You've got to find the things that you love to do. The things you have a passion for and immerse yourself in those. Pets are great too. You can love them and they give you love unconditionally.
My advice is to learn to love life, there's so much more to it than whether you are single or not. You're lost if you continue to see life as some sort of incurable disease simply because you are unlucky in the dating stakes. Being single is not a disease in need of a cure
You might get to a point in your life when your appreciate your idependence. I know I have. I've always been single, I didn't go to the 'prom', because that sort of thing bores me to tears and I don't lose any sleep over it. It ceased being an issue long ago.
I'm guessing society and culture has taught us that "if you're single, you'll be miserable for all eternity" and things related.
It's unfortunate that mostly everyone is tortured by being single just because of ignorant, narrow-minded, and just plain stupid myths that were started by some idiot centuries ago.
Being single isn't a deadly murdering disease that needs to be cured. It may cause depression, but ultimately, there is some cure to the depression.
The last few weeks I've been studying things to be grateful for, and things that I can do with my freedom now. And judging by my friends' stories on their relationships, it turns
out that you don't have the freedom to do what you want all the time in a relationship. If you try to do what you want all the time when you're with someone, you'll wreck the relationship, or end up miserable and wishing you were single forever.
I bet that if we were taught that the true facts about love, we would probably be thinking that it isn't the true key to happiness, that happiness is obtained through other things, not just some time spent with a person of the opposite gender.
The depression I had was possibly 90% sub-conscious, and that's probably the case for most people. Most of us grew up hearing all these fairy-tales and watching these movies that all dipected love between two people to be the best thing in reality.
Is that being brain-washed by some cultural myth? Are the parents of people in society too unintelligent to do research or look at their own marriages to tell their children that love isn't the only way you'll be happy?
My best friend told me that he wished that he wasn't interested in women, and he wished he didn't have to have love-interests of any kind.
He told me he wished that he could be single for his entire existance without feeling any negative side-effect of any possible kind because of that.
Not to start controversial agruements, but that's something that I'd want to have more than anything. If I could have the ability to be single without feeling one tiny shed of negativity of any variant because of it, I'd practically worship that like God.
This soul-mate desire thing most-likely traces back to all of our upbringings, it can be prevented from harming future generations, and it can be fixed now.
My response to Kiwong saying "being single is not a disease in need of a cure" is this:
Yes, being single forever is definitely anything but a disease in need of a cure, wanting to have a lover/soul-mate/partner so bad that you get depressed is the disease that needs to be cured.
No human being should have to be plagued from being single, it's not fair, and it's just not right in any way. I'm not wasting my life trying to get a girlfriend/wife just because I feel depressed or lonely, and nobody else should do that either.