I have been in 2 relationships.. And sadly (Hmm, maybe happily now) enough it was because of alcohol. I had my first BF when I was 21 and went out to the bar with my roommates and another guy who went to my school. I really was not very attracted to him- but I drank a lot that night- things went too far- and then I couldn't get out of the relationship for 1 month. I had trouble telling him and I feel like an ass now. I met my second BF online- we have talked for a few mo. and I invited him out to this club a couple times when drunk. Soon after, we started sober dating. I don't think I would have ever met him if I did not invite him out drunkenly. I mean, I really liked him whn we talked online but too shy to meet in person otherwise. I am glad we did, though.