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shyflower

shyflower

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Im totally confused.. I don't get why people say one thing and mean another ..or how they end up changing their minds several times a day. I have never been a last minute planner and wish people could make their minds up the first time. Days like these.. I just say the hell with it! :thumbdown:
 
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GraybeardGhost said:
If the other guy already broke his jaw with one punch (as I interpret Weirdy's account), he might do well to make other arrangements . . . and learn to duck.
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He probably sucker punched the poor kid. I just hope the kid gets even in some way after what got done to him. 3 Teeth and a broke jaw, .... its baseball bat time, ladies and gentlemen ;)
 
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springk

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Sleep is precious. I don't want to be so depressed like I was the day before. I am scared how things can get so bad without any reason.
 
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Lavinialuna

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Weirdy- did the guy get arrested? What a ****!
I am afraid of being hurt too, physically or emotionally. I used to live by some wanna be gang bangers when I was in my 20's. I used to smoke back then and would go to smoke on my deck and be afraid that they were going to shoot me.
Fear is a huge reason that I am agoraphobic too. (I will leave the house occasionally, but hardly ever alone. Safety in numbers, I suppose, and having someone there helps distract me from over thinking any other people around.


On another note, I took the advice of some of you guys and met with those girls from high school. We had a great talk and we laughed a lot. Thanks for the encouragement, it was very helpful!.
 
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Lavinialuna said:
That was super nice of you, now you just have to wait and see if he actually learned from it, or if he just isn't suited to that line of work, continues messing up and looks for you to bail him out consistently. Only time will tell, but no matter how it turns out it is obvious to me that you are a swell guy :thumbup:
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Aww i wouldn't say that. He seems to be doing better today. More looking and thinking and measuring than before and it'll pay off for him. He's plenty book smart but its the common sense stuff that's got him stumped. He sees the rest of us who have been in the trade for years and figures he should be able to do it just like we do and he gets frustrated. So we're nailing down the basics and going from there.
 
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Lavinialuna

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Why can't I let myself make mistakes? And why are stupid things I said 15+ years ago haunting me? I need to learn to let these things go. I need to come up with some kind of penance that I have to do to make things right inside my mind.
Does anyone else have any ideas on how to put my mind at ease?
 
dottie

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Lavinialuna said:
Why can't I let myself make mistakes? And why are stupid things I said 15+ years ago haunting me? I need to learn to let these things go. I need to come up with some kind of penance that I have to do to make things right inside my mind.
Does anyone else have any ideas on how to put my mind at ease?
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Everyone does/says stupid things when they are young. It's normal.
 
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Lavinialuna said:
Why can't I let myself make mistakes? And why are stupid things I said 15+ years ago haunting me? I need to learn to let these things go. I need to come up with some kind of penance that I have to do to make things right inside my mind.
Does anyone else have any ideas on how to put my mind at ease?
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I reckon we've all done stuff we regret, be it words or actions. Do you remember dumb embarrassing stuff other people did? Probably not. Nobody but you probably remembers your mistakes either. I wouldn't get too worked up over it. :thumbup:
 
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dottie said:
Everyone does/says stupid things when they are young. It's normal.
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jc972 said:
I reckon we've all done stuff we regret, be it words or actions. Do you remember dumb embarrassing stuff other people did? Probably not. Nobody but you probably remembers your mistakes either. I wouldn't get too worked up over it. :thumbup:
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Thanks guys. It's amazing how much I have matured in the past 20 years, and it's strange to look back and remember those things I did. :eek: I'm the same person, but not the same person, know what I mean? And it isn't even anything that bad, just stupid things I've said. I know I am over reacting.

jc972 said:
He ain't been back to the Dr yet. Kid sure has a big appetite though, and a fast learner. He crawls through the house hollering "sissy!" after our daughter and it's so adorable :)
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Glad to hear he is doing well :applause: Does a parent good when they have a hearty appetite. I bet your daughter just eats that up!
 
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Lavinialuna said:
Thanks guys. It's amazing how much I have matured in the past 20 years, and it's strange to look back and remember those things I did. :eek: I'm the same person, but not the same person, know what I mean? And it isn't even anything that bad, just stupid things I've said. I know I am over reacting.
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Try it. Just try to remember some classmate getting tongue tied or saying something totally uncool. Betcha you can't. Betcha they can't either! I used to be the same way till i came to the above conclusion. And if anybody ever asks about it just act like you dont remember and say it was somebody else did it.
 
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Lavinialuna

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jc972 said:
Try it. Just try to remember some classmate getting tongue tied or saying something totally uncool. Betcha you can't. Betcha they can't either! I used to be the same way till i came to the above conclusion. And if anybody ever asks about it just act like you dont remember and say it was somebody else did it.
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Lol! Denial, that is the best :bigsmile:
I will give myself a pass and try to forget about it. I am too hard on myself, but dang it, I hate not being perfect!
 
shyflower

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I had met a new friend.. I thought it was wonderful because I had someone to laugh with again. I got a text this evening and he said that he felt he was losing his freedom being around me. I didn't ask for anything more from him.. I just wanted friendship. He said that he liked being single and that he did not want to be tied down. I did not take him away from what he liked to do.. his karaoke on weekends and being around his family. I went to the karaoke when he invited me to go.. that's all. He didn't have to be so mean to me and tell me I was a problem.. It hurts to cry and I don't know why guys enjoy it knowing that I am sitting here crying...:crying:
 
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shyflower said:
I had met a new friend.. I thought it was wonderful because I had someone to laugh with again. I got a text this evening and he said that he felt he was losing his freedom being around me. I didn't ask for anything more from him.. I just wanted friendship. He said that he liked being single and that he did not want to be tied down. I did not take him away from what he liked to do.. his karaoke on weekends and being around his family. I went to the karaoke when he invited me to go.. that's all. He didn't have to be so mean to me and tell me I was a problem.. It hurts to cry and I don't know why guys enjoy it knowing that I am sitting here crying...:crying:
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I ain't enjoying you crying and I'm a guy! Forget him! There's plenty of us out there :) god, what a jer.k
 
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Lavinialuna

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shyflower said:
I had met a new friend.. I thought it was wonderful because I had someone to laugh with again. I got a text this evening and he said that he felt he was losing his freedom being around me. I didn't ask for anything more from him.. I just wanted friendship. He said that he liked being single and that he did not want to be tied down. I did not take him away from what he liked to do.. his karaoke on weekends and being around his family. I went to the karaoke when he invited me to go.. that's all. He didn't have to be so mean to me and tell me I was a problem.. It hurts to cry and I don't know why guys enjoy it knowing that I am sitting here crying...:crying:
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So sorry he hurt you. I know it hurts now, but he probably did you a favor. Sounds like a loser.
When you find the right person (even if it's just a friend) it will feel natural and neither of you will see each other as a burden. Hope you don't cry for too long. :sad:
 
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