one comment which has affected your confidence

decadent88

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Ok,.. Here are few.
"I just realized! You are so freaking ugly!"
"Our driver is better paid than your sister!"
"Hey, stop talking! Nobody gives a sh** about your opinion!"

I hated those words. But never really could hate the persons who spoke them.
 

anuskas

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When I was a little girl my uncle said something like "You have to eat the carrots because you have ugly eyes" and I grew up sad about my eyes and started to wear make up to make them prettier LOL
 

IGotSeoul

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"Are you a girl?"

I'm not sure if I should be concerned about my personal appearance or questioning the competence of that certain individual.
 

MrJones

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"Are you a girl?"

I'm not sure if I should be concerned about my personal appearance or questioning the competence of that certain individual.
I used to have long hair (heavy metal!!) and been confused for a girl too.

And that stupid MyHeritage thing said I look like Audrey Hepburn. I don't see the resemblence... Maybe I used to look like a woman, but at least like a pretty one haha
 

Agent_Violet

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I used to have long hair (heavy metal!!) and been confused for a girl too.

And that stupid MyHeritage thing said I look like Audrey Hepburn. I don't see the resemblence... Maybe I used to look like a woman, but at least like a pretty one haha

Audrey Hepburn...beautiful and classy. Be proud:)
 

IGotSeoul

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I used to have long hair (heavy metal!!) and been confused for a girl too.

And that stupid MyHeritage thing said I look like Audrey Hepburn. I don't see the resemblence... Maybe I used to look like a woman, but at least like a pretty one haha

we are/were very pretty men. ::p:
 

MollyBeGood

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^Where is your picture!!! lol long hair is awesome.

Always consider the source of a negative comment. I really tried to think of something bad someone said to me and I cannot think of anything not b/c nothing has ever been said bad but yeah, if I think about WHO said it then I can just be like "Meh...go F*** yerself looser" LoL
 
"Are you a girl?"

I'm not sure if I should be concerned about my personal appearance or questioning the competence of that certain individual.

Ahh, That is a weird question, lol. people asked me too.
I know this can ruin your confidence, but it's only just confusing by 1 person, at least their not making fun out of it. It could always be worse. (i know thats a silly phrase)
 

MaliceInWickedland

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"Are you a girl?"

I'm not sure if I should be concerned about my personal appearance or questioning the competence of that certain individual.

I know how you feel. I've always been sort of a tomboy at heart and people used to poke fun at me a lot for it. Several months ago when I was still in high school, this one really b***** cheerleader that I really disliked came up to me and nonchalantly asked me if "I really had a vagina behind my pants".

The cruelty and incompetence of some people never ceases to amaze me.
 
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there was one time i was introduced to a friends neighbor i smiled and said hi weakly. later i walked into my friends house, and his mother starts talking to him about how im so immature for not saying hi to the lady and that im rude and i need to grow up. then she noticed i was standing behind her son and was like "well its true, you need to grow up you hurt peoples feelings when you act like that" and it went on from there. it was prob one of the worst things someone has said to me.
 

MaliceInWickedland

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My mom just got me good:

Mom: You're still awake??
Me: Yeah.. you know I have insomnia.
Mom: Mhmmm~ you're probably webcamming with your boyfriend ;)
Me: ...I don't have a boyfriend anymore...
Mom: Oh that's right. You're too shy to make your relationships last.

...Wow.

I know my mom's just being my mom (the sarcastic master of deadpans she is) but damn. The fact that she's right makes it hurt even more -____-
 

AGR

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Well a guy said last week that "damm you are always right",I corrected him and said not always,not always.........just 90 % haha jk

Some girl also said that I am hilarious.
 

Boby

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Well it was many years ago...it was my first and only chance i've ever got to having a girlfriend.
After one date she told me this:
"Sorry but you are to young and inexperienced ,this is not going to work!"
Bamm confidence level before 90 after 10 ::(:
Yeah she was 2 years older but what the Hell she was expecting from me:confused:
 
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