This might sound like a weird post but... Do guys Like virgins and why?
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yeah good luck finding a virgin those days,I wouldnt blame guys who like or wouldnt like,its not like the other side is to forgiving either,I have refused to date a couple of girls who were promiscuous and had sex with not so good individuals,I got a lot of **** for it from people who dont think to much,but I dont want to risk to get a std I mean they slept with a lot of guys or slept with manwhores and there is also a very high risk of cheating since I see they like those guys,make no mistake those guys will try to get with any girl,be they taken or not,so I like to think I can trust my girl.
I think its the challenge of getting them into bed that's most thrilling
panicsurvivor
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panicsurvivor
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Yeah when I was a little younger me and a couple guys, I guess you could call "wingmen", would cruise party's, clubs, and bars to get laid. I had one friend who always was trying to find virgens. I always thought it was kind of creepy. He would always want to take them aside and talk to them away from all of us. It seemed kind of predatory. He never raped them or forced them or any thing, but I don't know it just didn't seem cool to me. I have slept with two virgins that I know of, and after those two I avoided them like the plague just because they both got really attached, and vulnerable. I don't know It has always seemed wrong to me. That is not a judgment, just a feeling. I guess for me if you love them, and intend to stick around then go for it. But if you are just looking for some fun, you really are a prick if you do it with a virgin.
JamesSmith
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I'm still a virgin so I'd have no problem with a girl being a virgin. As for the guys being worried about a woman being "bad at sex," I know i haven't had sex but I don't see how a woman could be bad at sex. I heard a stand-up comedian say that an attractive woman can't possibly be bad at sex. The audience laughed cuz they know that's true. I would imagine that he's right. By the time I do have sex, if i ever do, the odds of her being a virgin are going to be very slim considering I'll be at least 30 years old, assuming she'll be somewhat close in age. Virgins are more rare than they used to be.
jus
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CosmicNeurotica
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lol what? Who said a woman can be bad at sex?
All they have to do is lay there.
I mean, I guess if she just let out some kind of man groan, that would be considered bad.
All they have to do is lay there.
I mean, I guess if she just let out some kind of man groan, that would be considered bad.
FountainandFairfax
in a VAN down by the RIVER
I am a girl, not a guy. I haven't gone all the way with anyone before, and kind of hate being a virgin, but no, I wouldn't be clingy with someone even if he is my first. I know this because the guy I was with, I had gone from no experience (not even hand holding) to basically doing everything with him, short of the final sleeping together part, and haven't clinged onto him even though he just kind of took off in the end without so much a text message or phone call.
Tiercel
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For some reason this what what I thought of first, too. One cannot appease the Kraken with just any woman, and I'm fresh out of Medusas... Any volunteers?
On the other hand, perhaps the fact that that was my first thought shows that I don't hold them in higher or lower esteem than anyone else?
And why are virgins always the ones who need a hero to rescue them? You rarely read a book or see a movie where the hero has to rescue the town whore.
JamesSmith
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Because virgins are often lonely and have less personal relationships than other people because of their shyness. The rescuing idea comes from virgins being passive and not making the first move to make sex happen. They often need other people who have more courage to initiate sexual advances.
Derived from the archaic notion that virgins are the most valuable of women. This being because the male, upon poking her, can be fairly certain that the babies she then pops out will be his.
Has a lot to do with traditional inheritance being passed along male lines instead of female, which was never terribly logical if you think about it. When a woman gives birth, there may be some question as to whom the father is, but the identity of the mother is certain, isn't it?
hoddesdon
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I think he was talking about rescue situations other than just the single one you have mentioned. The canonical example of rescuing a damsel in distress is where she is imprisoned in a castle and the hero rescues her.
scoobycrawler
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I am a guy ( i know my advatar makes me look like a girl so I am sorry about the confusion i just like that chick from mortal kombat you know the one that kisses you then you blow up ) but i really perfer girl that isn't a virgin because they really then to be nicer and like more mature and usually not as hypocritical as someone who is less experienced and maybe a little judgemental.
...sex makes you less judgmental and hypocritical?
It lowers your expectations (not in a bad way). Virgins expect ........ but reality is more like .......... If that makes any sense whatsoever.
