This might sound like a weird post but... Do guys Like virgins and why?

[JamesSmith]

i really perfer girl that isn't a virgin because they really then to be nicer and like more mature and usually not as hypocritical as someone who is less experienced and maybe a little judgemental.

I know I've never had sex before so I may not know what I'm talking about, but wouldn't a girl be more judgemental if she isn't a virgin? Because she's had sex before, so she will know what to expect and then there is the huge comparison thing between you and the other guy(s) she's slept with. Like if other guys rocked her world, you could be expected to live up to that. A virgin doesn't have any guys to compare you to, so it seems she'd be less judgemental?

 

[mmmm]

I know I've never had sex before so I may not know what I'm talking about, but wouldn't a girl be more judgemental if she isn't a virgin? Because she's had sex before, so she will know what to expect and then there is the huge comparison thing between you and the other guy(s) she's slept with. Like if other guys rocked her world, you could be expected to live up to that. A virgin doesn't have any guys to compare you to, so it seems she'd be less judgemental?

In my experience, virgins (girl ones) compare their partners to soapie stars and ideal TVland situations. Reality is better (a lot) but it is way way different to expectations. Experience gives you a little more grounding in reality. Would you rather be compared to a flawed past-partner or a perfect fantasy?

 

[ilmatross]

All the women I've had sex with have been virgins, I didn't seek them out specifically because of that it just turned out that way. Some i didnt know until afterward.

I think the reason some males would go after them is because if they're a virgin themselves there's a certain level of comfort that brings in that you can mess up and it won't be too terribly embarrassing. You don't need to know exactly what to do.

for men who aren't virgins I think it has to do with teaching someone the ropes, being looked up to to a certain degree, and showing a woman all these new experiences.

 

[ilmatross]

It lowers your expectations (not in a bad way). Virgins expect ........ but reality is more like .......... If that makes any sense whatsoever.

this is true

sex is built up to be this monumental life changing thing. It isn't. it helps you grow closer to the one you love and bond in ways no other avenue makes possible (and it feels really good) but it's not a life event by any means. you wont wake up any different.

 

[JamesSmith]

In my experience, virgins (girl ones) compare their partners to soapie stars and ideal TVland situations. Reality is better (a lot) but it is way way different to expectations. Experience gives you a little more grounding in reality. Would you rather be compared to a flawed past-partner or a perfect fantasy?

But how do you know they are comparing you to soapie stars? Did they tell you that?

 

[mmmm]

hahahahahahahahah!!!! Jamsie, I, and all my friends were comparing THEM to soapie stars.

 

[mmmm]

I'm also told that virgin boys are expecting the Jenna Jenkins experience. It works both ways.

 

[schist]

I'm also told that virgin boys are expecting the Jenna Jenkins experience. It works both ways.

Who the f**k is Jenna Jenkins?

Also, when I was a virgin, I never exhibited any of the stereotypical qualities associated with virginity, ie. extreme nervousness around the opposite sex and unrealistic expectations ...

 

[ilmatross]

Who the f**k is Jenna Jenkins?

Also, when I was a virgin, I never exhibited any of the stereotypical qualities associated with virginity, ie. extreme nervousness around the opposite sex and unrealistic expectations ...

that's probably why you're not a virgin anymore

 

[Felgen]

lol what? Who said a woman can be bad at sex?
All they have to do is lay there.

So you've visited Norway? ::

 

[Tiercel]

Who the f**k is Jenna Jenkins?

Maybe she's Leroy's younger sister?

 

[mmmm]

OOps, did I say Jenkins? I meant Jameson. My bad.

 

[Madix]

it has it's ups and downs. virgin is like....its like a fresh piece of meat i guess. ya kno? id say a down side is experience. but as far as my personal beliefs are...it depends on the girl.

 

[scoobycrawler]

would not matter to me

 

[Chopped Gupta]

I'm not a fan of virgins because

a) The process of making the virgin an unvirgin can be a little unpleasant.

b) I tend to only be interested in girls 21+ since the younger ladies tend to carry great immaturity with them. Exceptions of course! That's also where most of the virgins seem to be so yeah...

Also, don't worry about performance for your first. If the other person is really into you, they'll cut you some slack.

 

[Shygirl2011]

*girl opinion interjection*

Clingy, unrealistic expectations? Really now? Um, no- though I can't speak for every virgin girl- I can speak for myself.

I'm a virgin by choice, first bf and I almost had sex but I backed out at the last second, he was also a virgin and was totally supportive with me not going through with it.

My second bf was not a virgin but he never pressured me to have sex either.

I'm a virgin because I'm one of those Christians that is waiting till marriage- not institutionalized marriage- I want to be sure beyond a doubt that my future partner would not feel trapped beforehand.

I know this was about guys opinions but I just wanted to say not all girl virgins are clingy and unrealistic.

 

[schist]

I know this was about guys opinions but I just wanted to say not all girl virgins are clingy and unrealistic.

Nah, of course you are! If enough people say virgin girls are clingy and unrealistic, then they must be! Three men make a tiger, remember?

sarcasm, btw

 

[Minty]

You know, I've never really witnessed sexism until I joined this site. It amazes me.

If the general consensus is that women prefer to date men who treat them like garbage and they like to take advantage of their nice guy friends and they have a personality swap and become clingy children towards their first love-- Well, I have to ask, why are you even interested in women? If I was a male who had those notions, I would not be interested in women at all. You make them out to be selfish, immature creatures who thrive on drama.

 

[nzm33443]

It wouldn't be a problem for me personally. Considering I am one myself, I could hardly complain if she was too. I'd probably prefer it if she was actually.

 

[Illusions]

I thought some guys were into the, er, how you say, tightness factor?

Funny, that's the first thing that came to mind when I read the thread title.

Anyways, I've always assumed guys don't really mind either way, unless they were inexperienced themselves and would feel inadequate with a non-virgin.