave-man days the men have typically been the "chasers".