Post your random thoughts/feelings etc

This is my 2000th post.

Yay!

(No idea why I'm saying yay, it's not exactly an achievement)

Sorry if anyone's trying to talk to me in the chat, it isn't working, I'm hearing bleeps (or bloops) but I can't see the chat. So sorry

pebblesdundee said: ↑

This is my 2000th post.

Yay!

(No idea why I'm saying yay, it's not exactly an achievement)

BlueDays said: ↑

Uh-oh, I'm feeling the millenium bug

I need to stop drunk-posting at 4am.

Also, hungover. Ughh...

Really into a movie, the tensions mounted, and then dinners ready. Typical

I spend everyday wishing I had my old life back.

I need to find new people to be a part of my life. I want a new life, a better one.

Hopefully I can find people that I can connect with as well I as I did with my old friends

I have the same birthday as Jack Nicholson and earth day *puffs chest*

I wish I was a tramp..

Lea said: ↑

I wish I was a tramp..

Why Lea ?

Call me silly, call me oversensitive, I really don't care. But I personally think it's rude to call your server "Honey, sweetie, hun" or any other term of "endearment" (and I would not consider it that, I would consider it a cheap way of saying, "You're such a cute little slave, fetch me my demands, will you?").

If THEY'RE ordering from YOU, why are they calling you those things? I don't know... does anyone understand what I mean? It comes across as condescending and patronizing to me, and I freaking hate it. I do my best to ignore it but every time I hear it my insides shrivel :S

Beatrice said: ↑

Call me silly, call me oversensitive, I really don't care. But I personally think it's rude to call your server "Honey, sweetie, hun" or any other term of "endearment" (and I would not consider it that, I would consider it a cheap way of saying, "You're such a cute little slave, fetch me my demands, will you?").

If THEY'RE ordering from YOU, why are they calling you those things? I don't know... does anyone understand what I mean? It comes across as condescending and patronizing to me, and I freaking hate it. I do my best to ignore it but every time I hear it my insides shrivel :S

Different people take things different ways. He may be offending you without realising, because that's the way the were brought up and that's the way they live. I guess it's just another thing you have to put up with if you go into a job where you have to interact with people

pebblesdundee said: ↑

Why Lea ?

I feel like it's the only right way to live somehow.. The way we live now is so unnatural. Living outside however takes a lot of courage, toughness etc. The main problem for me is that I am scared sleeping out at night alone, even with other people. But the closeness to nature, fresh air etc., is priceless.

Lea said: ↑

I feel like it's the only right way to live somehow.. The way we live now is so unnatural. Living outside however takes a lot of courage, toughness etc. The main problem for me is that I am scared sleeping out at night alone, even with other people. But the closeness to nature, fresh air etc., is priceless.

That's beautiful 🙂.

I don't think you want to be a bum, I just think you want to be free.

I'm sure you'll be able to do all that, one day

is there a thread to post encouraging links to websites about SA and stuff

Beatrice said: ↑

Call me silly, call me oversensitive, I really don't care. But I personally think it's rude to call your server "Honey, sweetie, hun" or any other term of "endearment" (and I would not consider it that, I would consider it a cheap way of saying, "You're such a cute little slave, fetch me my demands, will you?").

^ I never liked being called "hun" or "sweetie" by strangers either, but I don't consider it stating what you described. I just don't feel it's right, for some reason. I guess I feel like it's a term that families should use, people that really know you. I should have a much better reason, but I can't really describe it. All I know is that I only like that term said to me if it's by my father or my other relatives. Don't mean to sound rude, but that's just how I think of it.

But, like pebbles said, you do have to deal with those types of things in that sort of environment/workplace. I used to get called "hun" and such even when I worked concessions at the theatre. 😛

Phoenixx said: ↑

^ I never liked being called "hun" or "sweetie" by strangers either, but I don't consider it stating what you described. I just don't feel it's right, for some reason. I guess I feel like it's a term that families should use, people that really know you. I should have a much better reason, but I can't really describe it. All I know is that I only like that term said to me if it's by my father or my other relatives. Don't mean to sound rude, but that's just how I think of it.

But, like pebbles said, you do have to deal with those types of things in that sort of environment/workplace. I used to get called "hun" and such even when I worked concessions at the theatre. 😛

Uh-oh, sorry for calling you hun :/

Lea said: ↑

I feel like it's the only right way to live somehow.. The way we live now is so unnatural. Living outside however takes a lot of courage, toughness etc. The main problem for me is that I am scared sleeping out at night alone, even with other people. But the closeness to nature, fresh air etc., is priceless.

I feel exactly the same way at times and have been considering something life changing.

pebblesdundee said: ↑

Uh-oh, sorry for calling you hun :/

^ Hm, I don't remember you calling me hun, but if you did, no offense taken. We're good. 😉

Phoenixx said: ↑

^ Hm, I don't remember you calling me hun, but if you did, no offense taken. We're good. 😉

Ok hun .