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LoyalXenite

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What do you do when you can’t make your mind up about something? I am always so indecisive which is especially bad when it’s involving someone else :/
Try flipping a coin, theres meant to be this thing that if you flip a coin and it tells you what you really wanted to choose because if you're disappointed by the coin flip results then you know that you really wanted the other option.
 
Try flipping a coin, theres meant to be this thing that if you flip a coin and it tells you what you really wanted to choose because if you're disappointed by the coin flip results then you know that you really wanted the other option.
That's the first I've heard of something like that. It sounds reasonable though. Who told you about that?

I mean, typically, I just stop everything, sit down, and figure out what would best lead to my happiness and figure out what's making me doubt stuff, typically over calming music so that I'm in the right state of mind to be making good decisions. But, I'm a thinker (too much so, sometimes). I like rationalizing stuff and working with logic, so I know my methods may not be best for everyone.
 

LoyalXenite

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That's the first I've heard of something like that. It sounds reasonable though. Who told you about that?
I dont remember when or where I learnt it tbh, but it stuck and I've found it useful. If you're not disappointed then you dont care either way so might as well let the coin decide, and if you're happy with the result then it was what you wanted, if you're disappointed you've learnt what it was you actually wanted. So it works pretty well for those moments when you just cant choose
 
What r you talking about specifically?
The guy that I am dating, I am unsure if I really want to date him or not. One day he will get on my nerves, the next, I will be happy spending time with him. The age difference still makes me uncomfortable and definitely is present in terms of experience (plus we have to sneak around his mom which is something I am too old to be doing). He doesn’t drive which is something I should be accepting of considering I JUST got my license a few months ago, but, like a jerk I’m not. I feel like the guy should WANT to drive and drive the girl around. I was behind a Mustang GT and fantasized about having a boyfriend who picks me up in one and we go on dates and stuff. I asked the universe for a gay guy (jokingly because I like metrosexual guys with immaculate hygiene, good taste, and who are sensitive) and it definitely responded lol. I feel like my boyfriend is too effeminate for me.

Another thing is his desire to try to convert me to Christianity. I can respect his beliefs, but cannot be expected to convert - I feel like that’s so disrespectful to me. Like, my beliefs don’t matter because they’re “not true” in his mind. He is a very intelligent person - more so than I - which causes him to talk to me or give me information as if I know nothing, which is frustrating.

But, on the other hand... he is very doting and attentive. Strokes my ego everyday by calling me a model and telling me how beautiful I am. He gives me massages, pays for our dates, is very honest and blunt (I like that), is responsible, has a good sense of humor etc.

I just don’t know what to do :/
 
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lily

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The guy that I am dating, I am unsure if I really want to date him or not. One day he will get on my nerves, the next, I will be happy spending time with him. The age difference still makes me uncomfortable and definitely is present in terms of experience (plus we have to sneak around his mom which is something I am too old to be doing). He doesn’t drive which is something I should be accepting of considering I JUST got my license a few months ago, but, like a jerk I’m not. I feel like the guy should WANT to drive and drive the girl around. I was behind a Mustang GT and fantasized about having a boyfriend who picks me up in one and we go on dates and stuff. I asked the universe for a gay guy (jokingly because I like metrosexual guys with immaculate hygiene, good taste, and who are sensitive) and it definitely responded lol. I feel like my boyfriend is too effeminate for me.

Another thing is his desire to try to convert me to Christianity. I can respect his beliefs, but cannot be expected to convert - I feel like that’s so disrespectful to me. Like, my beliefs don’t matter because they’re “not true” in his mind. He is a very intelligent person - more so than I - which causes him to talk to me or give me information as if I know nothing, which is frustrating.

But, on the other hand... he is very doting and attentive. Strokes my ego everyday by calling me a model and telling me how beautiful I am. He gives me massages, pays for our dates, is very honest and blunt (I like that), is responsible, has a good sense of humor etc.

I just don’t know what to do :/
There are pro's and cons in a relationship. I'd think it's rare if the guy had everything you wanted but if you really can't accept the shortcomings then you can break it off nicely.
 
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