Iluv
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Yeah, marriage proposal, but then again it's on Jerry Springer.
What's to expect, but I still feel bad.
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Yeah, marriage proposal, but then again it's on Jerry Springer.
What's to expect, but I still feel bad.
Gaucho
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i was wondering today,
so in the dorm i live i got a flatmate(we have our own room tho) who isn't social, i don't think he has social phobia, we have nothing in common. i respect him and don't think bad about him, but if there was someone social i would be having much more social interaction. i can only blame myself, but i think its ironic.
so in the dorm i live i got a flatmate(we have our own room tho) who isn't social, i don't think he has social phobia, we have nothing in common. i respect him and don't think bad about him, but if there was someone social i would be having much more social interaction. i can only blame myself, but i think its ironic.
Rembrandt Broam
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I sometimes like to make the effort to be nice to people who appear to dislike me, especially when I've given them no cause whatsoever to dislike me. It makes me feel like I'm being the better person.
Eristelle
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I can't wait to get out of the house soon. Having a job might give me anxiety, but it sure beats doing nothing all day.
Gotta get this off my chest: Wow. You didn't even say bye or anything... Now you're gone for months. You'll probably say bull**** like "but you already knew I was leaving. " but whatever. **** you. **** our dead friendship, and have a nice life. When I move out of the neighborhood we grew up in, you'll probably never visit anyway. Might as well call it dead. And no, I'm not FIXING **** THIS TIME. I ALWAYS SCREW UP ANYWAY SO WHATS THE POINT IN TRYING TO RECONCILE WHEN IT'LL ONLH HAPPEN AGAIN? IF ITS THAT DEAD, THEN IT CANT BE FIXED.
I'm not going to be depressed... Feeling bad... There's no point.. Even if I do mature enough to apologize for my bull****, it'll happen OVER AND OVER. Seeing how YOU'LL never fix anything because it's typically my fault... Yeah... It's dead...
I could probably use a hug and new friends now. v_v
Gotta get this off my chest: Wow. You didn't even say bye or anything... Now you're gone for months. You'll probably say bull**** like "but you already knew I was leaving. " but whatever. **** you. **** our dead friendship, and have a nice life. When I move out of the neighborhood we grew up in, you'll probably never visit anyway. Might as well call it dead. And no, I'm not FIXING **** THIS TIME. I ALWAYS SCREW UP ANYWAY SO WHATS THE POINT IN TRYING TO RECONCILE WHEN IT'LL ONLH HAPPEN AGAIN? IF ITS THAT DEAD, THEN IT CANT BE FIXED.
I'm not going to be depressed... Feeling bad... There's no point.. Even if I do mature enough to apologize for my bull****, it'll happen OVER AND OVER. Seeing how YOU'LL never fix anything because it's typically my fault... Yeah... It's dead...
I could probably use a hug and new friends now. v_v
Opaline
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I am extremely bitter that no matter how much people spout the "it's what's on the inside that counts" cliche, the truth of the matter seems to be that appearance is primary, personality secondary.
So saying, what hope is there for people who are not beautiful or even average? What if there is something "weird" about you or you have a physical problem or anomaly? Are you no longer a person? Of course you are, but society seems to treat these people otherwise, or at least think so in the back of their minds even if they don't say it.
Depressing.
So saying, what hope is there for people who are not beautiful or even average? What if there is something "weird" about you or you have a physical problem or anomaly? Are you no longer a person? Of course you are, but society seems to treat these people otherwise, or at least think so in the back of their minds even if they don't say it.
Depressing.
Feeling_Nothing
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have to dissagree here, yes appearance is important but to what extend? Differs from person to person, personally I don't really pay much attention to it, I mean it's not a deal breaker in a relationship/friendship.
All I want is someone that takes care of herself (hygenic I mean).
Iluv
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*Hugs* Feel better. I can relate with the getting out of the house part. And I'm sure when you get a job that anxiety will start to fade as you become more comfortable. Don't be too hard on yourself.
Very depressing indeed. I was actually just thinking about this.
Society tries to wrap us in chains. Tells us certain things that we should conform to, brainwashes some and spits on others.
But always know, if your self-worth is every based on your physicality's then look at the person judging you and then base theirs by their intelligence; 0. (If that makes sense...)
This makes me bitter as well. But not everyone does this. There are very nice people out there that put personality first. Feel better though.
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MrJones
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Only for some people it's that way. It hurts a lot when people like that enter in your life. I've been made fun of all my life for how I look, I've been rejected a lot of times.
The thing is, not everyone is like that. Everyone is different and we have to focus on the ones that matter. Those are the ones who can make you happy.
Hang in there Tally *hugs*
Feeling_Nothing
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Thinking I should go to bed early for once and try to get more sleep
(10:10 pm here) but I'll doubt I'll go to bed anytime soon :O
(10:10 pm here) but I'll doubt I'll go to bed anytime soon :O
dyingtolive
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i guess it also depends where you are. If you're constantly around new people / strangers, appearance matters more. If you are around the same people, personality starts to matter more.
That's why i can function more easily in environments where im with the same people. Less fear of being judged... Not the most exciting way to live but also why some people / i decide to stay in one job / one place that is too familiar even if it is time to move on. Some getting old with the same familiar peeps and never meeting new
dyingtolive
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On the other hand, people can be judgemental too on personality. If you say one wrong thing, you can be branded as retarded. If you come off as weird, you can be branded as a freak. Whether its physical characteristics or personality, people can be quick to label.
I think this is where confidence comes in. I have always lacked it but I feel if I had it I could deflect judgements, and not let people overpower me.
I think that is also something peoples' natural instinct does. In 1 second interaction between 2 people just crossing each other, they already judge in that span of time and get a general idea of who the other person is. And people are more attracted to the more powerful.
I think this is where confidence comes in. I have always lacked it but I feel if I had it I could deflect judgements, and not let people overpower me.
I think that is also something peoples' natural instinct does. In 1 second interaction between 2 people just crossing each other, they already judge in that span of time and get a general idea of who the other person is. And people are more attracted to the more powerful.
Rembrandt Broam
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If...?
I would imagine that being one of the "beautiful people" must be very similar to being extremely rich or famous. There must be a great sense of paranoia that people are around you because of what you are, rather than who you are, and that you'll never know for sure whether they genuinely like you or whether they're just there because of what you do for them.
Opaline
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If...?
I would imagine that being one of the "beautiful people" must be very similar to being extremely rich or famous. There must be a great sense of paranoia that people are around you because of what you are, rather than who you are, and that you'll never know for sure whether they genuinely like you or whether they're just there because of what you do for them.
Perhaps, but at the same time I think that if you feel unattractive, you will feel that when you are rejected it is because of your looks, and that even if people ARE nice to you they are only doing so out of pity or whatever, but they don't really value you.
It just seems you can't win if you are as insecure as I am.
Wow. I thought the purpose of console gaming was to simplify things. Been fiddling with settings on the PS3 for nearly 45 minutes merely to get it to display full screen and have working sound. You'd think it would be a plug & play kinda deal. Ugh.
EDIT: Finally got it to work. Thank frick for that.
EDIT: Finally got it to work. Thank frick for that.
coyote
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no matter what you find
no matter who you meet
no matter where you go
no matter who you know
no matter what you see
no matter what you taste
no matter what you smell
no matter what you hear
no matter what you feel
there will always be one thing in common with everything you encounter
still not sure what it is?
no matter what you find
no matter who you meet
no matter where you go
no matter who you know
no matter what you see
no matter what you taste
no matter what you smell
no matter what you hear
no matter what you feel
so the question to ask yourself is "how much of my opinion or judgment of the people or things i encounter in life is about THEM, and how much of it is really about ME?"
another question might be "how much are other peoples' opinions of me really about THEM?"
no matter who you meet
no matter where you go
no matter who you know
no matter what you see
no matter what you taste
no matter what you smell
no matter what you hear
no matter what you feel
there will always be one thing in common with everything you encounter
still not sure what it is?
no matter what you find
no matter who you meet
no matter where you go
no matter who you know
no matter what you see
no matter what you taste
no matter what you smell
no matter what you hear
no matter what you feel
so the question to ask yourself is "how much of my opinion or judgment of the people or things i encounter in life is about THEM, and how much of it is really about ME?"
another question might be "how much are other peoples' opinions of me really about THEM?"
MikeyC
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Can you block their number?
Iluv
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No you can't on Iphones I have tried this.
Unless I am unaware if anybody knows how. But I Googled it and nothing helped.
MikeyC
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I think you can tell your phone company to block the number. For now just ignore as much as you can. Why are you scared? Is this person dangerous?