Post your random thoughts/feelings etc
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Graeme1988
Hie yer hence from me heath!
I know that feeling, Srijita. I'm exactly the same, so you're not alone in your inability - for lack of a better word - to say "no".
hoddesdon
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You are so much more powerful than you give yourself credit for. Even if it occurs subconsciously, you are fashioning your life to support the image of who you think you are. If you see yourself as a helpless victim, you will attract events and scenarios to support the story of "Poor me, why does this always happen in my life?" It happens because you create it. The universe is simply doing its job of giving you what you say you want. Maybe on the unconscious level, you enjoy the negative attention that being a victim brings, and if you convince the universe that you are a victim, the universe will deliver. Isn't that a good enough reason to change your negative, self-defeating thoughts into those that exude power and possibility? Let that victim role go, and start thinking of yourself as a magnificent, powerful, and courageous being. Then sit back and enjoy the gifts the universe showers on you. These new, fresh experiences will reflect your healthy, empowered vision of yourself. - Lucinda Bassett
Srijita52
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It sucks doesn't it? Specially when you really want to but you can't.
Phoenixx
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^ Keep trying, Jonesy. You can do it!
MrSunday
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Oh darling, heed my advice! If there is an arrogant prick who's being mean to you at work, then work hard and succeed him. Then once your in a position to delegate tasks, make his life a misery! Uweheheeheheee...now that is fierce.
If there are no prospects to delegate tasks, then confront him! Ask him what's his problem in a polite manner of course. He's probably jealous of you or feels threatened by you. Your good looking.
Those girls will have a dynamite shoved up their rear if they like those type of guys. In the end, they deserve it for being so pathetic.
coyote
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I have an exam tomorrow, and I'm not prepared at all
Good luck.
I've been watching way too much House MD on DVD. Now I can't stop.
market.garden
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I have an exam tomorrow, and I'm not prepared at all
I know what you mean. I always struggled to focus when it came to revising for exams. I found that taking some time away from anything exam or study related for a few hours or even a couple of days (when you can afford the time) helped to clear the mind a little.
Good luck with your exam though
Srijita52
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I agree.^ Keep trying, Jonesy. You can do it!
Oh I know the feeling very well. Good luck!I have an exam tomorrow, and I'm not prepared at all
this_portrait
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I really need to have my a/c installed, because I don't think I can take another nasty hot day. What's really annoying about today is that it feels cooler outside than it does in my apartment (though it was the opposite yesterday). Seems like the only time I feel content is when I have the fan blowing on me.
MrJones
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^ Keep trying, Jonesy. You can do it!
Thanks girls, but there is a point when you can just say you've had enough. For some people it takes a lot to reach that point, but sadly not everyone is that strong mentally.I agree.
DeadmanWalking
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When you've had enough, then you step back and recover, then get back in the game
. There's nothing wrong with taking a break once in a while.
MikeyC
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What exposure therapy are you referring to? Your poems?