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Lately I can't stand the sight of overly affectionate couples. There was one right across from me for my whole train ride home. I nearly cried.
 
Ithior

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MikeyC said:
Oh, man. I hate these situations. I'm assuming the male is the friend you have and the female is the friend-of-a-friend. All intents and purposes say you should stop chatting with the female, but I suppose it depends on who you get along with better.

Tread carefully. Someone's going to get hurt no matter what you do.
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The thing is, they're both friends of mine. The three of us and 8 more were in the same class in middle school, and we've kept going out together regularly ever since. Another thing is, this girl also dated a guy from this group, and when they broke up the guy left the group. And to top it off, two weeks ago I went out with that girl and another girl from the group to watch a football (soccer) match. This week I'm going to watch another match, with the guy and the same girl that went the other time. I feel like I'm being used for something, I usually don't get invited by certain people of this group (all of the three mentioned so far) to do small group stuff, I only get invited by them when everyone else is invited.

I feel like I'm being used to determine who's going to be cast aside from the group.
 
Ithior

Ithior

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kihira said:
I hold myself back like this as well, usually because I'm thinking about all the steps needed (resume, apply, interview, on and on...) and I get overwhelmed and give up. I suggest doing one step (finish CV) without thinking about the next step at all, then you will have one thing done and you can then think about the next.
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MikeyC said:
Sounds like you're very comfortable at home, which isn't a bad thing, but it would be if you're wanting to move out.

Definitely get that CV done, and then see what options lie ahead. As much as it's easy and comfortable at home, earning your own money is always great. Then you can spend it any way you like!
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I just saw an ad for a job that I think I'd actually like to do. Unlike all the other ads I've seen where there's always that puts me off (either a personal characteristic or requiring a car for example), this one didn't have any of the sort (or maybe my mentality just changed?). Now that I have an actual goal, I think I can complete my CV.
 
SoScared

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Leaving a project half-done especially a difficult one is dumb. It’s always so difficult and so time consuming to pick up again a few days later when the momentum has been lost. :crying: When will I learn? :eek:h:
 
Kiwong

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I went into a situation that I was tempted to avoid. Something that is meant to be an event I enjoy, but had become something to be feared. Where I have heard some say "It doesn't look like anxiety to me." Tonight I was assertive, I refused to be put in a situation where I could be misrepresented. I ran my race and exercised my right to run it on my own terms and finish without being abused.
 
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Silatuyok

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Kiwong said:
I went into a situation that I was tempted to avoid. Something that is meant to be an event I enjoy, but had become something to be feared. Where I have heard some say "It doesn't look like anxiety to me." Tonight I was assertive, I refused to be put in a situation where I could be misrepresented. I ran my race and exercised my right to run it on my own terms and finish without being abused.
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Good for you. :thumbup:
 
Phoenixx

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I haven't even been home 24 hours and my parents are already arguing. What a wonderful thing to wake up to. :thumbdown: Great, I'm probably going to be in a horrible mood today. Ugh... I'll be sure to keep myself busy to take my mind off everything.

On a better note, I did happen to wake up earlier to my cat curled up in a ball right up against my chest and face before I went back to sleep. I didn't feel him come in last night, I was so tired. Looks like he missed me more than I thought he did. :3
 
Ithior

Ithior

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Huh... my mum has been sending me e-mails about job offers, internships etc. abroad. But the last one she sent is about long distance relationships. Not sure why, I don't have a girlfriend or anything even remotely close to that.
 
Phoenixx

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quietjosj said:
@Phoneixx I hope everything gets better mate
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^ Thanks quietjosj. Today ended up not being so bad. After my parents had their bout, the rest of the day was really quiet. They ignored each other and I ignored everyone else, and I actually enjoyed the peace and quiet. :p I already got caught up with half of my shows today too.
 
Phoenixx

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What to do.... Unpack from yesterday and put away my laundry, or continue to lay in bed and watch more of my shows....? :question:
 
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Scandic123

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Yet another storm here in Northern Europe. A month ago, Denmark had its strongest winds ever recorded, and now, Britain has its worst floods in 60 years. This is a clear proof that climate change is a problem we're going to encounter more and more often. It's sad that the world leaders are so incapable of actually doing something to prevent a potential worldwide disaster...
 
MollyBeGood

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amazing dream last night..I was holding a grizzly bear cub, and having this motherly conversation with it before I had to release it back to the wild, petting it's cute little bear head quickly before momma showed up all the while a mtn lion was attacking my ex, chewing on his head :)
 
Phoenixx

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April Snow said:
amazing dream last night..I was holding a grizzly bear cub, and having this motherly conversation with it before I had to release it back to the wild, petting it's cute little bear head quickly before momma showed up all the while a mtn lion was attacking my ex, chewing on his head :)
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