This might sound like a weird post but... Do guys Like virgins and why?

[Liam17]

Well to be fair, does it really matter?

Do i like a virgin? well depends on who it is, what there personality is like etc. same with a 'none virgin".

If you ask what i prefer, my answer is. I'd rather lose my virginity to someone i love. As cheesy as it sounds.

If i loved someone them been a virgin or not is irrelevant.

 

[JosephG]

The only reason I would prefer it is because I am a virgin. I would like to be with someone who is also facing the unknown etc and that it'd be a shared special experience for us both.
But besides that I don't really see it mattering? It isn't a turn on for me or anything. Especially as I've heard it can be painful and cause bleeding. I'd rather the girl be better experienced (after I've lost my virginity) in order to get better sex?
imho

 

[Felgen]

You know, I've never really witnessed sexism until I joined this site. It amazes me.

If the general consensus is that women prefer to date men who treat them like garbage and they like to take advantage of their nice guy friends and they have a personality swap and become clingy children towards their first love-- Well, I have to ask, why are you even interested in women? If I was a male who had those notions, I would not be interested in women at all. You make them out to be selfish, immature creatures who thrive on drama.

Women who are in a desperate need of an emotional tampon will often target nice guys. This is why some men think 10% of all women represent all women.

If a girl tries to use me as her personal, emotional tampon--but doesn't really appreciate my friendship--then I'll just sever contact with her.

 

[da_illest101]

I personally would love a virgin, kinda feel good to know you are someone's first. I'm still a virgin though

 

[Liam17]

I personally would love a virgin, kinda feel good to know you are someone's first. I'm still a virgin though

Theres not many around anymore.

 

[Tiercel]

Women who are in a desperate need of an emotional tampon will often target nice guys.

That sounds like a great name for a song.

Theres not many around anymore.

For anyone interested in socially phobic, virginal men, this site's a gold mine.

 

[Lionheart]

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[Dead]

I'm a virgin.
Sometimes I get awkward when people talk about sex and what not but most the time I just play along in the knowledge.
I think it's nice only having a few partners and I wouldn't have sex with a guy until around six months anyway- so he'd probably know all this about me anyway.
I'm not saying sex should be prized but for me it's not something I'd wanna do with every Tom, Dick and Harry that comes my way.
Plus most men I find are jerks and not mature enough to handle a girl that doesn't conform.
So I'm alright with being a virgin if no good suiter comes around.

 

[Waybuloo]

The general consensus I get from seeing this topic in the media and so forth, is that virgins are tighter and that somehow is better for guys?

I think of virginity as an awkward, unpleasant thing to get over with. It is awfully painful and uncomfortable until one is no longer a virgin. I don't know why most girls (supposedly) think losing it is something special, as the reality is far from romantic.

 

[schist]

The value of virginity is a social construct - no more, no less. The ONLY reason anyone cares so much about losing their virginity is because the media and society say it's a big deal.

 

[coyote]

You know, I've never really witnessed sexism until I joined this site. It amazes me.

If the general consensus is that women prefer to date men who treat them like garbage and they like to take advantage of their nice guy friends and they have a personality swap and become clingy children towards their first love-- Well, I have to ask, why are you even interested in women? If I was a male who had those notions, I would not be interested in women at all. You make them out to be selfish, immature creatures who thrive on drama.

what is even more curious to me is how can men who have, admittedly, very little experience with women be so convinced that they know everything there is to know about them

 

[BlackPuma]

what is even more curious to me is how can men who have, admittedly, very little experience with women be so convinced that they know everything there is to know about them

That's television stereotypes at work for yah. :B

 

[NathanielWingatePeaslee]

what is even more curious to me is how can men who have, admittedly, very little experience with women be so convinced that they know everything there is to know about them

Funny how that works out, isn't it? They also seem to be the most vocal about what women are like, too.

 

[Hellhound]

Why would anyone care about that? It's silly...

 

[EdgeCrusher]

being a virgin myself i used to say i wouldnt care. assuming i actually somehow met someone. now i kind of think that it might be better if she isnt a virgin because i will probably need a somewhat experienced woman to help break me out of my shell. but being almost 30 now on the off chance that i do meet someone im sure that it will be seen as weird that i am the age that i am and still a virgin.

 

[***deleted***]

I think of virginity as an awkward, unpleasant thing to get over with. It is awfully painful and uncomfortable until one is no longer a virgin. I don't know why most girls (supposedly) think losing it is something special, as the reality is far from romantic.

I only think its awkward if you are not ready to lose it, or lose it to some random guy. Losing your virginity is special. Sex is a very intimate experience and the first time experiencing it can be beautiful or a disaster. It really depend on the person and who they choose to lose it to. It is both painful and pleasurable.
Just because it's not some cheesy romantic setting you see in the movies, doesn't mean girls should act nonchalant about it.

 

[JamesSmith]

Just so people know, I'm not one of those guys that think women love guys that are jerks. I think the only reason women are even with jerk guys is because they talk.