Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

It seems certain ppl are now ignoring me on this site.


People are fking SOFT these days. Margarine has more spine than them.

PugofCrydee said: ↑

It seems certain ppl are now ignoring me on this site.


People are fking SOFT these days. Margarine has more spine than them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHLTWsmluOE

I can see Pug too

So, is that it? You’re totally allowed to say when you not feeling up to doing something or changing yer mind last minute. But I’m just supposed do whatever gets asked of me even I’m near the point of physically passing out from exhaustion? Or if I just can’t be bothered. Plaster on a fake smile, and pretty I’m happy as per usual. :thumbdown:

Aye, cuz that seems fair, eh? As long as you’re happy, why should any f*cks be given to how anyone else feels. Not that you f*ckin’ care anyway...

Kiwong said: ↑

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHLTWsmluOE

I can see Pug too

Haha :bigsmile:

PugofCrydee said: ↑

It seems certain ppl are now ignoring me on this site.


People are fking SOFT these days. Margarine has more spine than them.

itsnotme! 🙂

Did you get my last PM, Pug? :question:




Its funny how every night I say to myself that I will do "........ ........... .........." off my list of things that need doing.
Then nigh time comes around again, and I haven't done it!
So then I say "I will definitely get that done tomorrow"! .......But then the next night I am saying the exact same thing. :oh:
Each night I am so sure and enthusiastic to get that task done the next day, but over the course of the next day, the desire just disappears. :idontknow:
It is very weird and frustrating, lol :/

Funny how most of the folk who say they really care about ya only ever seem to genuinely mean that when it's too late.

BlueDays said: ↑

itsnotme!

Did you get my last PM, Pug?




Its funny how every night I say to myself that I will do "........ ........... .........." off my list of things that need doing.
Then nigh time comes around again, and I haven't done it!
So then I say "I will definitely get that done tomorrow"! .......But then the next night I am saying the exact same thing.
Each night I am so sure and enthusiastic to get that task done the next day, but over the course of the next day, the desire just disappears.
It is very weird and frustrating, lol :/

🤭 lol no of course it's not you Blue. You are AWESOME.
Yes I did get your last PM, I've been at work the last few days so I'll have time to respond today :thumbup:

Yea sometimes I'm like that too. Jobs I know I have to do for some unknown reason I procrastinate.. oh wait. There it is - I procrastinate. :bigsmile:

PugofCrydee said: ↑

Yea sometimes I'm like that too. Jobs I know I have to do for some unknown reason I procrastinate.. oh wait. There it is - I procrastinate. :bigsmile:

Lol, yes I know it has a name - Procrastination.

What I don't understand is WHY the night before, I am eager and totally convinced that I WILL get it done the next day! :idontknow:

And this process just keeps repeating itself. Why does my brain not adjust its thinking and realise - at night - that there is a 98% chance that I will still procrastinate, with that task, the next day...

WHY does my mind persist in "lying" to me, making me FEEL like there is a 100% chance I will get it done the next day!? lol :oh:

I wonder if it is a primitive survival mechanism that exists because the brain thinks "well I have to make her believe she WILL get it done the next day, otherwise she won't sleep well tonight".
Like a.....You-will-get-it-done-tomorrow,now-get-a-good-nights-sleep! instinctual thought. :bigsmile:

So, when I tell you what to do, it’s “nagging”. :oh:

But you telling me what to do, and stating the obvious at the same time, is you “only trying to help”... How exactly?! 😕 :idontknow: Ye git that doing that aw the time has a negative effect, right?

If someone apologizes to you because they feel guilty that you caught them doing you wrong, it's not really an apology. They don't really care about what they did to you, they just want to feel less guilty about getting caught.

theoutsider said: ↑

If someone apologizes to you because they feel guilty that you caught them doing you wrong, it's not really an apology. They don't really care about what they did to you, they just want to feel less guilty about getting caught.

Every argument I’ve ever had with my family, ever ! But then they’d always make me out to be the one who’s done wrong, so... :idontknow: I think having to accept said fake apology and pretend everything’s great between you and the person who wrong ya is slightly worse than the apology itself. That might just be me, though?

Pyrophosphate said: ↑

I got my computer science degree more than two years ago. I've worked at the local McDonald's ever since. I've almost completely lost hope that I can ever have the career I wanted.

Do you code? DM me with more details -- I might have some useful advice if you're proficient with programming languages. VJs resources are very helpful too, definitely look into work at home options as an extra faucet of income.

BlueDays said: ↑

Lol, yes I know it has a name - Procrastination.

What I don't understand is WHY the night before, I am eager and totally convinced that I WILL get it done the next day! :idontknow:

And this process just keeps repeating itself. Why does my brain not adjust its thinking and realise - at night - that there is a 98% chance that I will still procrastinate, with that task, the next day...

WHY does my mind persist in "lying" to me, making me FEEL like there is a 100% chance I will get it done the next day!? lol :oh:

I wonder if it is a primitive survival mechanism that exists because the brain thinks "well I have to make her believe she WILL get it done the next day, otherwise she won't sleep well tonight".
Like a.....You-will-get-it-done-tomorrow,now-get-a-good-nights-sleep! instinctual thought. :bigsmile:

Wait a minute Blue - I think I have the reason and answer..

Haven't been online for a long time and there's not a lot of posts, oh well

geezus... where is everyone?...

Hey Graeme, I'm thinking of learning acoustic guitar. How long do you think before one is able to strum some tunes?

Respect is taught at home.
If your kid is a disrespectful little s h it , it's your fault.

Not society's, not music's, not video games.

Yours.

i'm a little tired of people's words saying something while their actions say otherwise.

Could I hire someone to cuddle with? Not a weirdo or anything, just a cute guy with good hygiene that smells good to keep me warm at night who is nice, really funny, intelligent, has a good job, good morals, likes animals, is adventurous, likes traveling, has a good heart, is loving - okay, I want a boyfriend...

PugofCrydee said: ↑

Hey Graeme, I'm thinking of learning acoustic guitar. How long do you think before one is able to strum some tunes?

Can't really say how long that'll take ye, Pug. A few month? :idontknow: It all depends on how you take it, and if you get beyond that initial period where yer fingers will be sore from getting used to holding down the strings with yer fretting hand. Swearing should get ya though it.

But I'd recommend buying a finger exerciser to built up the strength in yer fingers. As well as build up callus on, so you don't end up with too many blisters. And pick easy songs to start with, and learn the chord properly before learning the strumming pattern. That's the only advice I can give you. Oh, and if your hands start getting sore, take a break from playing for a while. :thumbup: